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The Lockdown Saving and Spending Continues! May Frugaleers continued

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LaneBoy · 12/05/2020 08:46

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Wolfcub · 04/06/2020 07:52

Sea that would do my head in (dh not ds) the ex also lived in absolute squalor before we lived together and it was a nightmare trying to keep any surface clear. Even last week after two years of tidying up and cleaning up his spaces I found brown sauce packets behind the filing cabinet Angry
Just on the gravittrax thing, can ds have his own play table in the same room and have it on that. So at least you can have an empty coffee table? We had two coffee tables in the living room for years. Table two either housed animals, or when they were dead/between animals, toys. The table was low enough that I could half push it under a shelf to partially hide it (half because otherwise I'd have destroyed whatever Lego creation was on it)

I was supposed to clean last night as I want the weekend free to revise but I was just too bloody knackered and ds was being an arse again all day

Girliefriendlikespuppies · 04/06/2020 08:22

That sounds stressful Sea, another reason on my 'I like being single' list is only having to clear up after myself and dd. It would enrage me to have to clear up after a grown man and would actually be something that would make or break a relationship for me. Would giving him a jobs list that he has to do every day help? Re ds yy to somehow containing his mess, can he have his own space to spread out the books? Could he have pictures of the books on the wall somewhere to look at?

I'm not surprised it stresses you out, just reading about it makes me feel a bit stressed on your behalf!!

Right must get out of bed, it's a work day!!

SnugglySnerd · 04/06/2020 08:22

Ah Sea, I feel your pain with the tiny toys everywhere. Dd1 has, for the last 4 years, played elaborate games that involve lining up tiny toys all over the place. She loves arranging things and gets very upset if they get moved or put away. I have a billion photos of her arrangements on my phone as the only way she will accept tidying is if I photograph them first! They all build things out of Lego and worry that their siblings will trash it so ask me to put them in high up places so our living room bookcases are decorated with Lego creations and it is now spilling onto the kitchen work tops. Don't even get me started on the "art" which I have to sneak into the recycling while they sleep! Yesterday it was loo roll middles sellotaped to printer paper! Obviously I let them keep the good stuff. Then there is the fact that dh always washes up, dried everything and leaves on all on the worktop instead of putting it away. Aaaggghh!

ememem84 · 04/06/2020 08:40

Ah the “art”

I’m trying to create a gallery wall of photos which will go up our stairs. I picked up two rather ornate looking frames from the charity shop (around A3 size) and am planning on spraying them then popping them on the wall but leaving the middles blank. Then when the dc di “art” at nursery/school we can temporarily put them in the frame.

I’ve kept their first ever pieces of painting from nursery and am going to get these framed nicely for the wall. But the rest - in the frame for a bit of it’s deemed good enough and then in the “art folder in the garage” aka the bin.

Happierwithouthim · 04/06/2020 15:41

Wolf that's true knowing the only money leaving your account is that you're spending yourself is a great feeling.

€39 on a fruit and veg box, will be delivered to me at work, interested to see if my grocery bill will reduce accordingly and what quality is like also

€72 on revive active and Paracetamol, this is much more expensive for revive active bought it in my local chemist as I ran out

€42.60 on top up shop yesterday

Girlie yes yes to moving something heavy Grin

Only caught up until Sunday now

Wolfcub · 04/06/2020 16:04

Fruit and veg box - free as company has switched. Ocado £99 coming later. Rhs garden visit free with membership. Posh farm shop £60 - £20 was two bunches of someone's beautiful garden flowers that I treated myself to and £23 on Father's Day gifts for df and ex.

That's the first time I've been in a shop or out somewhere that wasn't walking from home since 20 March. I found it massively stressful to be honest, not sure I'm keen on going out again but it was lovely to see beautiful flowers so I thought I'd share a few pics with you

The Lockdown Saving and Spending Continues! May Frugaleers continued
The Lockdown Saving and Spending Continues! May Frugaleers continued
The Lockdown Saving and Spending Continues! May Frugaleers continued
ChristmasSeacow · 04/06/2020 16:40

I did not enjoy the tube - I went off-peak so it wasn’t especially busy but hardly anyone had masks and I couldn’t relax at all thinking about it not being clean 😬

On the plus side, work gave me a new laptop so I’m back with a proper VPN connection at last - huzzah!

