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Amble into April Frugaleering

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Unescorted · 17/04/2022 08:15

Follow on from the old thread

This is a space / long running thread for people wanting tips on making life cheaper for what ever reason and support who have to make living less expensive. If you are new here just post away everyone is welcome.

Frugal tips from the hive mind so far....

Check your outgoing-are they essential, are you on the best deal
Loyalty cards for stores you regularly shop at
Meal plan
Annual budget rather than monthly for those, well annual, expenses
Second hand is fine for 90% of stuff
Sign up to money saving expert emails
Insulation at home.
Close curtains at dark and tuck behind rads
Foil behind external wall rad
Turn the heating down . Tropical houses are not necessary
Use the washing line when you can
Look out for food recycling scheme- bread and butter thing, company shop, too good to go type things
Do you have to buy that Christmas/ birthday present. Can you give time instead
Eat less meat (tho I’m rubbish at this)
Have a on toast day. Or baked potato weekly
Double up while the oven is on for a reheat meal or a bake. Save electric running the oven less.
Branded goods are not always the best
-Walk those short trips if possible, instead of using the car (I am the worst for doing this). Saves petrol, good exercise too.
-Combine car trips better too eg dropped DD off at an activity tonight, which is next to the supermarket.
Cancel sky, if you still want the programmes switch to Now Tv for a fraction of the price
Cancel any subscriptions you don't need. Check direct debits to make sure you're not paying for anything you no longer need by accident
Check all your bills, insurances etc are the cheapest you can get for the cover you need (the last bit is important)
If you can get a voucher, use a cash back site or have some sort of work discount (nhs, bluelight, Tesco, student etc) check before paying
Meal plan before you shop. Make extra to freeze for another day as it's often cheaper per kg to buy bigger packs of meat
Go veggie a couple of times a week
Aldi and Lidl are great but not if you're going to get sidetracked by the aisle of doom
An annual budget is essential but pay yourself first each month so money into the annual pot, into savings, off debt before anything else happens. Make sure there's a line in your budget for fun money even if it's a tiny amount, budgeting can be a grind otherwise
You will have patches of spendiness and demotivation, don't give up just start again from wherever you end up
Take your own drinks, snacks, food, picnic - Invariably cheaper and nicer
Make your own if you have a stocked baking cupboard and spice cupboard. Cheaper and nicer, tho building said cupboard can be ££ (costs can be reduced by a visit to your local international supermarket)
Aldi for baking stuff it’s fine.
Work out of season for clothes as it’s usually cheaper
i switched to a coffee subscription (coffee is my weakness) - so our local shop delivers me a 250g bag of ground coffee every 2 weeks (i have 4 in the cupboard currently) and i make my own morning coffee. the subscription is for 6 months and costs me £58 i think. a takeaway from the same shop is £2.80 a pop. so it is a money saver. I bought a Contigo cup (spendy but worth every penny). so take my coffee hot to work with me.

I'm also a fan of using it up. so tings like toiletries, stationary (i am also a notebook hoarder) food etc. not replacing until it's all gone (or all of one thing gone).

my Lloyds account does "save the change" so it rounds up a purchase and then moves the pence to my savings account.

I also pay myself first on payday and am trying to use the things we have- zoo membership - use it loads so worth the £160 a year cost. same with my gym membership i use it so get my moneys worth.

Also what you can save/be frugal on can be inversely related to your means. If you have more "spare" money per month it's easier to buy in bulk and choose things that are cheapest per kg. If you have less or no spare money this isn't possible to do and then you're looking at cheapest price per item rather than per kg.

