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Amble into April Frugaleering

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Unescorted · 17/04/2022 08:15

Follow on from the old thread

This is a space / long running thread for people wanting tips on making life cheaper for what ever reason and support who have to make living less expensive. If you are new here just post away everyone is welcome.

Frugal tips from the hive mind so far....

Check your outgoing-are they essential, are you on the best deal
Loyalty cards for stores you regularly shop at
Meal plan
Annual budget rather than monthly for those, well annual, expenses
Second hand is fine for 90% of stuff
Sign up to money saving expert emails
Insulation at home.
Close curtains at dark and tuck behind rads
Foil behind external wall rad
Turn the heating down . Tropical houses are not necessary
Use the washing line when you can
Look out for food recycling scheme- bread and butter thing, company shop, too good to go type things
Do you have to buy that Christmas/ birthday present. Can you give time instead
Eat less meat (tho I’m rubbish at this)
Have a on toast day. Or baked potato weekly
Double up while the oven is on for a reheat meal or a bake. Save electric running the oven less.
Branded goods are not always the best
-Walk those short trips if possible, instead of using the car (I am the worst for doing this). Saves petrol, good exercise too.
-Combine car trips better too eg dropped DD off at an activity tonight, which is next to the supermarket.
Cancel sky, if you still want the programmes switch to Now Tv for a fraction of the price
Cancel any subscriptions you don't need. Check direct debits to make sure you're not paying for anything you no longer need by accident
Check all your bills, insurances etc are the cheapest you can get for the cover you need (the last bit is important)
If you can get a voucher, use a cash back site or have some sort of work discount (nhs, bluelight, Tesco, student etc) check before paying
Meal plan before you shop. Make extra to freeze for another day as it's often cheaper per kg to buy bigger packs of meat
Go veggie a couple of times a week
Aldi and Lidl are great but not if you're going to get sidetracked by the aisle of doom
An annual budget is essential but pay yourself first each month so money into the annual pot, into savings, off debt before anything else happens. Make sure there's a line in your budget for fun money even if it's a tiny amount, budgeting can be a grind otherwise
You will have patches of spendiness and demotivation, don't give up just start again from wherever you end up
Take your own drinks, snacks, food, picnic - Invariably cheaper and nicer
Make your own if you have a stocked baking cupboard and spice cupboard. Cheaper and nicer, tho building said cupboard can be ££ (costs can be reduced by a visit to your local international supermarket)
Aldi for baking stuff it’s fine.
Work out of season for clothes as it’s usually cheaper
i switched to a coffee subscription (coffee is my weakness) - so our local shop delivers me a 250g bag of ground coffee every 2 weeks (i have 4 in the cupboard currently) and i make my own morning coffee. the subscription is for 6 months and costs me £58 i think. a takeaway from the same shop is £2.80 a pop. so it is a money saver. I bought a Contigo cup (spendy but worth every penny). so take my coffee hot to work with me.

I'm also a fan of using it up. so tings like toiletries, stationary (i am also a notebook hoarder) food etc. not replacing until it's all gone (or all of one thing gone).

my Lloyds account does "save the change" so it rounds up a purchase and then moves the pence to my savings account.

I also pay myself first on payday and am trying to use the things we have- zoo membership - use it loads so worth the £160 a year cost. same with my gym membership i use it so get my moneys worth.

Also what you can save/be frugal on can be inversely related to your means. If you have more "spare" money per month it's easier to buy in bulk and choose things that are cheapest per kg. If you have less or no spare money this isn't possible to do and then you're looking at cheapest price per item rather than per kg.

Agree re taking own stuff although I do often forget but a good coffee cup and water bottle is a good investment if you can afford it

If you have a dog use something like all about dog food to work out what the best food is you can buy based on what you can afford to spend per day
I also give the clothes an extra spin in the washing machine before they go in the dryer, and dry outside whenever i can - currently not living at home, so limited to a washer dryer (which is crap) and an airer next to a rad which i hate.

im a big fan of using the freezer and freeze anything i can. we buy reduced items (like bread and keep it in the freezer as it saves it going off - we maybe get through a loaf every couple of weeks).
I know that credit cards are sometimes seen here as the work of the devil (on MN specifically not this thread) but if you have one use to to your advantage. Mine gives me money back in the form of M&S or amazon vouchers every quarter depending on how much I've spent. and as long as you pay it off every month it works.
Top Cashback for all internet purchases.
Join the library - many have free access to Audible, Libby (for magazines and newspapers) as well as having an amazing selection of books.
Consider how you cook things - residual heat cooking works really well for rice and any slow cooker recipe.
Grow herbs and salad leaves on a window sill
Grow soft fruit - your local allotment / neighbours with a raspberry cane/ strawberry / current / gooseberry will be more than happy to give you a cutting.
Look for local food pantries
If you need credit use a Credit Union. If you are saving support your local credit union by becoming one of their savers.