And another huzzah - Lidl has opened up literally underneath my office (it was a very scuzzy Sainsburys but is now shiny and lovely). I spent about £15 there on salmon and spinach for dinner, some fruit, bratwurst and sticker books for the kids and chocolate . I was very impressed with the look of the fresh stuff though couldn’t carry more home, but will defo be popping in again when I’m back in the office. Also £10 in Pret on a baguette, a drink and a couple of coffees. Forgot how expensive lunches can be - I hadn’t planned to be out for lunch but IT needed a couple of hours to encrypt the new laptop for me so i had to hang around and then it was a rush to get back for school pickup. DS was a bit better than yesterday but still not great.

I am knackered now! And I have quite a few papers to finalise ahead of a meeting next week so will probably have to do some work tonight. But right now I’ve crashed somewhat.

Happierwithouthim · 04/06/2020 17:18

Going to drive in cinema tomorrow evening with dc so dd went shopping and spent €18.45 on treats for everyone

They're so looking forward to it I just gave her my card and let her off Grin

lifelongfrugaleer · 04/06/2020 18:51

Nice flowers. Sorry it was a bit stressful.

Enjoy the cinema happier. How you feeling now?

Yeah to fixed laptop.

Nsd here.

SnugglySnerd · 04/06/2020 19:51

I have also been to Lidl today. Weekly shop for us plus some things for my mum £137. It was busier in there today than it has been for weeks which I didn't like.

Wolfcub · 04/06/2020 19:59

Sea is it you who has the digital slr camera? I'm looking to treat myself to one for bird and nature photography and have had a generous contribution from dparents wondered which one you had and if your recommend. Everyone else please feel free to chip in too

Unescorted · 04/06/2020 21:11

wolf I love your chive patch. I thought mine was impressive.

Happier that sounds fun. Enjoy.

I would have been in the how can they live with soooooo much mess and do no tidying camp, but they have spent the day tidying up their crap. I hope it lasts.

I have got some one (bloke) who asked to be my friend on fb and now they keep sending me IM chats - I haven't replied but they are becoming increasingly arsey with me. Yet they haven't said who they are or what they want.... is it socially acceptable to delete them as a "friend" or should I say - I haven't a clue who you are just in case they are a work related person. To put this into context my work address book is several hundred fat and I only put people in who I will have a strong likelihood of contacting in the next month or so.

Wolfcub · 04/06/2020 21:25

Unescorted it's not mine it's the RHS garden. I wish my garden looked a tenth as good

howlatthetrees · 04/06/2020 21:42

I’ve been feeling really nauseous today so haven’t done too much. Sorry for lack of personals but the flowers are lovely wolf

Unescorted · 04/06/2020 22:45

Ha! I so want to go garden visiting. I have a 2 for one for loads of gardens... when they are open again.

Howl hope you feel better soon.

northender · 04/06/2020 23:53

wolf I've got a Sony slr which I've been very happy with. It must be about 6 or 7 years old now.

lifelongfrugaleer · 05/06/2020 07:20

I would totally ask who he is on messenger.

Hope you feel better howl. Is it you expecting DC 4. How far along are you?

Interested in the camera thing as DD is loving photography ATM.

Aldi tonight. Will be a big shop for food and stash stuff

ChristmasSeacow · 05/06/2020 09:14

It is me with the camera Wolf. Tbh most systems are excellent so I doubt you’d be disappointed, it’s more about giving you choices in future. I did a lot of research before buying and decided that I wanted to go with one of the two main systems, which are Canon and Nikon. The advantages are the huge range of lenses available (both system lenses and third party compatible ones) and the trade in second hand lenses etc is strong, so that makes it a bit more accessible to expand your range and also get some money back if you don’t use something much. They are also pretty much guaranteed to keep developing their products and not exit the market (not really a concern if you are likely to just buy a camera as a one-off purchase but if you became a more serious hobbyist you’d appreciate the wider options). Canon and Nikon are both excellent - I went for Canon and have been very pleased, both with the cameras (I’ve had 3) and some really superb lenses.

