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Join the Fantastic Frugaleers for a February full of frugality

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northender · 29/01/2015 20:17

Shiny new thread ready for Sunday. Newbies very welcome. This is a wonderful thread full of encouragement and support Smile

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fuzzpig · 12/02/2015 07:49

31 pages :o

TeWiSavesTheDay · 12/02/2015 07:59

congratulations blue!!

Was a NSD yesterday making it 3 in a row (woo!) but need to buy milk today.

brittanyfairies · 12/02/2015 08:03

Bonjour all - hope everyone is well today, flipping cold here in France. I'm looking at my wood stash and am hoping it will see me till the end of March, but had the central heating belting out all day yesterday. The house was toasty and warm and friends came to visit and said they'd never been in my house and be so warm, but still. However, this is the first year in about 10 that I've been able to afford to run the heating regularly - divorce was the best thing I ever did financially my XH had to have all the gadgets and would gladly let me and the DCs do without so he could have the latest iPad. He's still the same, shows off his fancy watch and clothes to me, but went bankrupt last year had his car repossessed and sold his flat, so at the grand old age of 45, he'll never own another house and will never get finance to buy a new car - and he likes his flashy cars.

So yesterday was meant to be NSD but I had to pay a French friend 10 euros to make a couple of phone calls and write a letter for me. My French is passable for day to day conversation but I struggle on the telephone and the letter was for a job so it needed to be perfect.

Just about to go off to the shops - need to get some more tile adhesive for the builder and it's like old Mother Hubbard's Cupboards in my house - my friends were only invited for coffee yesterday because they drink it black. I told one off for having a heaped teaspoon of sugar - DCs needed the sugar this morning for their porridge. Because it's so cold I have a craving for shepherd's pie for tea and I've got friends coming over for dinner tomorrow so need to get some chicken and veg. Also need milk, sugar, bread, flour etc.

Everyone have a good day.

MissMysticFalls · 12/02/2015 09:44

Hmm. I thought I posted yesterday with a nice message and hugs for audit too!
Never mind. Up late last night with my head buzzing about money coming out (and when money is next coming in). Up early this morning and got it down on paper and have no money to spend on anything that isn't strictly essential food/household stuff until the next invoice gets paid.

DP asked if we were going out for dinner on V-day....only if he's paying!
Having a serious chat with spreadsheets and calendars on Friday evening to get our heads round our cashflow and when we can stop being in make-do-and-mend mode.

DS has a combined birthday party on Sunday and our contribution is cakes for the grown-ups so I'm baking all day Saturday which will be quite soothing.

kat360 · 12/02/2015 10:52

Wow, 31 pages already.

I booked a holiday last night, it's 7 days camping at a haven campsite in July and it was only £80.10 as I took advantage of the armed forces discount page. As it is an electical pitch, we will need to buy a special extention lead which is around £40. Although the advantage is that we'll have it for next year. I'm now searching for frugal camping tips, does anyone have any?
Dh is having his birthday present from his parents early, a towbar, as it needs fitting before July. We are planning to get a trailer to transport the camping stuff in.
Made cheese and ham muffins out of things I'd got in the house and none of he kids liked themSad Dh ate most of them, but he'll eat anything.
Dd1s parents evening was last night, her teacher said she was a dream to teachSmile she's such a clever sausage.

clippityclop · 12/02/2015 11:46

30.00 in m&s for new baby gift, bread and peppers to chop and freeze. Three friends in for dinner tonight so big Bolognese simmering to dish up with garlic bread and salad. Thanks for the recipe Spotty, sounds great.

SpottyTeacakes · 12/02/2015 12:14

Ds left his dolly at playgroup and has sobbed himself to sleep. It's not on for another two weeks!

needastrongone · 12/02/2015 12:53

Oh spotty. Can you contact the playgroup leader or the hall it's held in? Our village hall has a notice board with contacts on it outside.

Congratulations Blue!!!

Happy Birthday Creme. Enjoy.

