Omg, it never rains, it pours, doesn't it? I have so much shite going on atm, it would take about 5 hours to type huge rants about it all, I am so stressed. But a quick summary of the poor health: DH is ill with a bad cold, DD is ill with bronchiolitis (had to take her to GP yesterday morning) and HV came in the afternoon and thinks she has croup too, DGuinePig is ill with a bad eye so I had to take him to the vets today, he got hay stuck in his eye so he needs antibiotic drops and it also turns out he has cataracts in both eyes and probably diabetes too but they're age-related so nowt we can do about that, and HV sent me to the GP this morning who has referred me to CBT and prescribed buspirone for my anxiety. HV is coming again in two weeks time and I also have to go back to see the GP in 2 weeks time. And need to chase up my birth debrief in about that time too as no response yet from the delivering doctor re: a date and it's been about 2 weeks. Sigh. Anxiety through the roof, like you em but for v. different reasons. We also have loads of shit going on with our finances, with benefits, and debts, etc AAARGH. I have another thread here in Money Matters about the benefits. So confusing.
Em Hope you're feeling better now? 
I am too frightened to try any sort of relations as I still have soreness from childbirth (tmi soz) and am terrified it will thus be very painful 
also cannot relax as DD's sleep is so sporadic that I get anxious she will wake up at any moment and so I can't relax. She has been particulary terrible the last few days, crying alllll the time again. She screamed yesterday most of the time from 5pm until 9.30pm bar a 30 minute nap, it was exhausting and DH and I were both at the end of our tethers.
Probably won't be an NSD as heading to my primary school's Xmas fayre later this afternoon.