Useful websites
Money Saving Expert especially the 90 ways to survive the cost of living crisis

Independent Foodbank Network There are some things that I wish we did not need

CAB

step change

cooking on a bootstrap

Thrifty Lesley

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WreckTangled · 08/05/2022 07:13

Nsd here yesterday. Probably the same today.

Wolfcub · 08/05/2022 08:00

Just nipping in to say hi. Busy busy and somewhat behind on the thread. Hope all are ok.

ememem84 · 08/05/2022 08:48

We do that too humbug when we went nuts and stocked up the freezer I took the kids to Iceland and they chose all the ice lollies.

iceland “cornettos” and “magnums” are ace and are a box of 6 and £1 ish. And are bigger and better.

Unescorted · 08/05/2022 09:18

We have boxes of ice creams in the freezer too - one of those small changes that makes a big difference.

Decaff If you are not entitled to the grant they will say no. If you are eligible it is because they feel that it will prevent them having to pay out for more expensive treatments in the future. You are doing them a favour.

Half you sound as if you are drowning with all the things you are having to do. I hope you are making time for you too.

em they get to the teenage years and you then spend most of every morning trying to get them up. I seriously considered an intercom so I could shout at them remotely. Duvets were regularly swiped & left outside bedroom doors.

Today is a planting day - potting on the early germinating seeds / making more paper pots/ finishing off my wooden trays and planting out the yellow stickered herbs. I am finding the garden really quite restful - I can see why people used it as a method for getting through lockdown.

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Wolfcub · 08/05/2022 10:12

Unescorted an Alexa echo dot in each teen room works amazingly as a "get your arse out of bed" intercom. I've been known to blow the dog whistle down it!

Taytocrisps · 08/05/2022 11:52

Just a quick 'Hi' because I'm in between jobs around the house and garden. Beautiful, sunny day here.

I worked four days in the office last week. I was only scheduled to work three days but I had a medical exam one of the days I was rostered to work from home (the medical was voluntary - we paid for it ourselves but it was heavily discounted by the union) so I came into the office for an extra day. I was really tired when Friday night rolled around. The nurse said it would take two weeks to get the results.

DD had a sleepover at school on Friday night. It was a fundraiser for Ukraine. Then they did a 'Darkness into Light' walk early on Saturday morning, to raise money for suicide prevention. So she got about an hour's sleep. She said it was good fun but her sleep patterns are all messed up now. She spent most of yesterday in bed and is still in bed now. Fair play to the teachers who gave up their Friday night to supervise them - I'm sure their weekends are also messed up, in terms of sleep.

Hard to believe my baby girl is almost finished school now. She's due to have a graduation ceremony later this month which is great and something the last two sixth years missed out on. Only thing is, Ex will be there. Or at least, I presume he'll be there. I sent him a copy of the invitation but he didn't comment one way or the other.

I have my first book club meeting on Tuesday night. Wish me luck! I finished the book yesterday. I met two of the ladies for coffee already and they seem really nice.

Right, better go make a list for the supermarket.

Had a quick look at the posts above mine. I was amused to see the comments about teenagers sleeping in. So true! Although DD gets herself up for school on weekday mornings because I've already left for work. She hates rushing in the mornings and always allows a bit of extra time to prepare mentally for the day ahead. She's quite a sensible kid, if I do say so myself.

Unescorted I love gardening too and it does wonders for my mental health - something about being outdoors for hours with the sun on my face and trying to restore order to a jungle chaos. And I sleep better too because I'm physically tired. I'm currently digging up a circular border in the centre of my garden with the aim of planting a flower bed. I need to hold off on buying plants until June in case we get a late frost I may have succumbed and bought two phlox plants. MUST STEER CLEAR OF GARDEN CENTRES UNTIL 1ST JUNE.

Have a lovely Sunday my frugaleer friends.

WreckTangled · 08/05/2022 12:00

Teenager's have a shift in sleep hormone release (melatonin) which is why they fall asleep later and wake later. It's actually quite cruel to make them be at school so early (dd leaves for the bus at 7:30am and doesn't get home until 4:15) and why they end up sleeping in in the weekends so they can catch up on the sleep they've missed.

