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Amble into April Frugaleering

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Unescorted · 17/04/2022 08:15

Follow on from the old thread

This is a space / long running thread for people wanting tips on making life cheaper for what ever reason and support who have to make living less expensive. If you are new here just post away everyone is welcome.

Frugal tips from the hive mind so far....

Check your outgoing-are they essential, are you on the best deal
Loyalty cards for stores you regularly shop at
Meal plan
Annual budget rather than monthly for those, well annual, expenses
Second hand is fine for 90% of stuff
Sign up to money saving expert emails
Insulation at home.
Close curtains at dark and tuck behind rads
Foil behind external wall rad
Turn the heating down . Tropical houses are not necessary
Use the washing line when you can
Look out for food recycling scheme- bread and butter thing, company shop, too good to go type things
Do you have to buy that Christmas/ birthday present. Can you give time instead
Eat less meat (tho I’m rubbish at this)
Have a on toast day. Or baked potato weekly
Double up while the oven is on for a reheat meal or a bake. Save electric running the oven less.
Branded goods are not always the best
-Walk those short trips if possible, instead of using the car (I am the worst for doing this). Saves petrol, good exercise too.
-Combine car trips better too eg dropped DD off at an activity tonight, which is next to the supermarket.
Cancel sky, if you still want the programmes switch to Now Tv for a fraction of the price
Cancel any subscriptions you don't need. Check direct debits to make sure you're not paying for anything you no longer need by accident
Check all your bills, insurances etc are the cheapest you can get for the cover you need (the last bit is important)
If you can get a voucher, use a cash back site or have some sort of work discount (nhs, bluelight, Tesco, student etc) check before paying
Meal plan before you shop. Make extra to freeze for another day as it's often cheaper per kg to buy bigger packs of meat
Go veggie a couple of times a week
Aldi and Lidl are great but not if you're going to get sidetracked by the aisle of doom
An annual budget is essential but pay yourself first each month so money into the annual pot, into savings, off debt before anything else happens. Make sure there's a line in your budget for fun money even if it's a tiny amount, budgeting can be a grind otherwise
You will have patches of spendiness and demotivation, don't give up just start again from wherever you end up
Take your own drinks, snacks, food, picnic - Invariably cheaper and nicer
Make your own if you have a stocked baking cupboard and spice cupboard. Cheaper and nicer, tho building said cupboard can be ££ (costs can be reduced by a visit to your local international supermarket)
Aldi for baking stuff it’s fine.
Work out of season for clothes as it’s usually cheaper
i switched to a coffee subscription (coffee is my weakness) - so our local shop delivers me a 250g bag of ground coffee every 2 weeks (i have 4 in the cupboard currently) and i make my own morning coffee. the subscription is for 6 months and costs me £58 i think. a takeaway from the same shop is £2.80 a pop. so it is a money saver. I bought a Contigo cup (spendy but worth every penny). so take my coffee hot to work with me.

I'm also a fan of using it up. so tings like toiletries, stationary (i am also a notebook hoarder) food etc. not replacing until it's all gone (or all of one thing gone).

my Lloyds account does "save the change" so it rounds up a purchase and then moves the pence to my savings account.

I also pay myself first on payday and am trying to use the things we have- zoo membership - use it loads so worth the £160 a year cost. same with my gym membership i use it so get my moneys worth.

Also what you can save/be frugal on can be inversely related to your means. If you have more "spare" money per month it's easier to buy in bulk and choose things that are cheapest per kg. If you have less or no spare money this isn't possible to do and then you're looking at cheapest price per item rather than per kg.

Agree re taking own stuff although I do often forget but a good coffee cup and water bottle is a good investment if you can afford it

If you have a dog use something like all about dog food to work out what the best food is you can buy based on what you can afford to spend per day
I also give the clothes an extra spin in the washing machine before they go in the dryer, and dry outside whenever i can - currently not living at home, so limited to a washer dryer (which is crap) and an airer next to a rad which i hate.

im a big fan of using the freezer and freeze anything i can. we buy reduced items (like bread and keep it in the freezer as it saves it going off - we maybe get through a loaf every couple of weeks).
I know that credit cards are sometimes seen here as the work of the devil (on MN specifically not this thread) but if you have one use to to your advantage. Mine gives me money back in the form of M&S or amazon vouchers every quarter depending on how much I've spent. and as long as you pay it off every month it works.
Top Cashback for all internet purchases.
Join the library - many have free access to Audible, Libby (for magazines and newspapers) as well as having an amazing selection of books.
Consider how you cook things - residual heat cooking works really well for rice and any slow cooker recipe.
Grow herbs and salad leaves on a window sill
Grow soft fruit - your local allotment / neighbours with a raspberry cane/ strawberry / current / gooseberry will be more than happy to give you a cutting.
Look for local food pantries
If you need credit use a Credit Union. If you are saving support your local credit union by becoming one of their savers.

