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Frugaleers saving and chatting through April

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SunnyLikeThursday · 28/03/2017 13:16

Newbies welcome to join us for a bit of chat about budgeting, saving, paying off debt, and everything else that comes along.

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Cagliostro · 03/04/2017 09:49

Welcome Holly :)

Wow need well done! Looks like an amazing experience 🌟

Awesome painting all and hope you enjoy the science museum. Please report back especially if you visit the wonderlab, the new maths gallery or robot exhibit :o

Oh nooo girlie poor hamster :( fingers crossed.

DH is walking to the shops, as need says best not to risk seizing up by staying too still. Final tally was 96ish miles, sooo close to his target so he's annoyed about that. But as it is he was one of the least experienced there in terms of ultra running.

Frugal win with the takeaway, none of the codes worked online so phoned up and they let us order that way with an even better code. £47 for 8 people so not bad I'd say.

Had some bad news though, one of DH's family members is seriously ill in hospital. Only early 20s and totally out of the blue :( DH will be travelling there in the next few days to help out, we've cancelled a few things this week (teaching etc) so he can just up and go. Looking like they are improving but it's a lucky to be alive (because the first hospital sent them home!!!) precarious situation IYSWIM. No idea what the prognosis is yet. Sure puts morning sickness and post run aches into perspective! Poor thing :(

Cagliostro · 03/04/2017 09:50

X post wreck glad the first leg of the journey has been good! Poor DS though - growing pains are horrible :(

PolkadotPony · 03/04/2017 10:59

I'm still here, a very busy weekend, including a sports massage which really hurt, and being locked out of my house at 1am and having to wake up a friend. Oops.

Ds1 father has actually started paying maintenance now so I'm that much up (not a lot, more the principle of it for me).

Nothing else to report.

CremeEggThief · 03/04/2017 11:11

Gosh, Cag, really sorry to hear about your relative. Terrible news.Sad I really hope they pull through.

Girliefriendlikesflowers · 03/04/2017 13:29

Oh noCag that sounds awful Sad hope he is o.kay Flowers

Glad trip going well so far Wreck have an amazing time!

Have spent £58 in Lidls, got loads for that hopefully enough to see us over the Easter hols. Dd is in a holiday club from Wed so needed lots of pack lunch bits as well.

Taytocrisps · 03/04/2017 14:54

NSD yesterday but a spendy one today. I had to take DD to the doc so that amounted to €50 (GP visit) + €10.56 (prescription). I also spent a few euros on soft food (for DD's sore throat) like soup, jelly and custard. It looks like DD will be off school for a few days so I guess I'm saving a bit on school lunch ingredients - desperately looking for a silver lining here. I can claim some of the €50 back through DH's health insurance.

Dinner will be leftover fish pie (for me) and soup (for DD). DH is going to pick up something in work.

Have a nice holiday Wreck

Sunny the robot building event sounded like fun

Meadow don't feel bad about your volunteering efforts. They really need anther adult at a minimum - relying on teenagers is a bad idea.

Cag can't believe your DH set out to run 100 miles! A pity his injury prevented him from finishing. Sorry to hear about his relative - hope the patient makes a good recovery.

need well done on your hill run. When I read the quads reference, I thought I'd missed another pregnancy announcement!

allthebest what a lovely painting!

SnugglySnerd · 03/04/2017 14:56

Have a great time, Wreck!

That sounds awful, Cag, hope he's ok.

Trying to up our fruit and veg intake. We already pack in quite a lot but we're so exhausted I think our immune systems need all the help they can get! Fresh fruit is so expensive though.

northender · 03/04/2017 16:31

Well I'm back after about 10 days where "real" life took over. I've been so busy with work & other stuff. So far I've only read back today but will try to catch up properly later.
need well done on the run.
wreck have a fantastic holiday. I'm just a little Envy
meadow hope you're feeling brighter now
Em good luck with the house hunting
Cag hope the relative picks up quickly.

