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Amble into April Frugaleering

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Unescorted · 17/04/2022 08:15

Follow on from the old thread

This is a space / long running thread for people wanting tips on making life cheaper for what ever reason and support who have to make living less expensive. If you are new here just post away everyone is welcome.

Frugal tips from the hive mind so far....

Check your outgoing-are they essential, are you on the best deal
Loyalty cards for stores you regularly shop at
Meal plan
Annual budget rather than monthly for those, well annual, expenses
Second hand is fine for 90% of stuff
Sign up to money saving expert emails
Insulation at home.
Close curtains at dark and tuck behind rads
Foil behind external wall rad
Turn the heating down . Tropical houses are not necessary
Use the washing line when you can
Look out for food recycling scheme- bread and butter thing, company shop, too good to go type things
Do you have to buy that Christmas/ birthday present. Can you give time instead
Eat less meat (tho I’m rubbish at this)
Have a on toast day. Or baked potato weekly
Double up while the oven is on for a reheat meal or a bake. Save electric running the oven less.
Branded goods are not always the best
-Walk those short trips if possible, instead of using the car (I am the worst for doing this). Saves petrol, good exercise too.
-Combine car trips better too eg dropped DD off at an activity tonight, which is next to the supermarket.
Cancel sky, if you still want the programmes switch to Now Tv for a fraction of the price
Cancel any subscriptions you don't need. Check direct debits to make sure you're not paying for anything you no longer need by accident
Check all your bills, insurances etc are the cheapest you can get for the cover you need (the last bit is important)
If you can get a voucher, use a cash back site or have some sort of work discount (nhs, bluelight, Tesco, student etc) check before paying
Meal plan before you shop. Make extra to freeze for another day as it's often cheaper per kg to buy bigger packs of meat
Go veggie a couple of times a week
Aldi and Lidl are great but not if you're going to get sidetracked by the aisle of doom
An annual budget is essential but pay yourself first each month so money into the annual pot, into savings, off debt before anything else happens. Make sure there's a line in your budget for fun money even if it's a tiny amount, budgeting can be a grind otherwise
You will have patches of spendiness and demotivation, don't give up just start again from wherever you end up
Take your own drinks, snacks, food, picnic - Invariably cheaper and nicer
Make your own if you have a stocked baking cupboard and spice cupboard. Cheaper and nicer, tho building said cupboard can be ££ (costs can be reduced by a visit to your local international supermarket)
Aldi for baking stuff it’s fine.
Work out of season for clothes as it’s usually cheaper
i switched to a coffee subscription (coffee is my weakness) - so our local shop delivers me a 250g bag of ground coffee every 2 weeks (i have 4 in the cupboard currently) and i make my own morning coffee. the subscription is for 6 months and costs me £58 i think. a takeaway from the same shop is £2.80 a pop. so it is a money saver. I bought a Contigo cup (spendy but worth every penny). so take my coffee hot to work with me.

I'm also a fan of using it up. so tings like toiletries, stationary (i am also a notebook hoarder) food etc. not replacing until it's all gone (or all of one thing gone).

my Lloyds account does "save the change" so it rounds up a purchase and then moves the pence to my savings account.

I also pay myself first on payday and am trying to use the things we have- zoo membership - use it loads so worth the £160 a year cost. same with my gym membership i use it so get my moneys worth.

Also what you can save/be frugal on can be inversely related to your means. If you have more "spare" money per month it's easier to buy in bulk and choose things that are cheapest per kg. If you have less or no spare money this isn't possible to do and then you're looking at cheapest price per item rather than per kg.

