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Amble into April Frugaleering

990 replies

Unescorted · 17/04/2022 08:15

Follow on from the old thread

This is a space / long running thread for people wanting tips on making life cheaper for what ever reason and support who have to make living less expensive. If you are new here just post away everyone is welcome.

Frugal tips from the hive mind so far....

Check your outgoing-are they essential, are you on the best deal
Loyalty cards for stores you regularly shop at
Meal plan
Annual budget rather than monthly for those, well annual, expenses
Second hand is fine for 90% of stuff
Sign up to money saving expert emails
Insulation at home.
Close curtains at dark and tuck behind rads
Foil behind external wall rad
Turn the heating down . Tropical houses are not necessary
Use the washing line when you can
Look out for food recycling scheme- bread and butter thing, company shop, too good to go type things
Do you have to buy that Christmas/ birthday present. Can you give time instead
Eat less meat (tho I’m rubbish at this)
Have a on toast day. Or baked potato weekly
Double up while the oven is on for a reheat meal or a bake. Save electric running the oven less.
Branded goods are not always the best
-Walk those short trips if possible, instead of using the car (I am the worst for doing this). Saves petrol, good exercise too.
-Combine car trips better too eg dropped DD off at an activity tonight, which is next to the supermarket.
Cancel sky, if you still want the programmes switch to Now Tv for a fraction of the price
Cancel any subscriptions you don't need. Check direct debits to make sure you're not paying for anything you no longer need by accident
Check all your bills, insurances etc are the cheapest you can get for the cover you need (the last bit is important)
If you can get a voucher, use a cash back site or have some sort of work discount (nhs, bluelight, Tesco, student etc) check before paying
Meal plan before you shop. Make extra to freeze for another day as it's often cheaper per kg to buy bigger packs of meat
Go veggie a couple of times a week
Aldi and Lidl are great but not if you're going to get sidetracked by the aisle of doom
An annual budget is essential but pay yourself first each month so money into the annual pot, into savings, off debt before anything else happens. Make sure there's a line in your budget for fun money even if it's a tiny amount, budgeting can be a grind otherwise
You will have patches of spendiness and demotivation, don't give up just start again from wherever you end up
Take your own drinks, snacks, food, picnic - Invariably cheaper and nicer
Make your own if you have a stocked baking cupboard and spice cupboard. Cheaper and nicer, tho building said cupboard can be ££ (costs can be reduced by a visit to your local international supermarket)
Aldi for baking stuff it’s fine.
Work out of season for clothes as it’s usually cheaper
i switched to a coffee subscription (coffee is my weakness) - so our local shop delivers me a 250g bag of ground coffee every 2 weeks (i have 4 in the cupboard currently) and i make my own morning coffee. the subscription is for 6 months and costs me £58 i think. a takeaway from the same shop is £2.80 a pop. so it is a money saver. I bought a Contigo cup (spendy but worth every penny). so take my coffee hot to work with me.

I'm also a fan of using it up. so tings like toiletries, stationary (i am also a notebook hoarder) food etc. not replacing until it's all gone (or all of one thing gone).

my Lloyds account does "save the change" so it rounds up a purchase and then moves the pence to my savings account.

I also pay myself first on payday and am trying to use the things we have- zoo membership - use it loads so worth the £160 a year cost. same with my gym membership i use it so get my moneys worth.

Also what you can save/be frugal on can be inversely related to your means. If you have more "spare" money per month it's easier to buy in bulk and choose things that are cheapest per kg. If you have less or no spare money this isn't possible to do and then you're looking at cheapest price per item rather than per kg.

Agree re taking own stuff although I do often forget but a good coffee cup and water bottle is a good investment if you can afford it

If you have a dog use something like all about dog food to work out what the best food is you can buy based on what you can afford to spend per day
I also give the clothes an extra spin in the washing machine before they go in the dryer, and dry outside whenever i can - currently not living at home, so limited to a washer dryer (which is crap) and an airer next to a rad which i hate.

im a big fan of using the freezer and freeze anything i can. we buy reduced items (like bread and keep it in the freezer as it saves it going off - we maybe get through a loaf every couple of weeks).
I know that credit cards are sometimes seen here as the work of the devil (on MN specifically not this thread) but if you have one use to to your advantage. Mine gives me money back in the form of M&S or amazon vouchers every quarter depending on how much I've spent. and as long as you pay it off every month it works.
Top Cashback for all internet purchases.
Join the library - many have free access to Audible, Libby (for magazines and newspapers) as well as having an amazing selection of books.
Consider how you cook things - residual heat cooking works really well for rice and any slow cooker recipe.
Grow herbs and salad leaves on a window sill
Grow soft fruit - your local allotment / neighbours with a raspberry cane/ strawberry / current / gooseberry will be more than happy to give you a cutting.
Look for local food pantries
If you need credit use a Credit Union. If you are saving support your local credit union by becoming one of their savers.

