meadow deff try and get back to it if you can. I had about a 20 year break but it's the best thing I've ever done. It's done wonders for my mental health. No matter how tough my weeks are I always feel better knowing I've got that hour and half or so with the ponies at the weekend. Sort of revives me you know? Gives me something to really concentrate and focus on and is also great for fitness.
I like the non riding parts too. I don't have to, but tend to get their early to brush down and tack up and then stay to cool down and untack and have a pat and a cuddle with "my" pony. Something about being with animals soothes me.
It's not a very frugal hobby. But if you can find the right place to re-learn it's worth every penny. I pay £25 a week for a group lesson but if I want additional lessons it's another £30. I tried 3 stables until I settled on the one I go to. My instructor is strict but she's very hands on and instead of just telling me where I'm going wrong, she shows me. Yesterday I didn't have my bum right during the sitting trot so she shifted me. I know that's not everyone's cup of tea but for me it helps.
My hat cost £60 and jodhpurs about £30 a pair. I have two on rotation. Also boots £60 (in the sale reduced from about £140 so absolute bargain) and a pair of chaps £20. But none of this was initial must haves - I just prefer to have my own stuff. I borrowed a hat initially and rode in jeans and flat boots.
What I did find is that it's not uncommon for "grown ups" to start riding. I was concerned that I'd be the only adult with a group of kids. But in my group there are 3 of us "oldies" im the youngest at 32. The others are 49 and 60.
Pony ramble over.
I've just had a look at the wedges I ordered. One pair is def going back. And one pair is a maybe. The other is a keeper. Yay!