Thanks ipsos. Yes, we are all pretty confident I guess, but your observation about us all needing our space was interesting. I obviously knew this, but didn't recognise it before you mentioned it! I would like a delete button too sometimes, it was good to post yesterday, but I half wished I didn't, so I know what you mean 
NK She sounds pretty toxic.
I think a NSD today, but had to pay the window cleaner last night, so £10 cash.
Just dropped the car off at the local garage for it's rear brake pads changing, but that is a company expense.