Some of you may remember me and others may need an introduction. I was a regular on these threads for a few years. I got busy with life (well, busier than normal) and wanted a break from thinking/posting about money constantly. I've been around though and you've probably seen me pop up on other threads.
I'm separated a few years now. It took a few years (and a lot of hassle with banks and solicitors) but I finally transferred my mortgage into my sole name.
DD is 20 and entering her final year in college. She will probably go on to do a Masters, but I'm told a Masters costs in the region of €10k. Not quite sure where we're going to come up with €10k. DD may need to take a year or two out and work to fund it. Or she may take time out and go travelling for a year or two - who knows? She passed her driving test earlier in the year. We're sharing my car, which isn't going particularly well. We have the money to buy a car for her (second hand car, obviously) but she asked if she could hold off until she finishes college. She's mindful of the cost of insurance and petrol and maintenance and NCT etc.
Earlier this year I set up a dedicated Christmas fund.
I've also set up a high interest (but secure) savings account for a big holiday I'm planning. The account can only be accessed once a year. I'm setting up a Standing Order, so the payment automatically leaves my bank account on the 1st of each month. Isn't technology great?
. I don't have to remember to call in and lodge my payment each month.
My child maintenance payments will probably stop once DD finishes college in 2026. I'll miss the money, but I'll be glad to sever that tie with my Ex.
I need to consider a health insurance policy.
I also need to consider a meeting with a pensions expert. But I suspect they'll tell me that I should be paying more money into my pension/AVC. So I might hold off and do that in the new year.
I need to revise my monthly budget to factor in the holiday payments each month. I'll probably need to trim my spending a bit. I'm guilty of the following:-
- thinking I deserve a treat because I work so hard. Like nobody else works hard! <rolls eyes at self>
- take aways because I'm tired/stressed/couldn't be arsed cooking
- failure to plan/remember to do things. Stuff like, I discovered a plate of turkey leftovers in the fridge earlier which I forgot to put in the freezer. It's in the fridge a few days now and I'll have to chuck it
So I may need your help to keep on the straight and narrow.
Hope all is good with you guys. I look forward to catching up with those of you I know and I look forward to meeting the new frugaleers.