Agree re taking own stuff although I do often forget but a good coffee cup and water bottle is a good investment if you can afford it

If you have a dog use something like all about dog food to work out what the best food is you can buy based on what you can afford to spend per day
I also give the clothes an extra spin in the washing machine before they go in the dryer, and dry outside whenever i can - currently not living at home, so limited to a washer dryer (which is crap) and an airer next to a rad which i hate.

im a big fan of using the freezer and freeze anything i can. we buy reduced items (like bread and keep it in the freezer as it saves it going off - we maybe get through a loaf every couple of weeks).
I know that credit cards are sometimes seen here as the work of the devil (on MN specifically not this thread) but if you have one use to to your advantage. Mine gives me money back in the form of M&S or amazon vouchers every quarter depending on how much I've spent. and as long as you pay it off every month it works.
Top Cashback for all internet purchases.
Join the library - many have free access to Audible, Libby (for magazines and newspapers) as well as having an amazing selection of books.
Consider how you cook things - residual heat cooking works really well for rice and any slow cooker recipe.
Grow herbs and salad leaves on a window sill
Grow soft fruit - your local allotment / neighbours with a raspberry cane/ strawberry / current / gooseberry will be more than happy to give you a cutting.
Look for local food pantries
If you need credit use a Credit Union. If you are saving support your local credit union by becoming one of their savers.

Useful websites
Money Saving Expert especially the 90 ways to survive the cost of living crisis

Independent Foodbank Network There are some things that I wish we did not need

CAB

step change

cooking on a bootstrap

Thrifty Lesley

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WreckTangled · 27/04/2022 20:04

Nsd finally!

Not sure re occupying poorly toddler. Mine are way past that stage!

I got paid last week and feel like it's already gone Hmm

Decafflatteplease · 27/04/2022 20:08

@CheeseMaiden what about playdough? Easy to make your own?

Have you got any bubbles bubbles are always a hit here!

Extra long bath will all the bath toys you can find?

Blankets and books on the couch?

CheeseMaiden · 27/04/2022 20:52

@Decafflatteplease to the rescue! I hadn’t thought about making playdough, I’ll give it a go tomorrow 😆
our fruit and veg box arrives tomorrow, DD loves sorting through it (and leaving little bite marks in everything).

ememem84 · 27/04/2022 22:22

And home. Long ass day

Unescorted · 27/04/2022 23:26

Hello lovelies old and new.... I have realised I missed quite a few people off my welcome and now more people. Please don't be offended I am truly shit with names.

North I have fingers crossed things will calm down after the count. I am keeping my head down until then.

Playdoh is really easy to make... BBC good food has a recipe. If you want it to last use plenty of salt and tartaric acid to keep the mank at bay.

Takeaways are a pest. So tempting after work.

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Unescorted · 27/04/2022 23:28

em that was me yesterday

Mrs it will come good. Bald plants establish more easily.... So long as there are plenty of roots.

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HalfWomanHalfChocolate · 28/04/2022 00:55

I had no idea Amazon even sold plants! I consider myself warned though Mrs

WFH and NSD , though I am about to buy a book for DD - she’s brought the same library book home from school about 5 times so I reckon if I want her to choose something else I’m going to have to buy her a copy 😂

I am hoping I can gear myself up to finally painting my sitting room this weekend, or at least making progress. I have the paint but need a few bits (filler, tacks for skirting board that’s worked loose etc). The prep is the worst bit, right? There’s a lot of built-in woodwork to paint which is why I’m procrastinating. But…, long weekend! Yay!

in the meantime, too much work, gah.

HalfWomanHalfChocolate · 28/04/2022 01:05

Oh, and DD failed her school hearing test today. They’re repeating in a few weeks so fingers crossed it was a blip

HumbugWhale · 28/04/2022 06:32

Morning all! I haven't had much time to post this week, it's been so busy back at work after the holidays. Welcome newcomers!

Busy-ness hasn't left time for spending though so it has been a very low spend week apart from £60 Lidl shop for the week and some charity shop plant pots that were a pound each and I love them! They are really pretty and they mean I can reclaim all the saucers I was standing plants of for the kitchen!

It's gone cold again hasn't it? Trying very hard to resist turning the heating back on. Have got my thermals on today!

Good luck with the decorating Halfwoman, I agree the prep is horrible. I don't mind the painting once I get started though. I need to do dd's room soon.

WreckTangled · 28/04/2022 06:55

HalfWomanHalfChocolate · 28/04/2022 01:05

Oh, and DD failed her school hearing test today. They’re repeating in a few weeks so fingers crossed it was a blip

I do this for a job. 95% of the time they pass the second screening. 9 out of 10 children get glue ear at some point, I'm sure she will be fine Smile

I'm wfh today to save fuel. Should be a nsd.

