Yay, were back. Will be changing password just to be cautious.
Pointless Sorry that your dh is having to reapply...wrotten business!
Lilac that bit of furniture looks lovely
Pay day today so have budgeted, planned meals for month and shopping list for month.
Redid bank application for the hsbc account to get the free cash with current and savings....have to say though they weren't very impersonable / robotic at first. I asked to speak to someone else and gave the girl constructive feedback....which in hindsight is probably patronising, but hey. A bit of warmth doesn't hurt...
Although...Im probably being a bit more sensitive than normal at the moment.
DP is now in Lincoln for work...its about two hours from here. The plan is he'll be home when he can...he's opening up a food place which is great but this isn't his first and the others over time didn't work....the big plc companies moved in near by and he lost lots of trade and couldnt compete on pricing. Each time he gets absorbed, workaholic....which is whats needed but its a 24/7 job. Last time we split as my Dad had terminal cancer and past away and he had to work so was barely there for me over the year. Im just gutted as he wreckons its a temporary situation for 4-6 months and I hope it is and that it does well. My experience (or pessimism at this point
) is that its more a 9-12 month. Not the end of the world....I just don't know anyone here and my family are 1 1/2 hours away. Moved here for his last project.
The Dkids are very settled now. My jobs here and Im in a perfect position travel wise to get to three big centres (good for career and development). Because its just been my wage for some time now and money tight. Traveling to see family and friends isn't possible more than here and there. So feeling gutted and a bit trapped.
Plan is: 1. to use the council gym membership Ive got, to do a couple of exercise classes...hopefully will meet people there
- Had a brochure for evening classes for college through the door...with a few extra shifts Ill beable to afford them without dipping into savings...maybe do a Spanish /cookery course...maybe meet people there