Tayto - Pasta bake is very easy. I even use a pot of cheese sauce if it's a mid week meal, although yesterday I did make my own sauce with strong cheese. Fry off some chopped bacon, then add in chopped leeks and saute. Par boil the pasta. Chuck in the broccoli florets for the last 2 minutes. Combine all the ingredients, including the cheese sauce in an oven proof dish, cover and bake for 20/30 minutes. I also sprinkled on some Stilton on the top as we had a small piece to use and the DC love strong cheese. Was lovely. I vary the veg though, depending on what we have in.

Just had the carpets cleaned for £180. We are a clean and tidy house but they dirty water coming off them made me a bit Shock Will have to come out of one of my 'pots'

I think that's it for today, although Morrisons delivered this morning and was £80, beer and some fizz for a party but still, ho hum.

Money goes so quickly doesn't it?

SpottyTeacakes · 12/02/2015 13:02

I could, it's at a church but it's twenty minutes away almost. Dh is working near there but I don't think there is always someone there.

Passthecake30 · 12/02/2015 13:15

£62 on school shoes and trainers for dd. Owch, kids eh, they just keep on growing.

Successfully bidded on a excellent condition 2nd hand maxi micro for her. ... £20 cheaper than brand new and she preferred the colour. Will sell her mini micro for £15-£20ish I guess?

Got her a 2nd hand bike (£20), just need to find ds one now. Will sell her other one (was second hand already) Spendy times!

needastrongone · 12/02/2015 13:30

Oops - excuse typos in the last two posts that I have made, I used the phone, rather than the laptop and auto correct is a bit mental!

Fluffycloudland77 · 12/02/2015 13:48

Congratulations Blue Flowers

NSD.

More free food on the checkout smart app, actimel kids yoghurt drinks in morrisons & filleas fogg big size snacks in the big four. It's also on the quidco site so if you have an OH you can get four of each offer.

Ellisisland · 12/02/2015 14:03

NSD as we are staying in the house today. Have shop being delivered tomorrow and that is £90 - ouch but includes stuff for DS birthday next week.

We once left DS favourite toy at home when we went on holiday. Every night for 4 nights he woke up in the night crying for it! Felt awful !

girliefriend · 12/02/2015 14:09

90p parking

Paid £45 to see my counsellor but getting most of that back.

£69 in Morrisons Shock it was actually £75 but got £6 off at the till with vouchers. Not sure how I spent so much though Confused did get extras for dds sleepover this Sat and had to get quite a few cake bits to make her bday cake this wend. Plus stocked up on soya mince and bacon as it was on offer!!

Have now got a really well stocked freezer and cupboard so in theory I should only need to buy bread and milk next week.

Blueteapot Congratulations, am also jealous of snuggling up with newborn dd, that was me 9yrs ago!!

Tomos should be a nsd other than £3.50 for dds bfast club.

However this wend need to buy some gifts at the wend, have 3 bdays to buy for!!!

lilacclery · 12/02/2015 15:39

I got paid today & divvied up my money this morning. I now have €30 left in my personal account and €30 cash, bought my lunch at deli counter because I was starving and what I had brought with me for lunch wasn't going to fill me! Spotted a bottle of pink prosecco for €9 so bought that for valentines night meal.
I have ordered a minerals foundation from beauticans must pay for that, didn't ask price Shock I think my diesel will get me through another few days.

I've not much left but I've no expenses coming up either.

All other spends will be from joint account.
Tesco offered €10 off a delivery over €60, cheapest slot is €4 so that'll be €6 free food.

bantamgirl · 12/02/2015 15:43

Afternoon all

Bank: £116.04 (was £116.04)
Purse: £4.53 (was £14.79)
Jar: £13.45 (was £17.80)
Grand Total: £134.02
reduced by by: £14.61
Days to payday: 1 (which is today, and it's pay-day tomorrow, so 0 really)

Spends:

£2.87 on ingredients for DS2 for food tech
£2.69 household groceries
£2.50 – I had a shop bought lunch today
£2.00 – sweets / cereal bars for myself at work
£0.69 – stamp
£3.86 – athletics, bus fare

Just off to do my monthly financial round up now to see where I can do better next month (sorry, likely to be VERY long)

lilacclery · 12/02/2015 15:57

Congratulations blueteapot fab news!!

spotty how awful hope your dh can collect the doll

lilacclery · 12/02/2015 16:02

Making spotty's risotto tonight with chorizo, can't wait.

