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The Friendly Frugaleers, figuring out our finances with furry feline photos!

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Cagliostro · 23/09/2016 18:50

Hello all :)

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lifelongfrugaleer · 08/10/2016 10:53

Yes it is rainbow dash.
Uni fees are a worry. We are lucky enough to be able, for now, to be able to save a bit for the kids. Still won't make a dent in the fees

Shesgotelectricboobs · 08/10/2016 10:54

life that is amazing!

Spare bed stripped bedding in machine on hot wash.

Spare room completely emptied. House looks a state. We have three piles going on. A keep. A charity/eBay. And a black bin bag. The bin bag is the biggest so far. So. Much. Crap

CremeEggThief · 08/10/2016 10:57

Fabulous cake, Life.Star

allthebestplease · 08/10/2016 11:15

Its that Tim again and I need to get building and home insurance, I think I'm going to only get really basic cover now as we never claim and our house contents I reckon to buy new we'd only need 10 grand, so I think we should get cover for £20 grand max. No extras.
What companies do people recommended? I'll try tcb, but suggestions always helpful too.

Just need dog food today so lsd.

CremeEggThief · 08/10/2016 11:29

I got John Lewis contents home insurance (rental) through Topcashback. £7.45 a month and about £45 cashback, which JL paid very quickly.

Toasterwaffle · 08/10/2016 11:56

Collie how are you feeling today? I hope things are settling for you Flowers

We have buildings and contents through M&S bank, did a makeover on all our direct debits recently and they worked out the cheapest all things considered

Life that cake looks fab! Save me a slice lol

So far today washing is out drying on the line, made scotch pancakes for breakfast with the DC whilst DH had a lie in, he has now taken DS to the cinema (kids club tickets on a sat morning) and DD and I went and did a quick topup shop £17. Shes napping now and I have my feet up with a Brew

HM burgers and chips for lunch, cottage pie for tea, tomorrow we will have fakeaway KFC and something light like toasties for tea which brings me back round to monday morning shopping day. Cupboards are well stocked so fingers crossed next weeks shop will be a small one. Doing well sticking to our budgets Halo

AGenie · 08/10/2016 12:47

allthebest I've found direct line to be very good for insurance. They are cheap and when we had to do an emergency claim for a blocked drain last year they were brilliant - getting a plumber out within hours over the weekend.

I've just been reading the FT money pages and thinking about investment again. It's so hard to get a decent rate of return on savings at the moment. They say that shares in big corporations are good, but then the big corporations are possibly going to be hammered by the drive against globalisation just now. It's a puzzling business. Do any of you think about this stuff? I'm quite stumped by it all.

lifelongfrugaleer · 08/10/2016 13:04

Ah thanks. Ive never really done the whole cake thing but the dc wanted e to have a go as ive been teaching them to try things and see if you can do it rather than say you can't, which they turned right back on me.

£12.50 ballet shoes, £40 forbidden corner tickets for tomorrow as no football for dd birthday

Collieballs · 08/10/2016 13:43

Hi everyone, thanks for asking! I am not doing so well and almost got admitted to hospital. I'm now on anti sickness and anti biotics so I'm hoping things will start to ease soon. My goal of the day is to keep sipping fluid.

2 more prescriptions cost us another £17. It'll be worth it. The out of hours GP was brilliant. I could have hugged her.

needastrongone · 08/10/2016 15:19

Cake is amazing life, you are so skilled.

I did get admitted 4 years ago Collie. I am rarely ill, so DH was very panicked indeed. I did need to go in tbf. I needed the fluids and the anti sickness stuff. Flowers

The big corporations are not going to get hammered any time soon Genie. Why would they? There have far more power than any politician. Don't ever assume otherwise. Money always talks.

With share investments, the best thing to do, as it's so complex is get an IFA involved. They survey your attitude to risk annually, and shift your portfolio around in the best investment markets they find for that type of investment. I have a slightly stronger attitude to risk than DH, although neither of us are risk averse tbf (figures, we run a business, the ultimate risk). They will do the same thing for any pension fund you own. So the portfolio always keeps track of the current climate.

Ref the student loan, I'm not sure I would want any child of mine staying at home to go to Uni. It's far more than getting a degree to my mind for them. MSE has some brilliant stuff about the finance side. You can't really see it as debt, much of it is unlikely to be repaid. I also agree, that by the time your DS gets to Uni, it won't be free either.

I have an endowment policy from years ago that will mature when DS is ready to go. DD will go just a year later. It will be an expensive few years. My DC are lucky we can help them, we will get FA from the Govt.

Entered a race for March £16.

AGenie · 08/10/2016 16:00

LOL! need. You and I always seem to disagree on so many fundamental issues. I don't think it really matters though. It's fun to mix it up a bit sometimes isn't it?

My family don't do IFAs (they're all financiers), we don't do debt (Scottish), we don't do leaving home for University (This is very common in Glasgow folk). It 's the financial times that says big corporations are about to be hammered, so I'd have to refer you to them on that.

