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Amble into April Frugaleering

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Unescorted · 17/04/2022 08:15

Follow on from the old thread

This is a space / long running thread for people wanting tips on making life cheaper for what ever reason and support who have to make living less expensive. If you are new here just post away everyone is welcome.

Frugal tips from the hive mind so far....

Check your outgoing-are they essential, are you on the best deal
Loyalty cards for stores you regularly shop at
Meal plan
Annual budget rather than monthly for those, well annual, expenses
Second hand is fine for 90% of stuff
Sign up to money saving expert emails
Insulation at home.
Close curtains at dark and tuck behind rads
Foil behind external wall rad
Turn the heating down . Tropical houses are not necessary
Use the washing line when you can
Look out for food recycling scheme- bread and butter thing, company shop, too good to go type things
Do you have to buy that Christmas/ birthday present. Can you give time instead
Eat less meat (tho I’m rubbish at this)
Have a on toast day. Or baked potato weekly
Double up while the oven is on for a reheat meal or a bake. Save electric running the oven less.
Branded goods are not always the best
-Walk those short trips if possible, instead of using the car (I am the worst for doing this). Saves petrol, good exercise too.
-Combine car trips better too eg dropped DD off at an activity tonight, which is next to the supermarket.
Cancel sky, if you still want the programmes switch to Now Tv for a fraction of the price
Cancel any subscriptions you don't need. Check direct debits to make sure you're not paying for anything you no longer need by accident
Check all your bills, insurances etc are the cheapest you can get for the cover you need (the last bit is important)
If you can get a voucher, use a cash back site or have some sort of work discount (nhs, bluelight, Tesco, student etc) check before paying
Meal plan before you shop. Make extra to freeze for another day as it's often cheaper per kg to buy bigger packs of meat
Go veggie a couple of times a week
Aldi and Lidl are great but not if you're going to get sidetracked by the aisle of doom
An annual budget is essential but pay yourself first each month so money into the annual pot, into savings, off debt before anything else happens. Make sure there's a line in your budget for fun money even if it's a tiny amount, budgeting can be a grind otherwise
You will have patches of spendiness and demotivation, don't give up just start again from wherever you end up
Take your own drinks, snacks, food, picnic - Invariably cheaper and nicer
Make your own if you have a stocked baking cupboard and spice cupboard. Cheaper and nicer, tho building said cupboard can be ££ (costs can be reduced by a visit to your local international supermarket)
Aldi for baking stuff it’s fine.
Work out of season for clothes as it’s usually cheaper
i switched to a coffee subscription (coffee is my weakness) - so our local shop delivers me a 250g bag of ground coffee every 2 weeks (i have 4 in the cupboard currently) and i make my own morning coffee. the subscription is for 6 months and costs me £58 i think. a takeaway from the same shop is £2.80 a pop. so it is a money saver. I bought a Contigo cup (spendy but worth every penny). so take my coffee hot to work with me.

I'm also a fan of using it up. so tings like toiletries, stationary (i am also a notebook hoarder) food etc. not replacing until it's all gone (or all of one thing gone).

my Lloyds account does "save the change" so it rounds up a purchase and then moves the pence to my savings account.

I also pay myself first on payday and am trying to use the things we have- zoo membership - use it loads so worth the £160 a year cost. same with my gym membership i use it so get my moneys worth.

Also what you can save/be frugal on can be inversely related to your means. If you have more "spare" money per month it's easier to buy in bulk and choose things that are cheapest per kg. If you have less or no spare money this isn't possible to do and then you're looking at cheapest price per item rather than per kg.