Agree re taking own stuff although I do often forget but a good coffee cup and water bottle is a good investment if you can afford it

If you have a dog use something like all about dog food to work out what the best food is you can buy based on what you can afford to spend per day
I also give the clothes an extra spin in the washing machine before they go in the dryer, and dry outside whenever i can - currently not living at home, so limited to a washer dryer (which is crap) and an airer next to a rad which i hate.

im a big fan of using the freezer and freeze anything i can. we buy reduced items (like bread and keep it in the freezer as it saves it going off - we maybe get through a loaf every couple of weeks).
I know that credit cards are sometimes seen here as the work of the devil (on MN specifically not this thread) but if you have one use to to your advantage. Mine gives me money back in the form of M&S or amazon vouchers every quarter depending on how much I've spent. and as long as you pay it off every month it works.
Top Cashback for all internet purchases.
Join the library - many have free access to Audible, Libby (for magazines and newspapers) as well as having an amazing selection of books.
Consider how you cook things - residual heat cooking works really well for rice and any slow cooker recipe.
Grow herbs and salad leaves on a window sill
Grow soft fruit - your local allotment / neighbours with a raspberry cane/ strawberry / current / gooseberry will be more than happy to give you a cutting.
Look for local food pantries
If you need credit use a Credit Union. If you are saving support your local credit union by becoming one of their savers.

Useful websites
Money Saving Expert especially the 90 ways to survive the cost of living crisis

Independent Foodbank Network There are some things that I wish we did not need

CAB

step change

cooking on a bootstrap

Thrifty Lesley

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TheNewlmprovedMrsMadEvans · 03/05/2022 21:18

ememem84 · 03/05/2022 21:10

mrs that’s beautiful! And wow! 90! Amazing

Oh thank you so much Em like l say it's not perfect by any means but for my first attempt it's not bad Grin Yes she is 90 already but her party is tomorrrow , her birthday was 2nd of February but Covid Hmm so it's all guns blazing tomorrow Smile

TheNewlmprovedMrsMadEvans · 03/05/2022 21:19

Oh thank you life so kind of you Smile

Wolfcub · 03/05/2022 21:46

£71 for not quite a full tank of petrol. The prices are so depressing.

Need to redo my budget after the NI bit but tax is going to be a bit up and down too so may wait until next month

CheeseMaiden · 03/05/2022 21:59

Just trudged downstairs in my dressing gown to put the chickpeas to soak for tomorrow’s dinner. Dried beans do work out cheaper than tinned but create more faffing about.
Mrs those flowers are beautiful! I hope your mum has a great day tomorrow

BigSkies22 · 03/05/2022 22:10

Current cheap thrill is the last season of Ozark. Resisting the urge to just gorge and have just forced myself to turn off with three episodes to go. Highly recommend if you haven't picked up on it yet. Just watched Marty beat the shit out of a fella in a traffic jam. After a day of difficult admin, I know how he feels.

£9 on more veg from Sainsbury's today. And toothpaste. Tagliatelle with asparagus, peas, basil and pesto for dinner tonight. And green salad with avocado. Am trying to boost the veg intake. And drink more water.

Off to bed with a calming biography of Wordsworth. Definitely need to settle down!

HalfWomanHalfChocolate · 04/05/2022 00:12

Thanks for the decorating info Skies, that is brilliant. I actually have decorators’ caulk for the skirting (only just discovered it exists!) but I didn’t even think about using it on the door. I’ll do that.

A few more DIY bits ordered from Amazon yesterday - more frog tape, sandpaper and some knee pads (kneeling on the corrugated top of my ladder was really starting to hurt).

I’m sorry if I was insensitive talking about buying sofas and shopping at Ocado. Sofas I do not usually buy - been pending since one met with an accident a few years ago but now quite necessary as they are so knackered they are hurting our backs - my polite and tolerant mother even brings a special cushion when she visits. Ocado I do usually do. It’s the time/money trade off and it works for me. I’d love to partly shop in Aldi but I don’t have the time (or freedom) to go to shops in person - my ASD DC would simply not be manageable for a big shop. And I work full time (and then some) in a high pressure job. I often have to spend money to save myself time but it’s financially worth it to have time to work, iyswim. My challenge is to keep some balance so I can save up as our circumstances could easily change (I have had to give up work before for DC and DH earns much less than me - in fact I originally joined this thread because we dropped down to one salary for a couple of years and were eating into our savings)

NSD today. Office-bound tomorrow and I’m taking a packed lunch - to save the ridiculous Pret tax and because I need to shift some serious weight too. Can anyone recommend a salad box that definitely would NOT leak beetroot juices in my bag if placed sideways?

ememem84 · 04/05/2022 06:16

CheeseMaiden · 03/05/2022 21:59

Just trudged downstairs in my dressing gown to put the chickpeas to soak for tomorrow’s dinner. Dried beans do work out cheaper than tinned but create more faffing about.
Mrs those flowers are beautiful! I hope your mum has a great day tomorrow

i had a humongous bag of chickpeas a while ago. Free because a friend was leaving the island and she had them so this as her leaving gift to me. Did you know if you soak them all then you can freeze in batches?

also what are you making?!