Useful websites
Money Saving Expert especially the 90 ways to survive the cost of living crisis

Independent Foodbank Network There are some things that I wish we did not need

CAB

step change

cooking on a bootstrap

Thrifty Lesley

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TheNewlmprovedMrsMadEvans · 11/05/2022 16:17

Afternoon everyoneSmile
Been busy today , life admin takes ages, 59 mins on hold to pay my Mum's personal contributions for her care Hmm
Popped into Morrisons 24 , bedding plants / tomato plants for hanging baskets from local Garden centre £40 .
Did win £100 on the premium bonds this month though which is a great help Smile
Well done on the cancelling all those DD Gen you are in complete control of your finances and the day of you being debt free is dawning Flowers
Em great work well done!

WreckTangled · 11/05/2022 16:33

£20 fuel
£2.65 washing powder

We've got a power cut (third time this year) so at least that's saving us some money...

ememem84 · 11/05/2022 18:07

Nails were £28 because they were with a traineee. So that’s a win.

lifelongfrugaleer · 11/05/2022 18:11

Some great frugally there gen. That loan will be paid off in no time
It’s been a great couple of drying days here too.
bloody dish washer has stopped working. Ffs sick of things breaking in this house

WreckTangled · 11/05/2022 19:27

Electricity company have emailed to say they're increasing dd from £115 to £146. Not to bad I guess. Power came back on just as we were about to go out for dinner so I cooked in the end which saved some money we didn't want to spend

CheeseMaiden · 11/05/2022 19:28

LSD here, took DD to a city farm (free!). £6.50 on bread, various cheeses and some biscuits, I think that will be our only top up shop this week which means the meal planning is working!

ememem84 · 11/05/2022 22:30

amazon packages arrived today. I forgot I’d ordered cans of sparkling water. I like the sparkly stuff but tend to buy huge bottles then drink a bit and it always goes flat. Cans were a more sensible option for me. If I drink one a fortnight they’ll last ages.

Decafflatteplease · 12/05/2022 07:30

CheeseMaiden · 11/05/2022 19:28

LSD here, took DD to a city farm (free!). £6.50 on bread, various cheeses and some biscuits, I think that will be our only top up shop this week which means the meal planning is working!

City farm sounds fab, we have a little farm here that's free to have a wander around but then of course you spend a fortune on lovely homemade food in the farm shop 😂

CurlsandCurves · 12/05/2022 07:40

Top up shop needed on Saturday now. I’d got stuff in for a barbecue on Sunday. But the weather’s changed and it’s not going to be as warm. So I’ve decided that’s all going in the freezer and I’m buying stuff to do a roast instead. Just means I won’t need to buy anything for a Sunday when we do have good weather.

Mini top up this morning needed of bread and milk. Got to take Ds1 to college shortly as his lift is off sick. Which in turn means I can’t do my exercise class before work, ah well.

ememem84 · 12/05/2022 08:54

Decafflatteplease · 12/05/2022 07:30

City farm sounds fab, we have a little farm here that's free to have a wander around but then of course you spend a fortune on lovely homemade food in the farm shop 😂

I’m a sucker for a farm shop.

onw of my faves here has fresh produce the best butcher ever and they sell an abundance of Asian food/ingredients.

aldo they have a pick n mix frozen fruit veg pastry section.

ememem84 · 12/05/2022 09:00

I’m off to spa in a bit. This will cost me £6 cash money. For two and half hours of pampering.

DH and the dc bought me a voucher for Mother’s Day. Yay.

but first. Coffee

CheeseMaiden · 12/05/2022 10:06

@Decafflatteplease that’s how they get you! This farm is pre order only which saved me the extra spends

Thoughtsarrivelikebutterflies5 · 12/05/2022 10:54

Hi all, I've been following this thread with interest. Can I jump in and join the posting?

Like everyone, we're having to be more mindful of spending. We're generally not big spenders, however, our circumstances mean I can't work right now (carer for eldest child). But we do sometimes spend things without more consideration so hoping to use this thread for accountability.

Thankfully we have no debt aside from our mortgage. However, we are trying so badly to save for several things:
A car (mine is 14 years old and okay for now but need money aside for when, especially as eldest DC has autism so a car is essential)
The kids (it's so important to me that my kids have some financial security when they're older)
House stuff (we moved in 3 years ago and it really does need some work doing)

Today so far has been a medium spend day BUT it's for DDs birthday stuff, mostly.
£21 in Asda for ingredients and decorations for her cake, wrapping paper, cards, badge, etc.
£52 in Smyth's for a scooter (her main present from us. The rest of her gifts are some second hand puzzles and some stamps)
£13.99 on Amazon for bed mats after she had an accident (cue me stripping my soaking wet bed and her PJs at 2am!)

marthasmum · 12/05/2022 11:45

Welcome thoughts! We can help you keep accountable .
I’ve been working from home all this week and am waiting to be paid so my pots for fuel/ food /treats etc can fill up again. So apart from my hefty car bill yesterday (£407) I’ve not spent anything all week.
DSis and I are taking DMum away to Bath this weekend for her 80th though. Air b&b is paid for and hopefully fuel accounted for but meals and activities (eg spa) aren’t so will be pricey.
DDad is at home alone, not sure we’ll be able to to that much longer as he is in early dementia stages.

ememem84 · 12/05/2022 12:01

Emailed travel agent. To price check flights again. They’ve increased by 4k. But if we fly out a day earlier it’s £1500 cheaper than the original quote. No brainier. (except I’ll need to blag a couple of days additional holiday and the kids will need two more days out of school at the end of the Christmas term but whatever).