Agree re taking own stuff although I do often forget but a good coffee cup and water bottle is a good investment if you can afford it

If you have a dog use something like all about dog food to work out what the best food is you can buy based on what you can afford to spend per day
I also give the clothes an extra spin in the washing machine before they go in the dryer, and dry outside whenever i can - currently not living at home, so limited to a washer dryer (which is crap) and an airer next to a rad which i hate.

im a big fan of using the freezer and freeze anything i can. we buy reduced items (like bread and keep it in the freezer as it saves it going off - we maybe get through a loaf every couple of weeks).
I know that credit cards are sometimes seen here as the work of the devil (on MN specifically not this thread) but if you have one use to to your advantage. Mine gives me money back in the form of M&S or amazon vouchers every quarter depending on how much I've spent. and as long as you pay it off every month it works.
Top Cashback for all internet purchases.
Join the library - many have free access to Audible, Libby (for magazines and newspapers) as well as having an amazing selection of books.
Consider how you cook things - residual heat cooking works really well for rice and any slow cooker recipe.
Grow herbs and salad leaves on a window sill
Grow soft fruit - your local allotment / neighbours with a raspberry cane/ strawberry / current / gooseberry will be more than happy to give you a cutting.
Look for local food pantries
If you need credit use a Credit Union. If you are saving support your local credit union by becoming one of their savers.

Useful websites
Money Saving Expert especially the 90 ways to survive the cost of living crisis

Independent Foodbank Network There are some things that I wish we did not need

CAB

step change

cooking on a bootstrap

Thrifty Lesley

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Unescorted · 09/05/2022 17:15

wolf that sucks.

My desire to work didn't get any better. I am going to have an early night tonight.

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WreckTangled · 09/05/2022 17:51

£23.80 dentist. Also prescribed some high fluoride toothpaste but I don't pay for my prescriptions.

BigSkies2022 · 09/05/2022 20:42

Found a tub of Aldi Greek yoghurt 10% fat in the fridge with a use by April 09 date on it. Ate it with a banana and some chia seeds and it was perfectly fine.

£9 in Sainsbury's topping up fruit, veg and a block of cheddar. Dh bought posh sourdough (refuses the Aldi stuff). Chicken fillets for lunch from Sainsbury's £2.80.

Resisted temptation to buy books today, have plenty to be getting on with at home, and will be doing so after this post. Did a nice long back mobilisation workout before dinner. Cheap spaghetti with pesto, peas, asparagus and basil dinner tonight.

Agreement for credit card came though, so signed it and will post tomorrow. Balance transfer should come into effect in a few days, so monthly cash flow on personal account will ease a bit.

lifelongfrugaleer · 10/05/2022 06:17

I would have eaten the yoghurt too
good news the balance transfer will help. Are you doing the so trick?

Decafflatteplease · 10/05/2022 07:08

@BigSkies2022 I thought for a second you meant April 2009 and I was like 😱😱

That would be the most extreme frugaleering ever I think!
🤣🤣

BigSkies2022 · 10/05/2022 08:22

What's the SO trick? It's a 0% deal for 21 months, so I basically divide the balance by 21 and set up a DD to clear it over the period. Is there a better way?

And is there a way to repay/overpay the mortgage by standing order versus direct debit?

ememem84 · 10/05/2022 08:41

BigSkies2022 · 10/05/2022 08:22

What's the SO trick? It's a 0% deal for 21 months, so I basically divide the balance by 21 and set up a DD to clear it over the period. Is there a better way?

And is there a way to repay/overpay the mortgage by standing order versus direct debit?

So trick is to cancel any direct debit re your cc then set up a standing order for the minimum payment plus a bit more (even if it’s just £1). Then this pays off the capital and interest every time.

BigSkies2022 · 10/05/2022 10:12

OK. But a 0% deal hasn't any interest, so it's all capital repayment. So I guess SO/DD makes no odds on that one?

For the mortgage, we have just renewed with a 5 year fixed deal at 2.44%. Overall, the remaining term is about 8 years. It's always been a capital repayment loan deal, never interest only. Husband pays off an amount each month which was calculated to clear the whole balance over the whole term - so a chunk of capital, a bit of interest, and the proportions change over time as we pay off the loan. PLUS, he bundles an overpayment into the same transaction (don't know whether it is direct debit or standing order, but it is done at the same time, same payment). Does it make any difference doing it by DD or SO and if so why?
Back when I had more cash available, I was making an additional overpayment by standing order, and that overpayment moved up from £25 to £150. Now I'm not doing it, but if I get a bit more headroom, once I've built up my own emergency fund, I might think about doing it again. What is the best way of doing it?