WreckTangled · 04/05/2022 06:20

I'm still waiting for my council tax rebate thing. I know others who've received it but not us, they said 14 days after the first payment and ours went out on the 8th Hmm I can't even call them as the idiots took my name off the bill as apparently I can't be liable when I'm a student now they refuse the talk to me even though I've been paying the bill for over eleven years

ememem84 · 04/05/2022 06:25

half

www.epicurious.com/expert-advice/best-salad-containers-for-take-to-work-lunches-article/amp

here are some. I also have a seperate lunch bag which I take with me every day so any spills are contained in that.

im also in the “pay for it to buy myself time” camp. Especially with the dc being small. We have a cleaner every other week for a couple of hours and she is amazing. She sets me back £64. But it means I don’t have to spend my day off or the weekend cleaning and can get other things done.

re fuel prices - we used to be able to fill up for £35 (Ford Fiesta 12 years old). It set me back around £59 the other day. Sigh. Although it will last a month (jersey is only 45sq miles so short trips really!). Although here’s a tip - make sure there pressure is as it should be. Apparently it’s a fuel saver!

CheeseMaiden · 04/05/2022 07:54

Em it’s a batch cooking day so I’m making two dinners! Chickpeas are for cauliflower, chickpea and coconut curry, I am also doing a sausage casserole with spelt and butternut squash.

I tend to soak a double batch of chickpeas and use one lot for cooking and the other for later (possibly houmous for weekend lunches). Freezing is a good idea, I will have to give it a go!

Decafflatteplease · 04/05/2022 13:07

Having a bit of a bleeurgh day today.

Ive needed some new bras for ages and saw some reduced in Asda, they don't fit so have to go back which is really annoying as I was trying to save money buying reduced. Think I'll just have to bite the bullet and go to m and s for a fitting.

This is a luxury but we used to have family gym membership and we don't anymore and we keep saying we will get it back but looking at the finances i don't think it's going to be possible. The children keep asking when can we go swimming again. We used to pay £360 for a 6 month pass and now they want £500. You can pay monthly but that is 110 a month.

There is a council leisure centre you can just pay for a one off swim (gym is only for members) but that's £6 for adults and £4 for children (so £28 a pop) plus I don't think it would be suitable for our disabled dc compared with the private gym which had a hydrotherapy pool etc.

Bit of a first world problem I know but I'm still upset about it

lifelongfrugaleer · 04/05/2022 15:07

£500 is a big chunk upfront but how often do you go swimming? 18 times and you break even what’s that once a week/ fortnight?
moot point if finances don’t stretch though

WreckTangled · 04/05/2022 15:48

That is expensive. For my gym if I have the premium pass is included family swimming and up to four juniors for the gym and is about £40 a month with my nhs discount. I've swapped to a student one for now though which doesn't include the extras. I think the pool is free swimming for under 8's too. I prioritise the gym over other things, and it would be one of the last things to go, I'm sure some people would say that's madness (also aware I'm lucky to have the option to pay).

Nsd.

Decafflatteplease · 04/05/2022 15:49

lifelongfrugaleer · 04/05/2022 15:07

£500 is a big chunk upfront but how often do you go swimming? 18 times and you break even what’s that once a week/ fortnight?
moot point if finances don’t stretch though

When we had our membership we went loads @Decafflatteplease I used it the most tbh I went 2 evening a week and on a Saturday morning. As a family we generally went on a Saturday afternoon but not every Saturday. I also took my disabled dc to hydrotherapy on a Sunday. So we definitely got our money's worth and we have the money in a savings account but it's earmarked for the constant car repairs. Hmmm