I had a personal training session this morning. Really hard but good. On Saturday I had my weight and measurements etc done & was really pleased. Compared to May last year my waist is 8cm smaller, hips 3cm smaller and my weight is down by 6kg...woohoo! It might not sound much in that time span but considering that for 6 months of that time, after my illness, I did no exercise whatsoever, I'm so pleased. Only 33 kg to go!
We're having to remortgage (long story) so I've been researching that and what deal will be best for us. We're going with a 5 year fixed rate (1.7%). It has high fees but all fees will be covered by our existing lender. As part of the same issue, I also need to open a new current account so I've been weighing that up too. So many different offers, it's hard to weigh up what will benefit us the most.
A friend came round for lunch today so dd & I spent a couple of hours cooking & baking soup, bread rolls and flapjack. Delish.
Need to meal plan for the rest of the week but tonight it's going to be chicken fajitas. I'm working tomorrow so am hoping to leave ds to make spag bol for tea.

hellokittymania · 03/04/2017 16:45

I really want to save more on food as I am living alone and waste so much. I don't have much of a freezer though so I can't freeze meals or battch cook much . I have a disability so sometimes will shop online to save time, but I find that ordering from Sainsburys and being charged 7 pounds if I spend the minimum of 25 pounds is crazy. I end up trying to spend over 40, but end up wasting food. Any ideas on how to do things better?

needastrongone · 03/04/2017 16:59

Cag The mileage your DH did manage to complete is simply incredible and he should be very proud of what he achieved. I'm really sorry about your family member.

North That's great news about the measurements and a real incentive to keep going.

Tayto Don't swear!! I don't want to be pregnant with one, never mind 4!!

Kitty How about tins and packets etc? And use the freezer space for some frozen veg, that's pretty cheap. I got a years free delivery pass with Ocado by signing up. I think Tesco have a lower amount than £40 for delivery but I am not sure exactly what that is.

Spends.
£15 personal training session.
£20 sun tan cream for the face from Amazon.

Meal plan so far -
Pork chilli enchiladas.
Beef and chorizo in the SC.
Minestrone soup.

Cagliostro · 03/04/2017 17:16

Unfortunately Tesco changed their minimum spend to £40 for delivery saver customers a while back, but I think you can still spend less and just pay the fee? I'm sure they have some really cheap slots now like £1/£2 but admittedly I don't pay attention now. We switched to the midweek only delivery saver if that's any good, it's half the price of the anytime one so it's like £3 a month I think? But again you have the £40 minimum spend then so may still not be suitable. If we are short of the minimum I order household stuff like loo roll and laundry liquids but if storage is at a premium that may not work either if you end up doing it every week. Mind you maybe you could do it fortnightly and then top up in a shop on the other weeks or something?

Thanks all for the good wishes. More tests today but looks like they are over the worst thank goodness

Fluffycloudland77 · 03/04/2017 18:10

What a horrible thing to happen though Cag. So young too.

North 1.7% Envy

kitty Do Iceland deliver to your area?. It's cheaper delivery. They do fresh stuff too.

What kind of things are you throwing away? The love food/hate waste site has lots of storage ideas for fresh stuff.

NSD. Because I forgot my purse.

£1.90 Amazon voucher from topcashback.

ChristmasSeacow · 03/04/2017 18:22

Hi all, been reading on the move but not posting for a few days.

Well done on the running Need and CagDH, either of those feats would literally kill me.

Sorry to hear about the relative Cag fingers crossed it's upwards from here.

Mammy I'm sorry your DH was a bit of a dick on Mother's Day and that it spoiled your day. Your doll trip sounds as though it did you good. How are things at home now?

Glad the journey is okay so far Wreck. I expect the jet jag will be hard on the kids but once you all bounce back from that i bet you'll have a wonderful time. I loved NZ.