Took delivery last night of boots I ordered on Jan 23rd from aliexpress well worth the wait, so cozy and so cheap too.

bantamgirl · 12/02/2015 16:06

It looks good that I ended up the month with £134 unspent however in reality I would have been overdrawn because I was helped by extra credit from a car insurance refund, a savings plan refund, a bit of mileage from both employers and scrapping our car which gave me £170 extra on top of my wage.

Looking back, it was quite a spendy month as February is the month that sees DH and DS2's birthdays within three days of one another. I did buy DH's presents from his bonus money so didn't actually shell out anything from the monthly budget. DS2 got a new phone contract at £9 per month.

We had to buy a new, smaller engined car, so I wasn't sure whether the slightly smaller engine (1.8 vs 2.2) would result in a lesser petrol spend so I kept the budget at £146 for the month. Thanks to the cold snap and snow, the kids training and football were cancelled for a few days out of the month which really made a difference to the amount of fuel used. Thanks to doing internet grocery shop, that also reduced the many, many trips I used to make to the supermarket each month also. budget was £146. Total spend was £67.72, under budget by £78.28. DH did fill up yesterday but it hasn't debited the account yet. Hopefully he will put a mileage claim in!

Supermarket spends had been a huge part of my pre-lightbulb outgoings. I had loosely budgeted over £400 a month on groceries but I put that straight down to £300 a month. Actual spend for January was £233.22 which means I came in under budget by £66.78

I was left with a good £611 for incidental spends which is loads more than I will normally have (but this included the £170 extra money as above). I finished the month not having spent £134.02 of this and this will carry forward into February's incidental spends figure.

Incidental spending...

The highest categories were Entertainment, eating out and my personal spends. This was a big surprise because pre-tracking I would have told you we never went anywhere and I never buy myself anything – clearly not!

Entertainment was high at £154.31: I owed £10 to my work's club for the remainder of my One Direction ticket (October), We went to watch Chelsea and had some very expensive drinks in a London pub, more drinks at DH's nan's wake, I bought two tickets to a play (April) and paid for DS2 to go and see a darts game which had been my birthday present to DH along with DH and DS1 (March). Originally the tickets had been £55 but then an e-mail went out with some they hadn't shifted at £35 so I could justify one for DS2. And my local footy team are having a bloody good cup run, so another £52 was spent on tickets to the next round.

My Personal Spends were £107.54 – Quite high because I bought two pairs of jeggings and two scarves, totalling £60+. The rest of it went on food and drink for myself at work (not lunches but stuff to scoff through the day), I had my fringe trimmed, I paid for one last SW club before I decided to stop going, I went out for lunch with my old work mates, I bought postage stamps for letters to my pen-pal and that is it! I aim to not buy any new clothes next month.

Eating Out was £64.16 – we went to McDonalds for breakfast before travelling down to London, and we went out for DS2's birthday. To be fair, we don't eat out often. I can't see that we will eat out at all next month.

Gifts / Charity – £40.73 This went on...3 birthday cards, a donation to Marie Curie at DH's nan's funeral, My Godson's birthday, some food for a homeless person and two bottles of wine for my neighbour to thank her for lending us her car,

House Stuff – 54.83 Needed a new house phone, an iron, some drain unblocker, curtain hooks and some costly energy saving lightbulbs.

Health – £50.50 had a trip to the dentist for a filling

Kids – £33.95 Ds2 had more spent on him than DS1. I bought him a footy scarf, some sweets, some goggles, craft stuff for a school project, and he had a haircut. Poor DS1 only got some sweets and a haircut – he's very low maintenance and has access to his own cash.

DH – £28.80 on top of his £190 pocket money I also paid for a haircut, a bottle of wine, and gave him £10 extra to stay out with his family at the wake after we'd gone home and he took it upon himself to help himself to an extra £10 when he got hold of the debit card..