The thing I do agree on is the endowment policy. I was just thinking of looking into one of those. Thanks for your thoughts. :-)

Collie I'm so sorry to hear that you're strugglling. I hope it gets better soon for you.

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mammymammyIRL · 08/10/2016 16:53

Just read my plans for today & I've not done much of it, going to get off my backside & start!

CremeEggThief · 08/10/2016 17:17

Just back from a pub lunch with my friend I hadn't seen since the end of July. We had a great catch-up. Spends: about £10. No booze, which always helps keep prices down (she bought cold drinks and I bought coffees afterwards).

Life, we took DS to The Forbidden Corner for his birthday treat when he was 9. We all loved it!

Mammy, give yourself a break today. I'm not surprised you didn't feel like doing much after your race.BrewCake

Girliefriendlikesflowers · 08/10/2016 17:32

Oh my Goodness Collie you poor thing Shock I really hope you start to feel better soon Flowers am glad the dr sorted you out with meds.

I worry about uni fees as well but not much I can do about it now other than save a bit, there are no guarantees that dd will even want to go to uni and I would def expect her to work/save some of her own money as well. As usual agree with need that uni is a rite of passage into adulthood and an important step towards independence. Was for me and everyone I know anyway.

One of my fabulous friends has popped over and got my heating to work, I hadn't turned somethings up that needed to be turned up apparently will put it for a bit and then turn off obviously Wink

Had a surprise NSD as my lovely dm bought the goggles I needed for dds swim lessons (realised last week that her googles were for much younger kids Blush) and she also bought me some mascara with her Boots points and paid for coffee in town. She has also paid for dds riding lesson again - I am very lucky to have her I know.

Dd had her nasal spray this morning, was quite anxious about it as seems wrong to deliberately infect her with flu (its a live vaccine) even though I know its for her benefit! She has been really tired this afternoon so we will be taking it very easy, currently watching Big Hero 6 I love this film Smile

allthebestplease · 08/10/2016 17:39

I'm going to open an M & S account, if anyone has one already and if they 'do a recommend a friend thingy' I'm happy to be recommended.

Also someone said about investments we have investments with Fundsmith, highly recommend as for first 6 months they paid a 16% dividend (only been with them less Tha year though and only have £6000 saved) (I ignore the fact we are 18 grand in debt -shhhh).

needastrongone · 08/10/2016 17:57

Your mum sounds lovely Girlie, and I am sure she enjoys helping you both. Glad your heating is working as it's dropped cold. We do agree on a lot don't we? Smile

Good to disagree too Genie, diversity is great as it's good to be open minded. If you want an alternative world view, subscribe to Private Eye. Ian Hislop is not just the clever git on HIGNFY, sniping at politicians, some of the articles in there provide a truly independent and interesting alternative viewpoint which I firmly believe not one of the papers or other media outlets are capable of being able to do so.

needastrongone · 08/10/2016 17:57

Your day sounds lovely Creme.

CremeEggThief · 08/10/2016 18:01

'Twas Need, thanks.

Collie, you poor thing Sad. I hope all the meds kick in very soon.Flowers

AGenie · 08/10/2016 18:16

allthebest thanks for the recommendation of fundsmith, I'll have a look. Smile

Thanks need. It's kind of nice to have this safe space in which to practise the wording of gracefully disagreeing and then staying friends, iykwim. Not an easy thing to learn in real life, but so important.

It's funny, but saying all that earlier about investments, and responding to you reminded me that I really should ask my own family about this stuff. It's what they do best. I have emailed.

SnugglySnerd · 08/10/2016 18:43

Goodness, Collie you do sound poorly you poor thing. Take care.
Pleased you have got your heating going, Girlie, it's been cold today. DD is having her flu spray on Thurs and I'm a bit worried too, is hope it doesn't make her poorly.
Stuck to plan today and got a few jobs done in the house. DH is utterly useless at DIY (He wouldn't mind me saying that) but he's done really well, he's very pleased with himself! I hope this encourages him to try more. Our tools are all a bit cheap and grotty though. The drill isn't very powerful and the screwdrivers are so worn that it is hard to get traction in the screws. I'm thinking that once we have a bit more money it might be worth investing in some better ones.

Shesgotelectricboobs · 08/10/2016 18:44

Get well soon collie!!

Spare room decluttered. And piles of rubbish taken to the bin. eBay/charity shop pile to sort through. But that's tomorrow's job.

Also did something I've never done before. shameful I emptied the Hoover. Grin

SnugglySnerd · 08/10/2016 19:06

Good work, Boobs!
I also emptied the vacuum today and was engulfed in a big horrible cloud of dust and cat hair! I then did something very Mumsnet and put a bit of kitchen roll with a few drops of Zoflora on inside the vacuum so it made the house smell nice while I cleaned.

lifelongfrugaleer · 08/10/2016 19:08

Parties done and success.
£2 parking as went conker hunting with one of the party people. £10 Chinese.

Oh collie hope you are feeling a bit better now.

Took some leftover food from the party for tomorrow's pic nic tight

lifelongfrugaleer · 08/10/2016 19:08

Will done those of you having productive days.
And those not, happy chilling