Hellloo all! We are back from Leeds graduation and it was a perfect day! DS looked glorious in his gown (and new suit and watch 😉), ceremony was lovely, Pimms and Proud Face photos afterwards, then zoomed off to collect Ddog from daycare and for celebration lunch at Bavette. Jay Rayner's recommendation came through for us - now in our top five of restaurant experiences. Ilkley afterwards so DS could change out of his suit before heading off to Manchester and for a second hotel night for us.
I really like Ilkley - definitely going back. We went to a book fair, had a glass of rose and a sharing plate at Friends of Ham, walked up to the edge of the moor, walked the river, bought a cake at Betty's and some wine at a really good independent merchant which DH swooped upon delightedly, having remembered its existence from a previous visit. Everyone seemed in holiday mood, all friendly and chatty. Can it always be like this???
Anyway, on spends, I am of course, down to my last £80 across my current account, my guilt-free spends and my travel pot after all our joyous indulgence. All planned for, so fine. Pay day on 1st August, so will be able to start topping up again, but also have boring significant expenses (renovation, insurance renewal) coming up, which will make big ol' inroads into my emergency/resilience pot. Also, we set off to France at the end of the month - most of the accommodation is paid for, but the extra nights in a chambres d'hôte on the road either end still to be paid.
The long and the short of it: I will be spending my arse off, but carefully. Lots of NSDs to offset the planned spends, and much wincing at the end of September/early October while I wait for my pension and lump sum payments to kick in.
pearls - sorry to hear that your job is not what you hoped. But you have done brilliantly to get back into the workplace after a significant break, and are in a much stronger position to get another role. Hopefully the search will help you detach from the daily irritations of the current role - have you tried recruitment consultants? Networking events? these are often good ways to practice your interview responses and get your motor running.