Useful websites
Money Saving Expert especially the 90 ways to survive the cost of living crisis

Independent Foodbank Network There are some things that I wish we did not need

CAB

step change

cooking on a bootstrap

Thrifty Lesley

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lifelongfrugaleer · 06/05/2022 07:23

God yes, dinner chores and the I don’t want that chorus

CurlsandCurves · 06/05/2022 07:25

@BigSkies22 I need to do this again. A few years ago I used to sit the boys down with a pile of recipe books and get them to choose something each every week. They’d pick one new thing to try and also agree on what to have for the rest of the week from the list we already had. Got into such a food rut here.

WreckTangled · 06/05/2022 07:35

I think trying to keep in budget is making it even more difficult. Also dh will eat things I bought specifically for a meal which pisses me off. The other week he asked me to do a chorizo and olive pasta dish so I bought everything and when I went to make it he'd eaten all but 8 olives Angry

Spendy day today as it's food and fuel.

marthasmum · 06/05/2022 08:27

wreck that’s a really kind offer about the brownies, thank you. Hope I don’t seem ungrateful if I decline - despite moaning about it I find if I eat anything sweet, it sets off a craving and then I eat other stuff. To do the low carb I have to be really good and just stay away from anything tempting.
I hear you all about the food! Like many house jobs it’s the thinking isn’t it? Whenever I ask DSs or DP to suggest something they come up with something unhealthy or something we already have all the time. DD is a really good cook though and has helped expand our repertoire. And then yes, trying to keep it healthy/ low carb, cheap and quick to cook too is tricky! When I write that out I can see why we do stick to the same stuff…
going to try ems sesame chickpeas though

ememem84 · 06/05/2022 16:57

£10 dds haircut. £18 Claire’s accessories. I promised her a necklace and a bracelet to wear if she was good at hairdressers (queen of bribery me!) I also got some extra large hair ties for me and some hair pins etc.

WreckTangled · 06/05/2022 17:02

No problem, not ungrateful at all!

£109 Tesco
£50 fuel
£7 on fruit to take to a colleagues tonight and my weekly redbull
£4 on raffle tickets for school

lifelongfrugaleer · 06/05/2022 17:14

£75 microwave and £60 fuel ffs

Decafflatteplease · 06/05/2022 17:37

Frugal dinner win here and also a good idea for those of us whose DC have a whinge about meals as mentioned above.

We got an impromptu Asda pizza but they cook them there aswell for 40p extra. Not sure if all asdas do it but it was a fab idea, saved me cooking, and DC said it was like a dominoes! Teen came with me and we had a good chat, why do they seem to open up more in the car etc?!

Anyway it was a large pizza for DH and I to share and it was massive £4.70

3.small pizzas for DC £7.50

Chicken wings £2.25

Bottle of Asda version of Fanta 60p

So that's less than £15 I think so way cheaper than dominoes or other takeaways and it was just what we all needed.

Film night with teens tonight when younger ones asleep and a large gin and tonic for me

BigSkies22 · 06/05/2022 17:46

£16 Sainsbury's of which £7 was coffee, £4 asparagus and the rest chicken breasts and a basil plant.
£8 on L'Oreal root touch up spray in Superdrug.
Have moved the geraniums that have been indoors, outdoors - the forecast for the weekend is good here, so I am hoping that, ancient though they be, they will perk up with a good sunbathe. If they're very good, I might repot them tomorrow.
Since it looks like a sandal weekend, will paint my toenails in front of the telly tonight!
Decluttering hasn't progressed as yet this week, but the step ladder to the loft room is still there, so you never know...
Sent in the meter readings today. Want to keep chipping away at the debit balance while we're not using as much.

Timetoswitch · 06/05/2022 19:01

Fell off the thread a bit.

frugal win of the week was 2 x short dated bagels for 20p each. Breakfast this morning, and one pack for the freezer.

£53 petrol. I think petrol was cheaper than the last time I bought it 162.9 🤔

£2.25 on a cake to go with my hot chocolate.

£9.99 on dress for DD.

I’m feeling a bit fed up here, and commiserated with the cake above. My leg is very sore. Had another appointment and he said it may continue to feel worse before it gets better 😢 At least I’m not paying for the physio though! Just fed up though as it’s now almost 4 months on and the GP assessment suggested full recovery within this timeframe.

CheeseMaiden · 06/05/2022 20:10

A few low spend days here, ordered a portable blackout blind for DD bedroom (£26) was going to make one but now a house move is on the cards it felt more economical to get something we can use in the next place.
getting my first hair cut in ages tomorrow so it will be a bit spendy, I will take a thermos of coffee and possibly a packed lunch (buying lunch out will probably cost as much as the haircut!)

HalfWomanHalfChocolate · 07/05/2022 00:06

Hi all! Big was it you that said about putting decorators’ caulk around my cracked panelled door? Well I did, and it looks loads better! Not painted yet though but all ready to go, thanks for the tip.