Meadow I agree the size, age range and language range of your group would be pretty challenging even for an experienced teacher so don't feel you are doing a bad job. A bit of structure (and someone showing an interest in them) is a lot better than nothing. Shame you don't have a core group of adult volunteers, that's what such a complex group really needs... but you are doing a great job with very little help!

I am sure I have forgotten loads, do please forgive me.

We've had a mixed week. The meeting for DS's EHCP went okay on Thursday. Probably as well as it could have done, in the circumstances (the circumstances being: they didn't have the therapists' reports in time for panel meeting or draft). We have a good amount of 1:1 support proposed but no therapy (DS definitely needs SLT and OT). Hopefully we will get that through later iterations, although the process isn't at all clear! Spent £10 on taking DS for lunch to make it up to him for dumping him in nursery on a non-nursery day - he was not happy!

Friday was a disaster - took DS to a children's farm /soft play/outdoor play place out in the country. Arranged to meet mum there. I wanted to have a nice day out with DS before the easter hols (when everything is too busy for him). Anyway, for various reasons he was overwhelmed and really upset so he had a meltdown and wanted to go home. I felt awful for mum who'd had quite a long drive especially with getting so lost and we then left pretty much straight away. I was a bit upset to realise again how a small trip to a fairly quiet venue is still too much Sad. I cried in front of mum, which I try not to do. Probably hit me harder after Thursday's meeting (3 hrs of discussion and professional reports on DS's difficulties and how behind he is). So a crap end to the week. I really wanted a nice G&T but had to settle for pickled onion monster munch!

Weekend was better - met a friend in Oxford st on Saturday. Had a really nice lunch at Wahaca which was excellent value - £16 for a huge burrito, shared a guacamole starter and had two posh soft drinks (hibiscus water?!). I was very restrained in the shops and only bought a cardi and matching hat for the baby but am v pleased with them.

Yesterday - leaving party for my lovely good friends who are moving to the country Sad. I baked cake and cookies but no spends.

Ocado was only £65 this week but no nappies. Will be much more again next week.

DH's study is still full of crap. We are running out of time and I am running out of patience Angry. He has approx 400 CDs that he doesn't know what to do with but won't put in the loft. Plus several old computer towers, games, piles of paperwork, school and college newsletters, back issues of magazines blah blah. If there's no progress by next week it's all being boxed up and shoved in the garage. Grrr!

ChristmasSeacow · 03/04/2017 18:23

Yes I'm with Fluffy, North 1.7% Envy.

allthebestplease · 03/04/2017 19:22

Wow 1.7% for 5 yrs, that's brilliant. Id recommend First Direct for a bank acct. The are so helpful and efficient.

Science Museum was great fun....and spent only £6 for a full day out in London (I paid half the parking fee at O2). Wondelab was super with lots to do and we watched some of the shows.

Tired now though.

Strawberrythief87 · 03/04/2017 19:40

Hey everyone
All Glad you had a great time at the Science museum, I absolutely love it, me and DP went to a month or so back and I did have quite a moment in front of Tim Peak's capsule ("I've seen that go into space, and now it's here, thats like proper magic"). Any future dc's we have will get dragged round there ALOT

Cag All best for your relative, sounds like people are rallying round but it's still hard

Seacow Sounds like a mixed few days but glad you had a lovely lunch with your friend, sounds like your DH needs a bit of a poke to get going with that declutting!

i had a very spendy day yesterday, a day out with family including all my nephews so giving them money for birthday's just gone and upcoming etc. Totally worth it but looking forward to having a leaner week now. NSD today but I was very tempted then I went into a charity shop in a very nice area I work in to find all loads of Whistles and Boden, Sea Salt etc. dresses, different sizes as well so not just one lot they've been donated- I think I'll be back when I'm not being so tight with myself!

lifelongfrugaleer · 03/04/2017 19:51

£19 in sainsbury. Ds has an infection so off school tomorrow.

ememem84 · 03/04/2017 19:58

Bah. Wrote a long post but lost it.