TheNewlmprovedMrsMadEvans · 12/05/2022 14:17

Welcome Thoughts Smile
Petrol 164.9 a litre around here Hmm
Just put £20 in and when we go out on Saturday will fill her up in the local town for 6p a litre less . It isn't much but will pay for the trip , which we usually do Smile
Morrisons Bag of curry for tea tonight , they are on offer atm £5 a bag & we like their curries so win win Smile
groceries.morrisons.com/products/morrisons-indian-takeaway-chicken-korma-chicken-tikka-masala-371752011

TheNewlmprovedMrsMadEvans · 12/05/2022 14:18

Em well done , that is an excellent compromise !

ememem84 · 12/05/2022 15:36

Big spend. £8100. Flights for Christmas trip. It’s booked. The “only” things we need to now pay for are:

ds’ new passport
dhs nz passport
visas for us for Australia (i think DH is exempt because of the nz passport but need to check).
visas for us for nz (travel agent thought this was a thing now so need to check it).
hotel at Auckland airport as flight lands at 2335 so by the time we actually get out it’ll be too late to go anywhere. So hotel is a must.
hire car
save for expenses whilst there.

it’s a lot of money. But it’s a long awaited trip. And saved for. And DH Will have his money and hopefully his promotion in a few weeks. Phew.

we won’t have to pay any accommodation whilst there. And the Joy for mil spending Christmas with her grand babies.

Decafflatteplease · 12/05/2022 16:37

That all sounds so exciting @ememem84

@TheNewlmprovedMrsMadEvans we are diesel and it's 176 round here is the cheapest 😱 that meal deal looks good. Love Indian but it's far more expensive than Chinese takeaway plus only DH and I like it so we rarely get it.

Welcome @Thoughtsarrivelikebutterflies5 . I'm also a carer for one of my DC so we are also just on one salary. We are also thinking of a new (new to us anyway) car I'm sure our car spends more time in the garage than it does on our drive 😂

Today was a spendy day...

£100 in Asda on various non food items eg 2 new clothes maidens, school uniform for DC, shoes for me, a new mop etc. Soon adds up

£40 m and s food. Lots of yellow stickers though for the freezer.

£38 on a bag for me. I've been wanting a new bag for a while as mine is literally ripped and have had my eye on this particular one and I had a 15percent voucher today so got it for £38 rather than £45 so am pleased with that.

Also, possibly the frugal win of the day...free socks and a £10 gift voucher. From a shop that messed up my order at Christmas so I complained a bit and they said it would be feedback to head office and I wasn't expecting anything else then I randomly got free socks and a £10 voucher today by way of apology. Win win!

BigSkies2022 · 12/05/2022 16:40

£66 in Aldi, including a few bits for the freezer, so should keep us going for a while. The excellent cheap roasted cashews for 75p have vanished from the shelves, and I don't think they're coming back. No gruyere today, but got manchego. Just realised I forgot olive oil, but remembered dishwasher tablets. At some point I will tot up the Sainsbury's expenditure. The last week of May will be quite spendy as we're away, and will be entertaining DS and girlfriend and sampling the local delights ourselves (I hope).

WreckTangled · 12/05/2022 16:42

Glad you got it cheaper em

Our petrol is between £1.67 and £1.72 here and the diesel is around £1.83

Unescorted · 12/05/2022 17:25

Welcome thoughts.

Em that is a significant saving.

Diesel is £1.80 ish around here. WFH is getting more attractive by the day... Especially as Northern Rails response to complaints about delays was to remove trains from the timetable.

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AdoraBell · 12/05/2022 18:08

£3.20 on cream cakes in M&S, one pack on yellow sticker 👍 £4.99 on reusable ice cubes.

DH needed a battery for a watch, that was £22 😱 it’s a waterproof watch.

AdoraBell · 12/05/2022 18:35

Petrol here is £1.65, diesel £1.89. 2 months ago DH was talking about buying FIL’s old diesel car. We talked and decided it was not appropriate for us. Yesterday he brought it up again because BIL keeps badgering DH about it Hmm I pointed out the cost of diesel. Also, it’s 15 years old, so not suitable for DH’s travel to cities. If he does buy it then it will just sit on the drive as older diesel cars give me migraines, so I will never go out with DH if wants to use it.

Hope you enjoy for holiday em sounds fabulous.

ememem84 · 12/05/2022 19:39

Thanks guys. I know it’s not the most frugal of days for me. But. It’s something that’s been I. The planning since 2020. DH gets a 3 month fully paid sabbatical from his work as he’s been there for 10 years.

I’ve booked all my holiday now for this year and next. So I can take it all at once.

itll be an absolute trio of a lifetime. We will go to nz again as family there. But it won’t be for as long.