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First Frugalling month of 2018 almost done , so Forging forward into Feb we go

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Laska5772 · 23/01/2018 22:52

...and here we go !
Welcome all!

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LonelyOversharer · 26/01/2018 19:39

laska lots of yarn. Lots and lots! What I'd do is get a nice amount to get started with, then buy more as you go along. This is very against guidelines with yarn buying, dye lots etc, but colours are very stable really. Especially if you get acrylic or cotton. Have a look at attic24 (google for blog or through woolwarehouse) as these are packs for big blankets, which would give you an idea of quantity.

AdoraBell · 26/01/2018 19:58

Glad they are safe Cag, and yeah Hmm at families. Some anyway.

Happy birthday need

Maz everyone is welcome here Smile

Slightly spendy today, I got cold and ended up having soup in a coffee shop. DH paid for that though. I bought takeaway for DD1, off school with a rotten cold, £6 -ish. Butchers, £24- ish in total, about £40 on presents for DH’s birthday tomorrow.

mammymammyIRL · 26/01/2018 20:34

Can I make a suggestion for love's dolls nappies? I should have reusable nappies belonging to dc if I posted them to lonely maybe she could refashion into dolls nappies?

mammymammyIRL · 26/01/2018 20:34

Or even refashion the cute nappy bags into nappies?

LonelyOversharer · 26/01/2018 20:43

Oh yes mammy that's proper frugaleer recycling! Shall I pm you?

I had them for dd1, and sold on the bnip, unused toddler ones (dd1 was potty trained in size 4 nappies, little bum!) on ebay... got my listing pulled for "indecency" I had put the word 'baby' and 'nappy' in the listing!! I went on live chat to find out as I was stunned. They weren't even that unusual then.

AuditAngel · 26/01/2018 20:59

Hi all, just checking in.

Had a call on Wednesday from the partner previously overseeing my department, my pay rise is 3% so, about £80 a month after tax.

Spends yesterday £30 on a takeaway dinner, petrol £42 (but can reclaim the)

Today £4.50 for lunch

mammymammyIRL · 26/01/2018 21:25

So please lonely as I'm on app & can't seem to pm you, it might save you buying pul

Girliefriendlikesflowers · 26/01/2018 22:13

Hi all just checking in, am exhausted after a busy couple of days, was my great aunts funeral today so we caught the train Ystd straight from work, stayed at a premier Inn over night and went to the funeral this morning. The wake was at a local pub and was a cooked meal which was nice. The funeral was sad obviously but also very much a celebration of a long and happy life, my great aunty was 103 bless her and had a fantastic life, an inspiration.

Anyway am glad we went, coming home via London at peak time on a Friday was an experience mind 😮

Spent £10 on food to eat on the train for 3 of us today but that's all.

Happy birthday need 🎁🎂🎈🎉

Mummycatface · 26/01/2018 22:16

I want Grey and mustard in the new house now.

Not caught up. Will try over the weekend.

House viewings today: house one - icky conservatory, not great use of space, shower in a cupboard (not kidding)

House 2 - no.

House 3 - gorgeous barn conversion. Totally lovely. But listed building and not enough space downstairs. Living room smaller than ours currently. Big bedrooms though.

Nsd.

Clarabumps · 26/01/2018 22:44

Can I join in? I started his week, I got my shopping bill down from over 100 quid to 44. I'm trying to not buy crap. I'm carrying cash about ina coin purse and not using my cards. I need to save fo a holiday and also pay my credit card bill. 🙄

AdoraBell · 26/01/2018 22:52

Everyone can join Clara, well done on reducing shopping bill.

Girlie sorry for loss but glad great aunt had a fantastic life Thanks

ChristmasSeacow · 26/01/2018 23:26

Gosh, a busy day on the thread! DD is definitely teething (miserable, with one bright red cheek); consequently I’ve been holding her all day while she grumbles and got nothing done. Not even important mumsnetting. only spends were loaf of bread £2.95 (local bakery, really nice whole grain seedy stuff but I think we’re going to have to trade down even though it’s low GI and relatively healthy !) and an avocado, £1.45. Dd ate half of that by sucking it off some toast. She’s mighty efficient at eating for a creature with no teeth.

