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Amble into April Frugaleering

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Unescorted · 17/04/2022 08:15

Follow on from the old thread

This is a space / long running thread for people wanting tips on making life cheaper for what ever reason and support who have to make living less expensive. If you are new here just post away everyone is welcome.

Frugal tips from the hive mind so far....

Check your outgoing-are they essential, are you on the best deal
Loyalty cards for stores you regularly shop at
Meal plan
Annual budget rather than monthly for those, well annual, expenses
Second hand is fine for 90% of stuff
Sign up to money saving expert emails
Insulation at home.
Close curtains at dark and tuck behind rads
Foil behind external wall rad
Turn the heating down . Tropical houses are not necessary
Use the washing line when you can
Look out for food recycling scheme- bread and butter thing, company shop, too good to go type things
Do you have to buy that Christmas/ birthday present. Can you give time instead
Eat less meat (tho I’m rubbish at this)
Have a on toast day. Or baked potato weekly
Double up while the oven is on for a reheat meal or a bake. Save electric running the oven less.
Branded goods are not always the best
-Walk those short trips if possible, instead of using the car (I am the worst for doing this). Saves petrol, good exercise too.
-Combine car trips better too eg dropped DD off at an activity tonight, which is next to the supermarket.
Cancel sky, if you still want the programmes switch to Now Tv for a fraction of the price
Cancel any subscriptions you don't need. Check direct debits to make sure you're not paying for anything you no longer need by accident
Check all your bills, insurances etc are the cheapest you can get for the cover you need (the last bit is important)
If you can get a voucher, use a cash back site or have some sort of work discount (nhs, bluelight, Tesco, student etc) check before paying
Meal plan before you shop. Make extra to freeze for another day as it's often cheaper per kg to buy bigger packs of meat
Go veggie a couple of times a week
Aldi and Lidl are great but not if you're going to get sidetracked by the aisle of doom
An annual budget is essential but pay yourself first each month so money into the annual pot, into savings, off debt before anything else happens. Make sure there's a line in your budget for fun money even if it's a tiny amount, budgeting can be a grind otherwise
You will have patches of spendiness and demotivation, don't give up just start again from wherever you end up
Take your own drinks, snacks, food, picnic - Invariably cheaper and nicer
Make your own if you have a stocked baking cupboard and spice cupboard. Cheaper and nicer, tho building said cupboard can be ££ (costs can be reduced by a visit to your local international supermarket)
Aldi for baking stuff it’s fine.
Work out of season for clothes as it’s usually cheaper
i switched to a coffee subscription (coffee is my weakness) - so our local shop delivers me a 250g bag of ground coffee every 2 weeks (i have 4 in the cupboard currently) and i make my own morning coffee. the subscription is for 6 months and costs me £58 i think. a takeaway from the same shop is £2.80 a pop. so it is a money saver. I bought a Contigo cup (spendy but worth every penny). so take my coffee hot to work with me.

I'm also a fan of using it up. so tings like toiletries, stationary (i am also a notebook hoarder) food etc. not replacing until it's all gone (or all of one thing gone).

my Lloyds account does "save the change" so it rounds up a purchase and then moves the pence to my savings account.

I also pay myself first on payday and am trying to use the things we have- zoo membership - use it loads so worth the £160 a year cost. same with my gym membership i use it so get my moneys worth.

Also what you can save/be frugal on can be inversely related to your means. If you have more "spare" money per month it's easier to buy in bulk and choose things that are cheapest per kg. If you have less or no spare money this isn't possible to do and then you're looking at cheapest price per item rather than per kg.