TheNewlmprovedMrsMadEvans · 10/05/2022 12:28

Decafflatteplease · 10/05/2022 07:08

@BigSkies2022 I thought for a second you meant April 2009 and I was like 😱😱

That would be the most extreme frugaleering ever I think!
🤣🤣

I thought that too Grin

BigSkies2022 · 10/05/2022 13:05

OK, sorry to mislead on the yoghurt dating! I live with 2 fussy blokes who get squeamish about Use by dates, and thought I was rather living on the edge!

Exciting spend today - cleaner/descaler for the Saniflo units. Hurrah! But, more fun, have ordered a light for the coat cupboard which is next on my list for decluttering and getting shown a bit of love. Might be June's project though. £37 for both.

marthasmum · 10/05/2022 13:12

Ha ha big I recently had some yoghurts from feb which DP and I scoffed. My DMum always gave us out of date food and her mantra was that if the top of a yoghurt wasn’t ‘blown’ you were ok.
Have had to take DDs car (bought cheap from my mum) to garage today - looking at around £400 😳 which is not really in the budget. She’s about to have her 18th and will get her child tax ISA thingy (about 2,000 I think as we didn’t put much in it). She’s offered to pay out of that but not sure I’ll take her up, it feels a bit mean. She does have a job but uses that to pay for driving lessons.
I’ve rebuffed finances a bit as keep overspending on day to day expenses. I’m going to put them on a credit card and pay it off monthly so I can see exactly what I’m spending. It’s helped me keep on track better with the food budget. I’ve realised a lot of my overspending there is when I feel social pressure eg I’ve not seen someone for ages and have a meal/ drink planned with them but I’ve actually run out of money - I need to budget better for these things.

Unescorted · 10/05/2022 13:30

I will not eat yogurt because my dad made me eat one that was well over its use by date. I can still taste it... it was warm as well.

With the SO you are in control of the amount. With a DD they can reduce or increase it and just notify you that is has changed.

Looking at my garden I will need to find a use for Chard. It is much more successful than expected. I think some will have to go to the seed/ plant swap. The herbs are looking smart... in 2-3 weeks they will have paid themselves back. Salad & Chinese leaves are also coming along

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ememem84 · 10/05/2022 16:23

£45 from TopCashback into my account and to be put against credit card.

£12200 paid to builder. 😭

have refuted the final invoice from window people (£4200). They haven’t done things I asked for. So am holding the money for this back until the work is finished.

jobs for this evening. Log in to work and file some emails. Bake flapjack. Ironing. Put laundry away.

lifelongfrugaleer · 10/05/2022 17:07

Yes that’s the so thing. If your payment /21 will clear your balance then great as long as you can fix the dd.

fizzy yoghurt is a no here too. The only use by I’m really fussy on is chicken

spendy here £7k saving to bathrooms deposit.

Timetoswitch · 10/05/2022 18:13

I wouldn’t have eaten the yoghurt either 😊 Can’t have the time off work if we got sick with food poisoning, after all the time off for covid.

£2.24 in Tesco yesterday on chocolate and reduced pudding.

NSD today. Yay!

Timetoswitch · 10/05/2022 18:15

Oh, I did have to sort out the fees for swimming lessons today. Apparently we were underpaying for months but it was their fault we didn’t pay enough. Now sorted and we don’t have to pay back the extra. So a frugal win I guess.

WreckTangled · 10/05/2022 20:54

85p on a can of drink

ememem84 · 10/05/2022 21:33

I wouldn't have eaten the yoghurt either and I regularly play fast and loose with use by dates. Meat if it's not open i'll still use it as long as its been stored properly.