A lot of my gear is more than 10 Years old (and still working perfectly!) so I can’t really advise about exact models on the market now. I have always found the entry level canons to be fantastic value though and do most of what the more expensive sub-pro lenses can do, but I have appreciated the extra functionality on the slightly higher range ones, and the build quality is a bit better once you get off the lowest rung. I’d maybe go for the entry level or one above, if you can stretch to it. I’ve had a quick look and there are quite a lot of options now so it’ll take a bit of research! Basically though:

  • entry level with either Canon or Nikon will be excellent (others probably also Very good but those are the most comprehensive systems, most serious photographers use one of those in my experience)
  • the level above that will have slightly more functionality and may be more robust - so possibly worth a stretch if you can manage it
  • above that, to be honest, the quality of your lens (and the experience of the operator!) will have far more impact on your picture quality than a better camera, unless /until you get really and and /or
Have very specialist needs
  • often at the entry-level end the cameras are not ‘full frame’ - basically that means that for a given Lens length your picture will be a bit ‘Zoomed in’. This is totally not a problem, you just get used to the effect that a given lens length gives you on your camera. I actually never upgraded to full frame, I just got the best cropped frame camera I could buy because the extra crop was really useful to me (I did a lot of bird and wildlife photography and so the extra ‘zoom’ on top of my expensive long lenses was really helpful). If you become a semi-pro level Landscape photographer you’d want a full frame camera but below that level you’d probably not notice. And wide angle Lenses are cheaper than super zooms.
  • I see some DSLRs now come with smartphone type controls. I wouldn’t recommend that at all if you really want to learn about photography, rather than just take some nicer pictures up to a point. It’d be like learning to drive an automatic and then finding later (if you like Driving) that you can’t drive any of the cars you really want because they’re all manual!
  • it would be a good investment to buy a good photo magazine. I’d recommend Digital Camera. They have some good articles to whet your appetite but also Usually have a comparison of the main cameras on the market with pros and cons. I think Readly even have some of those magazines, if you have that?

You’ll get good advice from a proper retailer but it helps to have thought about what’s important to
You before you get bombarded with options. I’d be happy to chat more about it (PM or
Even - gasp! - actual phone chat!) but I won’t bore on any more here now!

ChristmasSeacow · 05/06/2020 09:18

Sorry - lots of typos! I should also say that as you go up the ranges the cameras tend to get a bit bigger and heavier. So that’s worth thinking about - especially if you start lugging extra lenses around too!

lifelongfrugaleer · 05/06/2020 09:19

That's so useful sea. Sorry for jumping in there wolf.

Wolfcub · 05/06/2020 10:06

Thanks Sea that's really helpful I will have a ponder. I've done a fair bit of research and asked birding groups etc that I'm part of on fb what they are keen on but I like to know what people I trust think so you lot are always a good bet for advice.

I have a canon eos slr film camera, fairly high in the range when I had it for photography gcse and with a lovely lens. obviously no good now and is about 25 years old and battery is probably buggered so I know a bit but would need to refresh all my knowledge and take some classes probably.

I'm quite taken with the Nikon D750 but I have a loyalty to the canon eos as always got on well with the layout of things.

ememem84 · 05/06/2020 10:29

Morning all.

Have to get new tyre today so will get on that this afternoon.

Other than that a day of tidying up I think.

Dh said this morning he’s really looking forward to us both taking the day on Tuesday to clean the house since the kids are at nursery. I’ve told him to crack on as I’ll be working....

ChristmasSeacow · 05/06/2020 13:01

Wolf, if you think a birding photos might be something you’ll want to do the. The cropped sensor is a huge advantage. You need pretty long lend for bird photos and the 1.6x magnification is a great help.

Many of the Canon EOS cameras have this, I think Nikon does too but it might not be so much of a magnification factor, I’m not sure. Something to consider.

Wolfcub · 05/06/2020 13:15

£48 diesel. First time I've filled up since 20 March. Lower diesel prices are a revelation although I wish I'd filled up last week when they were 6p less.

I've spent a sweaty hour and a half in the attic packing more bags of h's stuff to take tomorrow. Knackered now

Sawed a bit off my budleija this morning to make it easier for people to pass by.

Took my car to df's for a wash and had a socially distanced cuppa.

Wolfcub · 05/06/2020 13:16

Thanks Sea. I will have a look at that