Agree re taking own stuff although I do often forget but a good coffee cup and water bottle is a good investment if you can afford it

If you have a dog use something like all about dog food to work out what the best food is you can buy based on what you can afford to spend per day
I also give the clothes an extra spin in the washing machine before they go in the dryer, and dry outside whenever i can - currently not living at home, so limited to a washer dryer (which is crap) and an airer next to a rad which i hate.

im a big fan of using the freezer and freeze anything i can. we buy reduced items (like bread and keep it in the freezer as it saves it going off - we maybe get through a loaf every couple of weeks).
I know that credit cards are sometimes seen here as the work of the devil (on MN specifically not this thread) but if you have one use to to your advantage. Mine gives me money back in the form of M&S or amazon vouchers every quarter depending on how much I've spent. and as long as you pay it off every month it works.
Top Cashback for all internet purchases.
Join the library - many have free access to Audible, Libby (for magazines and newspapers) as well as having an amazing selection of books.
Consider how you cook things - residual heat cooking works really well for rice and any slow cooker recipe.
Grow herbs and salad leaves on a window sill
Grow soft fruit - your local allotment / neighbours with a raspberry cane/ strawberry / current / gooseberry will be more than happy to give you a cutting.
Look for local food pantries
If you need credit use a Credit Union. If you are saving support your local credit union by becoming one of their savers.

Useful websites
Money Saving Expert especially the 90 ways to survive the cost of living crisis

Independent Foodbank Network There are some things that I wish we did not need

CAB

step change

cooking on a bootstrap

Thrifty Lesley

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CurlsandCurves · 30/04/2022 09:34

Not sure where the ‘but by not’ came from in my first sentence!

HalfWomanHalfChocolate · 30/04/2022 09:41

Decaff she’s quite a new cleaner. I’m not 100% convinced but it took us ages to find one - there’s a real shortage round here (outer London). I was struggling massively without one as DH and I both work full time and have children with SN so they (especially the oldest) have quite high caring needs. The house was a tip throughout 2021 and it really affected my mental health. So I have a reasonably high tolerance threshold but the kitchen floor wasn’t even very clean. Sigh.

Thanks for the offer on hearing loss. I am not sure yet whether there is a problem - I’ve never had any reason to worry about her hearing so will wait and see what the re-test brings before I add it to my proper worry list!

Off to a sofa shop today. Just looking in one more place before ordering as I wasn’t 100% sold on the other one and it was really expensive.

Decafflatteplease · 30/04/2022 10:36

@WreckTangled and @CurlsandCurves yes that's what the bank are doing, asking us to keep is within a certain range and it gets lower each time they ask iyswim. Ideally we want to be out of it completely but hey ho. Only on the one salary as I'm a full time carer to disabled DC.

We also need a new car, sefonyhand would be fine we've always had second hand ones but the prices are ridiculous ATM. But our current car is in the garage every few weeks and I wonder whether paying out to fix it all the time is really worth it. We can't do without the car it's bad enough coping when it's in the garage. Also has to be a 7 seater so even pricier than a normal car.

Uurgh

WreckTangled · 30/04/2022 10:41

Cars are a nightmare. It's a catch 22 when you can only afford cheaper ones as they just end up costing more. My car is 11 years old and I hate it so much but it's currently working fine and we can't afford a newer one. Plus even £10k can't guarantee you a car that won't cost you hundreds in repairs now 🙄

ememem84 · 30/04/2022 10:45

All of my spending on credit card for house related things has paid off. I received £150 vouchers for m&s today as a reward. That’ll keep me in Percy pigs for a while

BigSkies22 · 30/04/2022 14:11

Well done curls.
I have been looking at my cash flow for the next year every which way, and the only way I can make it work on current income levels is to transfer my outstanding credit card balance to another 0% card and prolong the repayment period. If I get the one I want, and use the full interest-free period to repay, then I can reduce my monthly payments by around £260. Which means I can build up a savings buffer and even pay for the occasional treat. I had hoped to hit the debt hard and get rid, but it leaves me too exposed. The trick is not to spend the extra money but save It!

Aldi run this week - £76, should keep us going for the best part of two weeks, with top ups on fruit/veg/butcher. Freezer full of dog food. Theatre tonight - DH's treat, we're perched in balcony seats for Jerusalem.

Big splurge for April - I picked up 3 pictures from the frame shop, £364. Hanging them will be one of the nicer tasks of the long weekend.

Timetoswitch · 30/04/2022 17:23

Your comment about your assistant’s resignation made me chuckle em . I often have to put my poker face on, when we’ve received a resignation.

half I would be no use to anyone the next day if I worked all night too. I’m in awe in how you do it! Takeaway was well deserved.