Day 2 of sleep training: she cried for less than 2 mins tonight and was asleep within 15 while I just sat there doing nothing. Astonishing. This hadn’t solved the night waking as that is a different problem to tackle next, but it’s definitely progress. And such a relief that it’s not making her and therefore me frantically miserable. DH is back in with her now though so he’s a bit fed up!

I’m halfway through an Attic24 crochet blanket as it happens Lonely and Laska, to the pattern Lonely suggested. Can’t remember how many balls I started with but at least 19 x 100g for something that will be a bit under single bed size. So yes, lots. It won’t matter buying in dribs and drabs if you are buying something mass manufactured and not vair naice hand-dyed. Which you would need to remortgage for to do a double bedspread with anyway!

Great news that your DN has been located Cag. Though still sounds a bit shaky.

Hope you poorly frugaleers are feeling better, especially birthday girl Need 🥂

Meadow will do, probably at some stage over the weekend. For some reason DS took a shine to the mumsnet guide to pregnancy so I’ll have to find out where he’s hidden it 😂. Can’t believe you are halfway already, easy for us to say that’s gone quickly when we’re not the ones chucking up!

I love yellow and grey in other people’s houses but don’t think I can pull it off. It looks really good with clean lines and no clutter, which is not the first description of my house that springs to mind

Must go to bed...

lifelongfrugaleer · 27/01/2018 07:00

£60 in Aldi yesterday and £19 in Iceland.
£20 to my friend for star gazing tickets. We went last night and it was very good.

Today is gym for me, DC swim and footy. £5.
Odds and ends from sainsbury I can only get there which is never cheap.

I need to change my dual fuel tarrif and apply for 3 jobs.

Welcome lots of new frugaleers

I love Rome need, would go back in a flash.

TheDuchessofDukeStreet · 27/01/2018 07:09

Checking in. Up early today. DP has to get up to take the car in to have new tyres. We had planned a day out to our local cathedral city, for a mooch about the cathedral, second hand bookshop and roman remains. I have a gift card for Prezzo, which a colleague gave me as a thank you for looking after her cat, so lunch out an option. Hope this happens, could do with a look out.

After watching the big cat program on the BBC, have decided to try to avoid products with palm oil. In practice I think this will mean more home made things and less bought so a good thing re frugality too.

My (second hand) copy of The art of frugal hedonism arrived. Have skimmed it and will have a closer read over the weekend.

Laska5772 · 27/01/2018 07:38

seacow thanks for pointing me to the attic 2 website ( you did even though you didn't mention it). it looks great ..am quite excited at finding that. I think ill be going out to get some wool now! glad to hear of some progress on Dd and sleeping..

love thanks for the wool warehouse link also ..will def get some from there .. I can see now that double bed is a bit ambitious (especially as i really only want a throw !!..so am going to start smaller) .

audit slightly envious of your 3% ( though am sure its well justified) my job is public sector and we've been 'lucky ' to get 1% for the last few years ..( not even standing still..Angry).. supposedly we are supposed to be getting 2% this year but I wont be there!

catface keep at it, you'll find somewhere lovely.. if you are selling first and not in a chain you'll have an advantage. hope your family- Dps Ds and mil stress is easing a bit

I am up early for a Saturday! - well for me anyway - I woke up hungry ! but the diet is going really well ,(10lbs lost since 2nd week of Jan) .. am thinking of going over to Southampton today I haven't looked at weather yet though as of course ill have to get the boat... I fancy a bit of a wander around the shops (dangerous I know).. I need to take back the one pair of curtains that were too small, and get the matching fabric for tie backs for new curtains, (strange JL dont do them).. and wool! I might look at the Hush concession in JL also

girlie 103 is a brilliant age.its good when a funeral is a celebration of a life well lived My mum is 92 and apart from being a bit frailer and deaf is really in quite good health..but my DSF (who is a bit younger) keeps acting like shes about to drop dead every time she gets a sniffle or falls asleep during the day.. Hes wrapping her up in cotton wool all the time because he is scared and really its stopping her from fully living whats left of her life . I have given up trying to change him or suggest things now, its useless.. But they are just not doing stuff anymore (he is in good health also ) but getting so depressed and i really dont know what to say to them any more ..