It's a lovely day here too, I've folded and put away the three loads of washing from yesterday and the day before and have hung out another load with another load in the machine. Dh has cleaned the bathroom and kitchen and hoovered the whole house.

Unescorted · 08/05/2022 15:45

Tayto we are quite lucky here b/c the late spring frosts brought in on Easterlies are kept at bay by the big hill out the back. We are usually out of the frost risk by this time.

We have a plant / seed swap station out side our library so today I swapped chervil, bok choi, lettuce and chard for 2 tomato plants. It is a lovely idea that has been running for the last few years.

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ememem84 · 08/05/2022 18:10

Nsd. Hooray!!

although I’ve had to tap up the bank of mum and dad for a loan to pay the final builder invoice. Ffs. I’m 37. But it will be paid back in 6 weeks. I’m lucky they can help us out. But still. Ffs.

I also put a stop to the holiday booking. DH is mad but if I’m having to borrow money to pay builders then it’s a bit stupid to be booking flights. I’ve told DH to crack on if he wants to but I can’t put it on my credit card (as it’s almost full and I hate this!). Once DH gets his share pay out in 6 weeks from work I’ll clear it.

Bank hols here tomorrow. Yay. So I’m going to work on the budget. There are probably a few places I can cut back but will see.

WreckTangled · 08/05/2022 18:39

I still have to borrow from the bank of dad too Blush Three more payments left of the last dad loan then hopefully I won't have to do that again..

It's been so warm here. Nsd for me, dh paid for a round of drinks at the pub. I got four loads of washing washed and dried on the line too.

ememem84 · 08/05/2022 18:43

Actually just done a quick tally up.

mortgage £1576.76 pcm
car parking £170 pcm
electric £132 pcm
tv licence £13.37 pcm
life ins £34.63
heritage membership £5.28 pcm
afbenture park membership £26 pcm
zoo membership £160pa
nursery dd £1040pcm
nursery ds £361.95 pcm
water £57
pet ins £15.68
petrol £50pcm (average)
car insurance £300 pa
rates (like council tax) £400 pa
house insurance (buildings and contents) £425 p
food & groceries £350 pcm (includes cat food litter nappies etc)
cleaner £128 pcm

then “my” things which are my luxuries and I’m loathe to give up….
gym £51 pcm
riding £160 pcm
beautician £60 pcm (nails and waxing)

to analyse:

  • mortgage is fixed for 5 years term ends next October. Am planning on shopping around for the best rate. Can’t change this now.
  • car parking - Will think about giving this up once the dc are at school. It is a rented space right under the nursery building. Is secure and I don’t have to take them outside to get to the car. Also our gov are getting rid of a lot of parking here in town so finding a space is like gold dust of a work morning. Hence considering giving it up….
  • electric - only one provider hear so can’t switch. However will switch underfloor off now and am using dryer less. This cost is based on the previous 6m useage so winter….
  • tv licence. Do we need one? I’m never sure.
  • heritage membership - we rarely use it. But it’d cost a fortune to visit one of the sites if we decided to go.
  • zoo - we use this all the time. It is value for money - admission is £19 per adult abs £12 per child (age 3plus) so worth the money.
  • adventure park. Great value and we use a lot. It would cost me £12.50 per adult £6.50 per child to go. Considering we sometimes go for only 30 mins it’s worth it.
  • nursery. Enough said. It’ll go in September.
  • water - fixed cost. They review annually.
  • pet ins - non negotiable
  • petrol - could reduce car use age. Keep on top of car maintenance.
  • rates - can’t change this. It’s decided for us.
  • house insurance - will shop around in sept when it needs renewing but it insures my rings separately, my laptop separately, 2 of my handbags (2 mulberry’s), dhs bike, his paddle board and his golf clubs
  • cleaner - buys us time. 4 hours every 2 weeks.
  • food - me DH and 2 dc. Will meal plan to cut back as we’ve been bad at this recently. Like really bad. Shopping every day bad and wasting food bad.
  • phone - is DH and mine on one contract and includes internet at home. Any work calls I make on mobile are reimbursed. We have 18m left on this contract so can’t switch yet.
  • tv - Netflix and Disney plus (the latter is shared with dsis - we pay 50/50 upfront for the year and love it!)
my luxuries I’m comfortable with. But I know they are very luxurious. And could be dumped. But mental health mostly. I use the gym - loads. So it is worth it for me. I could get it cheaper but it’s right near nursery and the car. So I go on the way to get the kids (can pick up at 615 so I can usually get a good 40 minute session or a class in after work). So part paying for convenience here.

the nails are mostly for vanity. I think it’s important to have nice nails. I can’t be bothered doing them myself so go once a month for a gel polish. The waxing is either eyebrows or bikini. Every other month I do one. Falls under self care. Could I get them cheaper. Probably. But would they last as long? Probably not.