Not been too spendy here. Opened a new regular saver with First Direct as the interest rate is pretty good.

Hope everyone enjoys the bank holiday weekend, and hope everyone who has to work has a quiet one!

Unescorted · 30/04/2022 17:44

Cars are a money sink - I got a good deal on my ex lease car. really high mileage, but because I drove it from new l know it wasn't ragged. I hope to get another 5-10 years from it.

Paying the overdraft / credit down is so hard at the time but so worth it. The interest payments all add up & with the way inflation is atm it is not unthinkable that the Bank of England will put the base rate up again.

Today has been a run around day - picked up compost and bark to condition the soil. I am so pernickety about my soil - cost me £60. £13 in Aldi - to get the gubbins for a lemon tart and salad (my contribution to my DM's birthday dinner). £15 on nails, screws and hacksaw blades for various projects around the house.

I have learnt a new skill today - how to use a wood saw properly. I have put my new skill to good use making wooden seed trays out of the slats from a redundant bed and a broken gate. It was oddly satisfying making something new from rubbish.

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TheNewlmprovedMrsMadEvans · 30/04/2022 18:15

Unescorted well done lovely that is brilliant it's so satisfying l get it l really do Smile
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marthasmum · 30/04/2022 20:28

decaff I really understand your car dilemma. I was in exactly the same position, crunch came when I had to spend £1000 on the car and knew it wasn’t worth that. I did end up buying another one for £10000 (most I’ve ever spent on a car) in hopes it wouldn’t cost so much to fix and so far that’s been the case. However it was then costing me £200 per month repaying the loan to buy it - I justified this by thinking I’d keep it well past the time the loan was paid off.
I did research it obsessively and it’s a 7 seater (Ford galaxy) so if you ever wish to have car discussions I’m your woman! I got very invested in the search for a 7 seater that still has a large boot (dog, camping gear etc…) I would say research it thoroughly as I did end up with exactly what I wanted.

AdoraBell · 30/04/2022 20:34

£3.80, bread, crumpets and chocolate cookies on offer.

DH spent £42 in B&Q and about £15 in discount shop.

CheeseMaiden · 30/04/2022 21:28

Was such a relief to get paid on Friday! Celebrated by buying a bar slab of chocolate and some crisps from our local coop, £5! I don’t often buy snacky bits but it seems like prices have really gone up.
I was expecting my pay to go down with the NI rise but have been given a small pay rise which covers the increase. I work for quite a small company and a few of us have been worried about cost of living- I wonder if HR have been listening into our lunchtime chats!
This evening I have done our monthly budget and put money in various Monzo pots. Might treat myself to a hair cut this month, haven’t had one in a year and it’s getting a bit out of hand!

ememem84 · 30/04/2022 21:40

Spends. £49 dunelm (couple more plates and side plates, a glass to replace the one DH broke, replacement lunchbox, basket for drawer for kids chocolate, slice/lifter/spatula thing, bottle brush, washing up brush. And an oxo brand tub for weetabix

£114 coop. Enough food to last a couple of weeks.

HalfWomanHalfChocolate · 01/05/2022 00:31

Em I too have had to rearrange my face when someone resigned, so as not to look too jolly

Our car is 7 years old, we should really be saving up for a replacement in a few years. Another thing to think about!

I’m hoping my increase in hours will more than cover the NI and pension changes, but I think the tax is going to be brutal. Not to mention the cost of living changes. Our food bill is ludicrous, I really need to get on top of that. DH needs to get on board though, he doesn’t do light main meals (soups, eggs, jacket spuds, things-on-toast) or veggie.

today was spendy. £50 deposit on church hall for Dd’s birthday party - this will probably be her ‘most of the class’ one, future birthdays will be a just few friends. Not sure what activities we’ll go for, I need to think on.

something ? on tube fares to look at sofas, and about £6 on a bagel for lunch while out. And £116 Ocado (low for us!)

also, 2 sofas ordered. Not the cheaper ones. Ouch. I cannot confess £££ as they were not bargainous. They had quoted me £322 for 4 arm covers though (I asked if they did them as DS does touch the arms of the sofa a lot and he’s a bit grubby) but that seemed ridiculous. I’ve found the same fabric online and will make my own for £50, just hope they don’t look too amateurish. Delivery in August! 😮Now I’m looking at accent colours for cushions. And a pouffe. DH is sick of the subject already 😂

hoping I can be arsed to do some decorating tomorrow.

lifelongfrugaleer · 01/05/2022 06:58

Walk today and a big stock up shop. Also need to meal plan and buy todays dinner now IL are definitely coming

Unescorted · 01/05/2022 08:23

Cheese that is really good of your employer.

