Thank you for the warm welcomes.
I bought the cards in card factory, it's all we have here. They're cheap though and in our family we just buy Xmas presents to save money through the year. Although saying that, we've planned a sister weekend in April and I've not broached that with my parents yet, my sisters want to go to a spa and I'd have to pay £85 for travel as well. I will tell them of the idea this week.
They're very supportive, and I'm lucky enough to have them help me. I'm happy to share all my spending with them so they will help me, even though it will initially feel like I have no control.
I just have plain bare nails; I'm a trainee beauty therapist and nail technician so I'm not allowed them even painted, and have to file them short, which I really hate.
I'm currently signed off sick with sciatica, huge doses of codeine and diazepam and tbh fearing my next months wages on sick pay, terrible timing really.
I don't plan to spend any more money this week, other than £16 to school for dinners and breakfast club and my water bill (£651).
Included in the money they gave me was money to clothe the dc and buy them shoes, so I need to think about that as well. Just 'basic' clothes, you know from George or something, shoes from Clarks. And a PE kit for dc2 who 'lost' his.