Glad you are feeling a touch better snuggly, a day of rest was just what you needed. I am terrible too at doing this, and DH gets really mad!
Good blackberry haul Em.
I'm not convinced about not buying clothes. I did it for a long time. It leaves you with a ton of stuff that is old, faded, needing repair or simply past it. It also doesn't make you feel very good about yourself, and dents your confidence. So, now I buy just one or two things each month. My favourite T Shirt at the minute is a grey striped one from Primark that cost £3, so it needn't be expensive.
I ended up having to buy us all a ton of clothes recently, and I think it has cost more, or certainly felt more of a financial hit than a few bits each, each month.
Spends
£20 WH Smith on stationary for 6th form, and New Scientist magazine for DS.
£40 Primark, 3 pairs of jeans for DS (6th form, no uniform) and a school bag.
£55 jumper from French Connection, may return but I do like it.
Walked into M&S to get food for tea, but walked out again and have cooked a home made lasagna for tea. I'm on festival duty again, collecting DH and DD at various points.