Decafflatteplease · 28/04/2022 07:38

@HalfWomanHalfChocolate myself and DC both have a hearing loss so if you have any questions fire away!

@CheeseMaiden I like the nurturestore playdough recipe I used to help out at a toddler group and we used this one.

Decafflatteplease · 28/04/2022 07:48

We had a letter from the bank saying they are looking at reducing our overdraft limit, uurgh

We go Into the red every month normally about 7-10 days before payday.

It's so hard balancing up saving money with what is easiest aswell eg I was saying to my husband we spent £5 a day on school dinners (2 children have them) that's £100-120 a.month depending on how long the month is. Packed lunches would possibly be cheaper but it's another job to do in the already manic morning.

Plus teen says no one has pack ups 🙄

WreckTangled · 28/04/2022 07:53

Both mine have packed lunches. Ds (9) doesn't mine either way. Dd (11) was spending £2/3 a day just on cake (as well as having a packed lunch!) so I stopped putting any money on her card. She knows we can't afford it, unfortunately all of her friends are rich but it's just something she has to deal with, I also told her that I don't but myself lunch every day so why should she get to Grin

ememem84 · 28/04/2022 07:56

cleaning team back in today - an extra deep clean following the building work. So hopefully the house will be reset.

back to office today. Exhausted! Thankfully it’s my last day this week.

belephant · 28/04/2022 09:10

Yesterday was a lot more spendy than I'd have liked - went for a walk with our baby to a park, there was a cafe so as a treat me and DH thought it would be nice to get a coffee to enjoy sat on a bench. I send DH to purchase them. He comes back with a sandwich and cake each too - £15 in total!! Said he suddenly felt hungry 🤣😩 they were nice and we enjoyed them so it's okay, but I've told him that's our treat for next month done!

Today will be a NSD day I hope. Just me and the baby at home so should be fine.

HTruffle · 28/04/2022 10:52

Hi all, not posted for a while but trying really hard to keep spending to a minimum. Just done weekly shop in Aldi. I find if I buy slightly more stuff there such as an extra milk / loaf it reduces likelihood of a sainsburys nip in later in the week and therefore the chances of another £20 wasted on random stuff! Picked up some stuff to put away for the kids birthdays. We have a big family so I have started a huge spreadsheet of all the birthdays and people we buy for at Christmas. Any time I see something in the sale or a bargain I pick it up and mark that person on the sheet. I really hope this will prevent the mega Christmas cost we have had the past few years. Not to mention Christmas should be more enjoyable as a result.

BigSkies22 · 28/04/2022 12:55

Hello, can I join? I have posted before on money matters/credit crunch/frugal threads, and found the comradeship motivating. And I need a boost now 'cos I've just done my tax return. And although I have done a tax return every April for the last 15 years, somehow I always forget that after calculating what you owe for the last tax year, HMRC adds the first six months of the current tax year on account. So my tax bill is 50% higher than my initial calculation. And I forget this. Every. Single. Time.

Oh well. I will start a payment plan in May, but will have to do the majority of the payments in November, December and January (an even more frugal Christmas this year, then!) because I am repaying a credit card loan I took out to pay for DS' foundation art course. 0% and the last repayment is in October. Also paying DS' rent at university - currently £766 a month, until June, then it drops when he moves into a shared house to around £530 month. I had hoped that the autumn would bring slight looser spending conditions and the possiblility of saving more with those costs reduced/gone, but c'est la vie.

Frugal ways adopted over the last few years: no spending on clothes, have pared my wardrobe right down to what I love and need. Some things have had to be replaced (a pair of trousers, sandals, a jumper and later this year, I will need a really good warm coat - will be dropping heavy hints for birthday) but for the most part, my spending is pretty low there. Have halved my contact lens usage and monthly sub. Never renewed my gym membership after lockdown, get my exercise with walking (dog, and rather than using the bus or car for errands) and YouTube workouts. Given up the booze. Hobbies are mostly reading (libraries, secondhand shops) and writing. I've signed up to ShowFilmFirst for free/low cost tickets for cinema, theatre, live music, etc. Local fleapit for cinema (£4.99). Aldi shopping, and only when we've emptied the stores (I"m off there today). DIY where I can - I've done the loft insulation and rads, manage most of the painting, redoing grout and sealant. Draw the line at plumbing, tiling and electrics.