TheNewlmprovedMrsMadEvans · 08/05/2022 20:03

Wolfcub · 08/05/2022 10:12

Unescorted an Alexa echo dot in each teen room works amazingly as a "get your arse out of bed" intercom. I've been known to blow the dog whistle down it!

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TheNewlmprovedMrsMadEvans · 08/05/2022 20:08

Wolfcub · 08/05/2022 08:00

Just nipping in to say hi. Busy busy and somewhat behind on the thread. Hope all are ok.

Wolf me too Smile this week has been so so busy for me but l hope to have a much calmer week , hope everyone is ok Flowers

CheeseMaiden · 08/05/2022 20:25

NSD here today.
I work from home on Sundays, managed to log off at 4 to plant up my runner beans (they are in window boxes in the run up to the move so hoping the residual warmth from the house will save them from any frosts…)
also finished sewing a little summer top for a friends DD- all from my fabric stash so essentially free.
Hope everyone has a good week!

Unescorted · 09/05/2022 06:38

Morning lovelies.

Wolf does the dog whistle work?

em that is a god template.

I do not want to go to work this week.

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WreckTangled · 09/05/2022 06:48

Morning. Aiming for nsd today. We need more salad already (shopped Friday) but will ask dh to buy from him own money as food budget for the week has already gone.

I don't want to work either. I've got a video consultation, two follow up phone calls and a visit booked in. Blah. And I'm sunburnt.

CurlsandCurves · 09/05/2022 08:02

NS weekend! Well, sort of. We went out for a family meal on Saturday night which my dad insisted on paying for. Then the kids and my folks went home and we stayed out for drinks with my brother and sil which was lovely. Dh paid for drinks. Then work on Sunday so nothing spent.

Today is exercise this morning and food shop later. Also need to submit meter readings to energy company.

WreckTangled · 09/05/2022 08:07

Oh I just remembered I've got he dentist later 😭

ememem84 · 09/05/2022 08:08

Rough meal plan this week:

Monday - veggie stir fry
tues - peanut butter garlic chicken - a Jamie Oliver one
weds - lemon courgette pasta
thurs - hot chicken salad
Fri - homemade pizza.
sat - out at a wedding
Sunday - dying of hangover but something like a pasta bake.

I think the only things I need from the shop are mozerella for pizza, fruit (bananas and satsumas and grapes), soy sauce and milk. Can easily (I think) get this for less than £20.

Decafflatteplease · 09/05/2022 08:32

Morning all happy Monday

Should be a low spend day today. Got an appointment for toddler and we grab lunch in town after on a bench probably just something from the bakers.

Also got a few parcels to post but one of them is for a refund so that will be £20 back although I still need the clothes I'm sending back!

@ememem84 I need to do a list like that and write down when money comes in (DH wages and benefits are spread over the month) and when things go out. Aswell as monthly costs. We are putting money into the children's trust funds and tbh I think we should stop as it's silly going overdrawn paying for something for the future perhaps. They can't access them until they are 18 but dh says we don't know what the world will look like then so it's best they have that fund available for a car / gap year / uni

We need a new clothes airer ours are broken. Honestly we must go through about 4-6 a year sometimes I think it would be cheaper to tumble dry everything! We have a line outside too but have so much washing we need airers too. Will get that later in the week when I have the car. Oh and the car is going in the garage again next week 🙄

Trying a top up shop at Lidl again this week probably tomorrow

Wolfcub · 09/05/2022 10:06

We have a water leak. Insurance company coming to find the source which will be £350 and then I need to find a tradesman to fix it. Ffs this was not what I needed right now

lifelongfrugaleer · 09/05/2022 11:30

Ah ffs wolf

ememem84 · 09/05/2022 12:07

@Decafflatteplease i pay £20 a month into each of the dcs accounts. They have two. One with hsbc and one Lloyds. So £10 into each.

£40 riding today. Glorious. mental health well and firmly reset.

TheNewlmprovedMrsMadEvans · 09/05/2022 13:50

So sorry Wolf Flowers
Spent £165 on car tax for a year & £18 in Morrisons
Beautiful day here Smile Hope everyone has this beautiful weather too Smile

AdoraBell · 09/05/2022 14:16

£8 on lunch, groceries due this afternoon should be £78.