Half - get tips on sewing from YouTube and North who is so skilled at sewing.

We should have a suggest a good / rate my You Tube / Instagram / Internet instructions section..... I am sure I can't be the only one to follow a video to find that small but a really important part has been left out, which if you know how to make the thing you just do but if you are new to it it is make or break.

I have woken up to rain - which the plants in the garden sorely needed, but I could have done without for another day or 2 so I could have dressed the soil. I will now have to wait until it dries out again to prevent sheering & compaction.... the joy of clay. The washing may even get sorted.

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Decafflatteplease · 01/05/2022 13:51

I've just downloaded the Lidl app.

I think I've said I go to Lidl about once a month and try to buy loads of cereal, crisps, snacks etc.and we do our main shop at ocado with an Asda top up and m.and s top-up.

I'm going to try switching it up and doing our top up shop at Lidl for the next few weeks rather than Asda and see how it goes. Also hopefully that will mean we rely less on ocado aswell.

Have done a couple of price comparisons and eg pork mince we buy every single week on ocado is £3.50 for.500g at 5percent fat. Same weight and fat content at Lidl is £1.79 that's almost half. Actually embarrassed at how much we spend on ocado!

Also on the app you get extra offer eg I've got money off cheese.

And rewards if you spend so much in a month. I suppose the 1st of the month is a.good time to set it up.

Let's see how we go!

AdoraBell · 01/05/2022 17:48

Spendy day, DH wanted to go out. Lunch in local Italian restaurant-about £48, then joined British Heritage. Can’t remember how much, I’ll look it up and post later.

AdoraBell · 01/05/2022 17:51

English Heritage, not British 🤦‍♀️ , £103 for 15 months.

WreckTangled · 01/05/2022 17:52

£20 cinema
£14.31 snacks for cinema
£1.98 Krispy Kreme for dd.

Dh paid for lunch £63.

Decafflatteplease · 01/05/2022 17:55

£8 on treats from the shop midway through a walk. I told the children rhye could have £1 each and they rose to the challenge with gusto 😂 figuring how much they could get for £1...all good maths practice anyway!

Decafflatteplease · 01/05/2022 18:03

@AdoraBell that will be a good investment. We are national trust members and also a local nature reserve.

National trust is £10 a month and we go to our local one at least once a month and if we were to pay normally it would be £20. Also you can just pop for an hour or so rather than feeling you have to stay all day just to get your money's worth.

We invested in a really good quality large flask so we take iced.water in the summer and hot chocolate in the winter. And a pack of biscuits 🤣

ememem84 · 01/05/2022 18:37

Dd has just started wetting herself again. Seems to be afternoons/evenings most frequent. In the last 2/2.5 hours she’s had three accidents. Same yesterday. Same Friday.

it’s confusing. And frustrating. She says it hurts when she pees (although she only said that because I asked her if it hurt).

would you persevere with pants or go back to pull ups temporarily? (She’s on week 12 maybe of potty training)

WreckTangled · 01/05/2022 18:46

Can you Amazon some dipsticks and test her wee? It's unusual to regress after being dry for a bit. Dd always used to suddenly wet the bed a few nights before she became unwell. I probably wouldn't go back to pull ups even though it's frustrating, she will likely see it as a punishment.

ememem84 · 01/05/2022 19:02

Good idea re the dipsticks. Will pop to boots tomorrow and ask pharmacist if there’s anything that might help. I have to go anyway to pick up bubble bath and shampoo.

she’s in a pull up now but it’s almost bedtime and if I’m honest I couldn’t face another pair of pants change.