Frugal tips for gardening - if you grow hostas, dig up the rootball in the autumn, and saw it into smaller pieces and replant. You cannot treat them too badly and you get loads of lovely new plants for free. Viburnum is fairly easy to propagate from cuttings, as are perlagoniums and box. Japanese anenomes and persicaria will take quite happily if you dig up a bit with some root and transplant. Verbena bonariensis and lavender will self-seed quite freely, and probably grow better than where you originally planted them. Our garden is a bit of a tricky site - horribly soggy and shady for big chunks of the year, so when I find something that will flourish, I try and repeat it.

If you are feeling restless and chafing under the budgetary restrictions, go declutter and clean or tart something up with a lick of paint (ideally using paint you already have). This often works for me (sorry if it sounds dismal and a counsel of despair), especially when I'm craving buying something for the house. I find looking after what I already have can satisfy the itch, or at least make the interlude while I save up for a new sofa/rug/armchair/light/artwork more tolerable! Next project: the coat cupboard in the hallway - I'm going to clear it out, clean it, paint the inside and maybe get one of those stick-on lights from Amazon.

Stuff I can't do without: haircut and colour every 8 weeks. Good for morale and a local business. Nice haircare products. A bit of make-up (Nars, Glossier - not high-end, but not the cheapest I could buy). FT every Saturday. Lavazza coffee.

WreckTangled · 28/04/2022 13:59

Oh yes the tax on account. DH has just gone back to self employed, he's taxed at source for most of his work (CIS) but not everything. Not sure how it'll work out. I think when it all goes digital the tax on account will change slightly won't it? As they will calculate in quarterly instead of an annual tax return? Need to look into it...

marthasmum · 28/04/2022 14:30

decaff I know what you mean about the ease of school dinners. Though I have just persuaded my teens back into packed lunches by dint of giving them crap to eat with nothing healthy at all, which at least they will eat. I’ve let myself off because the lunches they were eating at school were even more crap!
big some good tips there
i miss the playdoh days! Though I did have an incredibly vivid dream recently about being pregnant with twins. I was very glad to wake up non-pregnant!

AdoraBell · 28/04/2022 14:55

£2.52 in B&Q, herb plant.
£2.30 in coffee shop.

DH has ordered something like chicken wire to stop rabbits getting into the garden. The little buggers have stripped the roses we planted. £34 on tent pegs to secure the wire. That was on offer so we got 100 pegs, in Mountain House.

AdoraBell · 28/04/2022 15:14

Or Mountain Warehouse, can’t remember which is the correct name 🤦‍♀️

BigSkies22 · 28/04/2022 17:47

adora - that's disappointing. Will the roses recover? I gave up on pak choi and rocket after losing seedlings to slugs, all in one night, but roses are something else again. We lose most of our figs, cherries and crab apples to birds and squirrels. I just grow them for the blossom and pretty foliage now. Have given up all hope of a decent crop.

Unescorted · 28/04/2022 18:33

Half the prep is the worst of it. Once you get to the painting you are on the home straight.

Decaff - mine were on pack ups or thin air.

Big - is he doing a BFA at uni? My DD is & is loving it. I have the best fridge art. The materials are eye wateringly expensive - she pays me back with work.
Thanks for the garden tips... how ethical is it to dig up someone else's hostas and cut a lump off it during the night? I could knit my own balaclava in case they have one of those Ring door bells.

Belephant it is so frustrating when your spending / saving priorities are different to your partner. It might be worth sitting down with him and agreeing joint priorities before it becomes an issue. I think that conversation comes under frog swallowing & one I had to have with my dh when we got to a financial crisis point. It is better to do before the shit hits the fan.

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AdoraBell · 28/04/2022 19:12

I think they will BigSkies, I’ve put dog hairs around them, under the leaves and the branches. Apparently predator smell deters them. I have my fingers crossed.

DH has a balaclava for sailing, I’m sure he’ll be happy to lend it if you like unescorted 🤣

lifelongfrugaleer · 28/04/2022 20:16

Great gardening tips
sorry b busy here but still reading