Aaaah.

Nsd today. Yay!

Found out that the house we put our offer in on has been marketed with another agent.
Our offer has neither been accepted nor rejected. The vendor (according to the second agent) is hedging their bets and is holding out for a higher offer. I almost told second agent about the roof issue. But thought better of it.

If it's meant to be it'll still be around in a month or two.

CremeEggThief · 03/04/2017 20:43

Nothing is ever straight forward, Em. As you say, if it's meant to be, it will be.

Glad that your relative is stable now, Cag. Fingers crossed for a full recovery.Flowers

Spends: £3.72 posting two large letters 2nd class recorded; £4.53 on my card in the Co-op, on salad, more bread and loo roll; £1.90 bus fare after Pilates. Total: £10.15.

Girliefriendlikesflowers · 03/04/2017 20:45

Seacow that sounds like a tough few days, although dd isn't ASD I can really relate to the struggles of a child who is easily overwhelmed, we had many a day out esp when she was young that would one way or another end up being stressful and with dd and me having an epic meltdown Sad Am sure your friend understood though. That amount of clutter would really annoy me, could the cds go into a cd case book thing? Thats what we did with dvds in the end and just stuck the empty cases in the loft.

The hamster has had a reprieve as had to rearrange the vets for one reason and another, she is going tomos morning now.

Cagliostro · 03/04/2017 21:06

Thanks all. Here's hoping the improvement continues! :)

Seacow gosh what a few days you've had. FFS at them not getting reports on time!

Thanks for reporting back on wonderlab, we are desperate to go. Agree about Tim Peake's capsule, will be totally star struck!

Spent a fortune on Tesco just now. Agree with Snuggly fresh fruit and veg can be so expensive. Worth it though I feel. Our local Lidl is abysmal for it - strawberries full of mould etc. Normally try and limit it purely due to cost but finding it difficult to stomach much else at the moment, and it's not gonna do any harm is it. Got sea bass again too, don't even care it's an extra £4, SO SO GOOD. And asparagus to go with it. Defo my fave fish. Also love skate but that's really hard to find! Might ask my dad - it's his fave too - for when we're staying over there next week, especially as they have a fryer and his chips are the bestest :o

ememem84 · 03/04/2017 21:23

chip butties virtuous salad with quinoa tofu and kale for tea. Best tea this week!!

cag hope you're relative is ok xx I adore sea bass. What are you going to do with it?

Coppersulphate · 03/04/2017 21:25

Welcome Holly,
Wow, Seacow what a few days you've had. At least the day out with your friend was quiet and peaceful.
Cag, hope DH's relative recovers quickly. One of the advantages of youth is that they are fairly resilient and usually recover well.
Blimey Wreck is in Hong Kong...probably in the air again by now.
Girlie...poor hamster
All my DD took het DCs to thevScience Museum and liked it so much she bought an annual ticket for the wonderlab there. She said it is crowded so, Cag, if you are going make sure you book in good time for the lab.
£2 in M&S on birthday card for DD.
I am now officially on a health food weight loss kick. And I must exercise. I have this gym membership but never have ( make ) the time to go. I can make really good excuses though.😳

Cagliostro · 03/04/2017 23:15

I've heard the annual pass is pretty reasonable for the Wonderlab. But I have also heard that home educators can go for free if they book in advance :o (during school hours obviously) - we'd probably want to book anyway if we can possibly avoid big school groups.

DH got 10th male in the run, it turns out :)

Em DH usually does the bass in paper envelopes, suuuuper moist and le yum

Cagliostro · 03/04/2017 23:33

Ah crap. Looks like we might have to tell the kids about the pregnancy tomorrow. DH is going to see relative, I have my midwife appt and the kids are gonna have to come with me. DH reckons they won't let them stay in the waiting room without me.

I reeeaally don't want to tell them yet