ipsos I tried to avoid as much as possible trigger situations such as Argos. My DC were little when we had no money and DH had just started the business. I did used to take them to a big outlet shopping park that was always quiet and outside too, we would walk round, have a coffee, a play at the park and they could choose something small from the toy shop (usually Thomas the Tank toys).
fuzz sorry that you are not feeling so good 
spotty Don't quote me, but I think maybe this recent budget announced changes to eligibility for buying for HA tenants? Google 'right to acquire'.
Yesterday I spent £21 at Home Bargains on various cleaning items and cosmetics. I also withdrew £100 in cash. DD did a small show jumping session at a fiver and I bought a bacon buttie as I was starving!!
Will be £110 richer this month in lower livery fees and insurance.
Housing costs round here are high too. We have done well out of property and it does put you further up the ladder more through luck than judgement. Our first house together was a 4 bed detached in a lovely village for £90k, bought in a trough and sold when prices were crazy for £250k, 5 years later. Which enabled us to push on. Didn't make much on the next house but we should have stretched ourselves further. This current one we did increase the mortgage significantly (by over £100k) but again, so we did chance our arms more, and we've been lucky again.