I just get so cross to see them acting like this but they wont change now. my brother who still lives with them (at the age of 53!..never moved out). is worse than useless when it comes to encouraging them.. though at least he does do lots of the stuff around the house to help them) ..My mum is still feisty though, but then they argue.. and DSF rings me to mediate..(i refuse to).

Ruddy Hell! Parents! who'd have them? Grin. At least they are not part of the mad 'possible inheritance' issue ,(this is all about my my birth family) and i have banned them from talking about it ..

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Laska5772 · 27/01/2018 07:40

life dont for get to look at the big switch9 tariffs

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Laska5772 · 27/01/2018 07:45

and Welcome clara and maz dont worry if you can keep up... we are a really chatty lot!. We like to save and spend,.. but frugaleering is what helps us do both..Smile

Any help just ask .. someone will have a good idea!

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WreckTangled · 27/01/2018 07:53

We haven't got any plans this weekend. The dc are already climbing the walls 🙄

ChristmasSeacow · 27/01/2018 07:56

Much better night, go DD!

Off to meet a friend from out of town at Waterloo. Taking DD to introduce her, will also take Calpol in case she is not her usual charming self! Should be LSD as we’re just having coffee. I’ll borrow DH’s travel card.

Have a good day everyone

ChristmasSeacow · 27/01/2018 08:01

Cross posted with Laska - yes, Attic24 is a lovely blog for crochet (mostly blankets and home decorations). And most of her stuff is actually very simple to do so very accessible.

SunnyLikeThursday · 27/01/2018 08:01

Laska It sounds hard but you tell your family stories in such a funny way that I always am on tenterhooks to know more. I think you and catface should club together and write novels about your families. I would definitely read both.

My folks are moving down to live near us soon, so then I should think I will have interesting family stuff going on too. Hoping it's mostly fun and not too much stress.

Loveabaconsandwich · 27/01/2018 08:08

Love that I have started a MN frugaleering project! Please do let me cover the postage/costs for you too mammy

cag if you pm me your address, it should be Tuesday when I get to the post office to send the nappies

laska i’m hoping to persuade DP to drive us to Southampton tomorrow to go to ikea and JL. Not sure he will though! We have JL vouchers and an envelope of cash from Christmas earmarked for ikea so wouldn’t be too unfrugal.

Mummycatface · 27/01/2018 08:10

Morning.

Riding today (finally some much needed time on my own! Hoorah!) £37. I missed last weeks so have to pay an extra £10.

Then we’re viewing two houses. One under budget in a not so great area (in my opinion) and one quite a bit over. Both 3 bed houses. With gardens. One is £475k the other a whopping £680k.

The right place will be out there for us. I know it. Just have to keep on looking.

seacow great news re dd sleeping straight off. Hoorah. Any chance you can share some tips? Ds refuses to nap in the afternoons. I put him down for a nap yesterday and he was having none of it. He cried and cried and cried. Even though he was visibly tired. He just refuses to afternoon nap which is making things super difficult for me to be able to do anything.

Loveabaconsandwich · 27/01/2018 08:12

Sorry you haven’t found ‘the’ home yet catface . We once viewed nine houses in one day and didn’t find one! But it did make us decide we definitely wanted to find a house in our current location. So viewing useless stuff can help you decide what you really need so you find the good one!

Frazzled74 · 27/01/2018 08:14

Morning all, will catch up with the thread later, I’ve been on annual leave this week but worked everyday as overtime! A little something for the holiday fund😊! I’m exhausted today though! Can I ask if people use budget planner apps and which one is Best? Once debt free in April, I am determined to save and remain debt free. Also, how much do people budget for 2 adults, 3 children? Just food and not too frugally?