Milk whilst i won't use it for tea and coffee i'll use for baking or cheese sauce. cheese i'll just cut the mould off.

got home fairly early this evening - before 6 at least. With our new window at the front of the house, Catface has taken to sitting and waiting on the window sill for us.

i've just logged off from work - had to log back on as am seriously on the back foot with stuff now. managed to get 6 sets of minutes done, have mucked out my inbox a bit and am in a better place for tomorrow. have done an hour and a half. not ideal - and i dont want to make this a habit, but sometimes its necessary.

£15 for pilates tomorrow evening. i usually pay £12 a class - but usually book them in a course. this term i could only attend 2 classes, so actually works out cheaper to book class by class.

ememem84 · 10/05/2022 21:33

have also managed to persuade dh to put all the kids laundry away. have done 3 loads of washing, and have made a flapjack. winning at life.

WreckTangled · 11/05/2022 06:19

Ffs I need more fuel. Put £50 in on Friday. Will have to take money from savings. Am also not going anywhere near a 'cheap' fuel station so will have to use one of the expensive ones.

lifelongfrugaleer · 11/05/2022 06:24

Sometimes an evening log on is good to clear your mind and catch up em
thats a nightmare wreck costs soooo much

I’m having total brain fog atm. can’t remember if I need anything from town or not today.
saved £28 by cleaner not coming

ememem84 · 11/05/2022 06:27

Nails today. So £48. But these will last at least 5 weeks. So all good.

today is my last day of work this week. Ffs. I’m basically a part timer! Have tomorrow off for a spa day (paid for with a voucher) and Friday is my usual day off.

another colleague resigned yesterday. She’s moving away at some point so wanted to give work the heads up as soon as she could. Time to negotiate more money for me I think. Because in the short term it’ll be more work for me.

Gensola · 11/05/2022 10:08

Have cancelled Netflix, Spotify and adobe subscriptions and weekly PT session. Also going to pop into the optician and see about changing to a lower contact lens plan. Trying to claw back as much money as possible. CC 1 is now £138 so should be clear after May pay, CC2 2,900 of which £600-700 is due back in travel expenses for work and refunds for wedding dresses which haven’t fit. Thinking about transferring to a 0% card and setting up a standing order to clear it, then closing the original two cards to stop me spending on them again.
Have a couple of old iPhones I’m going to sell, money for that will go off the CC also.
We also have a bank loan for IVF which is at £6000 - two more years of payments on that, but it’s really low interest and fixed rate so that’s one good thing.
My student loan should be clear in the next 12 months which will free up some income. Just have to keep plugging on!

BigSkies2022 · 11/05/2022 10:16

Well done Gensola. Sainsbury's are doing a zero fee, 0% interest for 21 months on balance transfers at the moment.

It's going to be long month here for me because of the long bank holiday weekend - nothing will be going in until 7 June. Hopefully nothing will be going out either and everything will just shake down first thing. June 1st is the last payment of DS' hall fees, after which he switches to a houseshare and the costs drop by around £240 a month - but I have to pay it quarterly in advance, so 1 July is going to be a bit squeaky bum time. Does it never bloody end???

CurlsandCurves · 11/05/2022 10:27

All sounds really positive @Gensola keep focussed on your goals.

Having a very low spend week overall. Monday weekly shop came in within budget. Tuesday was £40 on toiletries all essentials and some of what I bought lasts me for months. Yesterday was £3.99 on a diary for ds1 to help him get more organised with work. And today will be a nsd.

Yesterday was fantastic drying weather here, sunny warm and very windy! Got 3 loads out there. Today it’s chucking it down. I’m definitely getting used to not using the tumble dryer, todays load is on airers in the living room and hopefully I can finish it off outside tomorrow.

Off to batch cook a chilli, do some ironing, clean the conservatory. Then I need to wash hair and try to make myself look presentable as I’m having my photo taken for the new company website tomorrow. I hate having my photo taken!