£126 on the big shop. I’m using up some mince from the freezer to batch cook meatballs for the DC, and also some Bratwurst for a meal for us, so it should have been less than normal, but on the other hand I have bought a fair few store cupboard items like oils and condiments and nuts. I’m eating lower carb at the moment (no refined sugar and no flour) and trying to have a lot more fresh salad and veg. And also taking lunch to work. I’ve hopefully bought everything I need for the week except salad, berries and bread top ups. And will hopefully make a bit of room in the freezer too, it’s rather cluttered at the mo and I can’t even get bread in it.

only other spends were £6.50 from Amazon for those little clip things that you can nail into the skirting to hold wires in place and a bottle of baby bio plant food.

its been a hard week at work - I’m just really behind and struggling to catch up, there’s a lot of pressure on my team at the moment and we have staffing gaps. And the house is a stressful mess because I’ve not managed to actually do any decorating since packing everything up last weekend (though the prep is pretty much all done now). I’ll be going at it full steam ahead this weekend. I’m not sure I can finish it in 2 days as there a lot of woodwork to paint and I think everything will need 3 coats, but if I can do most of it I can still pretty much put the room back to normal to live in it again and finish glossing and doing the radiator when I get the chance. I’m going much darker on the walls, I really hope I like it when it’s done!

I’m still confused by the name changes since I was last here! There are a couple of people I am pretty sure have been here for ages but I can’t put two and two together…. <dense>

HalfWomanHalfChocolate · 07/05/2022 00:14

Oh, and I haven’t posted for a couple of days so I missed the chance to comment at the time, but Decaf, you should defo apply for the family fund and anything else you may be eligible for. It’s not
double money if you already get DLA, the threshold for these things is such that you pretty much have to be eligible for DLA to be eligible for those funds, so everyone who applies will be getting DLA! Your swimming is exactly the sort of thing that should be given funding. I hope you manage to make it work somehow. It’s not selfish to prioritise your mental health. I have two DC with SN (one in receipt of DLA) and it’s pretty hard going at times. Good luck!

ememem84 · 07/05/2022 06:58

DH bought ds a sleep training clock - because he kept getting up stupidly early and making noise. This morning he was up at 4. Lights on. Noisy toys out. So the clock worked then and at around 6 it’s alarm went off. Ds swears he wasn’t playing with it (but I don’t believe him because I left it on top of his wardrobe so he couldn’t reach it but he came in with it). So I’ve been awake since 4. DH is cross because i woke him up dealing with ds.

I am cross because neither child seems to want to sleep past 6 am (dd is awake now too).

lifelongfrugaleer · 07/05/2022 09:18

Oh fgs em. Awfully early start. Hope you get a nap

WreckTangled · 07/05/2022 09:53

Oh no 4 is definitely not wake up time. I would say anything from six is the norm but before that is a dig fat no from me. Ds went though an early waking phases for a while but it was years ago. It does get better.

Will be a nsd here. Dh is at work and I'm doing housework. I didn't get home until 1am so will be having a nap later.

Bornlazy · 07/05/2022 09:56

Hi everyone. Fell off the thread again. I am not liking the new format of MN at all.

Off to catch up properly now as for all I don't post often I do follow. It helps keep me accountable and for all I definitely haven't nailed being frugal I am better than I was.

Bornlazy · 07/05/2022 09:58

That's horribly early em. What time do they go to bed?

ememem84 · 07/05/2022 10:03

Last night they were in bed by 745. Sigh.

at party now with dd.

lifelongfrugaleer · 07/05/2022 14:52

Bloody dog costs me a fortune in balls

HumbugWhale · 07/05/2022 17:10

I've fallen behind again, busy week! Too busy to spend any money though so that's good. Have just done a supermarket shop and we also had a small repair bill but it has been a very low spend week.
I have gone back to what we did in lockdown and bought ice cream cones and a couple of flavours of ice cream to keep in the freezer so we can have ice cream in the garden instead of buying one at the park or wherever. A round of ice creams for 5 of us is at least a tenner so this is a good way to save money and still have a treat.

WreckTangled · 07/05/2022 17:20

Good idea humbug I did that too but had forgotten to thanks. The ice creams in the village shop here are £3.50 Blush needless to say we tend not to buy them from there...

Decafflatteplease · 07/05/2022 18:41

Great idea @HumbugWhale we do similar with multipacks of things like own brand Cornetto etc, there's 6 of us so it soon adds up.

Good frugal day today been on a walk at a nature reserve. Parking has recently doubled though which was annoying but still good value as you just pay for parking. Blue badges still have to pay uurgh (don't have a BB yet but applying for one so scoping out good places to park and visit etc really hope we get a BB) 🤞

Didn't get back until 5.30 so did us all a quick but cheap and yummy tea of sausages from the butcher's on the way home (reduced woohoo) waffles, beans and a fried egg. Felt a bit retro and everyone loved it!

Still haven't decided about the gym. DH is unsure about applying for a grant. We are debating just getting membership for me but I feel selfish 🙄 or maybe the odd day pass for me on the odd day (£15). Decisions decisions!

lifelongfrugaleer · 07/05/2022 18:59

Honestly decaf take what you are entitled to
£9 Aldi, £6 kfc, £££ electric baking

lifelongfrugaleer · 08/05/2022 07:05

Spending day yesterday as dh took ds to a skatepark park and bought lunch, snacks petrol
LSD today

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