Sneaky there’s nothing funny about how tight things are for you
but I did guffaw about the marmalade 
Thanks for the recipes Sneaky and North. I didn’t fancy chocolate today as I made a chocolate pudding last week but will file both recipes, thanks. In the end I made one from the bbc website which looked a lot like yours North but with plain flour and baking powder (I thought I had SR flour but used lots of it yesterday for pancakes). It was a little too big for the dish I used so I made a fair mess 😬 BUT it worked brilliantly. Why did I not know about microwave steamed puddings before??!!! So thanks all for teaching me something new, and quite frugal. I didn’t eat it (still trying to lose weight) but the others tucked in enthusiastically. Dd said ‘mmmmm pudding, nice! More pudding!’
Someone rang our doorbell during dinner but there was no one there. I’ve heard there’s a lot of late afternoon burglaries going on round here at the mo and they ring to see if the house is occupied
so I’m going to make sure I leave the alarm on and a light when we’re out. Cheeky fuckers.
Some good news (sort of). As the regulars know my lovely DGM passed away in May. I knew she’d left me and my sisters some money in her will but DM (who is the executor) told us today approx how much. It’s more than I expected so should enable us to do the essential work to the house (ie finally do something drastic to fix the leaky mouldy conservatory) and hopefully get the new kitchen we desperately need too. I’ll have to get a builder in first to tell us what work is needed. It’s a relief because we do need to do something drastic and as things stand, with the persistent leak and damp problem, I think we’d struggle to sell this house. And it’s always been on my mind that we might need to sell at some stage if we need to move for a special school for DS. Not looking forward to the disruption , but it’s going to take a good while to get to that stage anyway. Onwards!
Right, now the kids are in bed I can get the rest of the decorations up
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