Decafflatteplease · 04/05/2022 15:49

Haha tagged myself I meant @lifelongfrugaleer

Decafflatteplease · 04/05/2022 15:55

I also felt it was crucial to my mental health, when I was there I felt nothing was cluttering up my head and all I had to think about was getting to the next length or getting an extra minute on the machine etc. Sometimes I wouldn't even do anything I'd just stand under the luxury (private). shower and sob with the weight of everything sometimes in lockdown. God that's pathetic. I've cried about it today as we always said we would get it back assuming it was around £360 again but I rang today to check and they said £500. No disabled discount etc anymore. Potentially I could just get a pass for myself but I liked the flexibility of the family one, I could go on my own, I could just take 1 DC, my teens could go on their own etc

WreckTangled · 04/05/2022 16:13

Decafflatteplease I would consider it an investment in your (physical and mental) health and ask yourself if rejoining is something your future self will thank you for Grin obviously I don't know the ins and outs of your finances so can't advise in that regard.

TheNewlmprovedMrsMadEvans · 04/05/2022 16:20

@Decafflatteplease l think you really need to go . Can you pay for just yourself lovely? I know if you are a carer for someone & are claiming carers allowance here in Wales, that the carers are given a grant of £500 for their needs and you can use it to pay for help, Cover , a piece of equipment or a sporting activity. Have you anything like that where you live . I am so sorry 😞💐

WreckTangled · 04/05/2022 16:24

Good point mrs there actually is a charity locally here that will gift things to families with children with disabilities. My friend has contacted them a few times and they've paid for her and her husband to have a couple of spa days.

Decafflatteplease · 04/05/2022 16:29

Thanks @WreckTangled and @TheNewlmprovedMrsMadEvans I actually think it's fairly reasonable price even for us all as we get our moneys worth but DH disagrees. We are on one salary due to my being DC full-time carer, I like to say PA 🤣

My mental health is far better now I've recently managed to up my sleep from 5 hours to 7 most nights and feel bloody wonderful. Lockdown was very hard though, most of it was spent in and out of hospital with DC. Onwards and upwards now!

I need to work on my physical strength, I can't lift DC. The doctor literally says I need to do pilates do build my core and I did when we had the gym but now I'm not.

Decafflatteplease · 04/05/2022 16:31

There's that family fund I've heard of but we already get DLA etc, wouldn't feel right to apply for family fund on something so frivolous as a gym. However DC occupational therapist literally recommended this gym to us due to the hydrotherapy pool for DC and we definitely saw benefits from hydrotherapy. Maybe if I keep telling myself it's literally recommended by OT I'll feel less guilty 🤔

TheNewlmprovedMrsMadEvans · 04/05/2022 16:36

No honestly @Decafflatteplease l am sure you can spend it on what you like and you are absolutely entitled to a grant from them . I know many of the families l used to nurse had a regular grant. You should be having it already sweetheart ❤️ l think you need to stop thinking that you are not entitled to it because the funds are there to be used . It's exactly for things like this please look into it 💐

Decafflatteplease · 04/05/2022 16:42

Ok crying again now I've just looked at family fund criteria and tour child has to meet 3 of the 7 "areas of help" listed. Mine meets all 7. I think it becomes normal in a way you don't see what you are doing for your child it's just life.

On a lighter note, frugal tea here, pork chilli in the slow cooker smells amazing, and £1 cake and free custard for afters! Custard was a present,long story 🤣

WreckTangled · 04/05/2022 16:45

Exactly. Honestly when life is more difficult for you than it otherwise would he you should take ask the support that's on offer. I think you should try it.

I say similar to dd, she was able to get a lift pass, uniform pass, leave class early pass and extra time in exams but she kept telling me she didn't feel she really needed it. I said to take all the help that's offered.

TheNewlmprovedMrsMadEvans · 04/05/2022 16:47

Decafflatteplease · 04/05/2022 16:42

Ok crying again now I've just looked at family fund criteria and tour child has to meet 3 of the 7 "areas of help" listed. Mine meets all 7. I think it becomes normal in a way you don't see what you are doing for your child it's just life.

On a lighter note, frugal tea here, pork chilli in the slow cooker smells amazing, and £1 cake and free custard for afters! Custard was a present,long story 🤣

Oh bless you sweetheart ❤️
Apply asap and enjoy that gym membership 💐
l see they prioritise new claimants too! Good luck!
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