Other Travel - £34.86 was petrol for next door neighbour's car and 1 lot of train fare.

Car cost us £10 for a bit of welding

Postage was £1.28 two first class stamps not pen-pal related.

This month, with my £134 to carry forward, I will only have £430 for incidental spends so I must try harder!

Savings: reduced by a whopping £416 due to paying for DH & DS1 to go to darts, having to get the roof fixed at £180, and paying for DH and I to go to the Chelsea game!

Well done for listening if you got this far.

To be honest I am shocked I spent so much because I honestly feel like I haven't bought that much "stuff"

CremeEggThief · 12/02/2015 16:24

NSD. Feeling a bit poorly today. My tummy feels off, I don't want to eat much and I feel worn out/can't be bothered. DS had a similar thing on Tuesday. Mild tummy bug?

girliefriend · 12/02/2015 16:29

It is scary when you break it down Bantam I feel the same that I don't buy much 'stuff' but the money still vanishes!!

Just had a look at my online account and am actually not doing too bad this month, have moved a £100 over to my savings account which will go some way to make up for dipping into it so much over Christmas.

I now have £287 to last till payday which is in 2 weeks time. Bearing in mind I don't need to buy any more food as have lots in I think thats doable. Not planning on going mad over half term will take pack lunches etc if we do go out, so other than petrol and picking up a few gifts tomos don't think there is any other big spends (unless I am forgetting something!!)

blueteapot · 12/02/2015 16:31

Bantam that post was impressive! Must start breaking our spends up similarly.

Thank you for all the congratulations, DD is just perfect and we are feeling very blessed :) shes also financially low maintenance (for now!) as she has all DSs old baby equipment and hand-me-downs from her female cousins, she has also been given lots of lovely clothes and gifts, so shes a very lucky (and well dressed!) little girl (which saves us so much £, we had spent soooo much on DS by this point already!). She has been given £200 by DM to start a savings account for her like DSs, which I will get onto this week. All we've bought her so far is a new steriliser as DSs was beyond saving (it was 2nd hand to him anyway) and a breast pump (lovely!). The steriliser was covered by a boots gift card she was given (and to DSs delight it was slightly less than the value of the card so he got crisps when we were out shopping earlier lol)

Had a few things to sort today so DM sat with DD while DS and I went out. Apart from the steriliser we got 2x the valentines meal deal in M&S, one for us and one for my folks as theyve been so helpful this week with OH being at work - been taking DS to his daily toddler groups etc for me. Also got quite a few whoopsied bits for the freezer, mainly takeaway avoidance measures eg some pizzas etc all reduced. Total spend £58 there. 50p then to hoover out my ancient car which has its MOT tonight (yikes!) - so we'll have to see if it passes / any work needs doing.

Dinner tonight is cottage pie which I batch cooked 3 of on wednesday (proud of myself lol!).

Need to get a list of stuff to do together over next few days eg our car insurance is due so will need to do the comparisons etc... register DD, apply for CB etc etc...

Xx

TeWiSavesTheDay · 12/02/2015 16:51

£1.45 for milk today.

bantam - don't feel bad about spending money on yourself. unless you are truly bones of your arse totallydenying yourself can be a bit of a trap that leads to 'already broke the budget' splurging later - also remember your dh gets money for himself too and you are just as deserving. Is there a reason why he gets more spends than you?
I know it's hard when you feel disappointed later and like you wanted more for your money though.

PersonallyI think part of the problem I have is that I'm such a bargain hunter when it comes to the kids clothes toys etc I buy things years in advance sometimes! If I wasn't buying in advance we'd have more money to pay off debt though. It's a really hard habit to change.

I'm trying hard to stick to a budget I have set for that.

bantamgirl · 12/02/2015 17:12

DH gets more money than I do, because we needed to agree on a set figure for him to stick to (hahahahahahahah) so I could give him it all in a lump sum, and then know whatever was left in the bank was for me to spend on whatever I needed to. He is worse than a child when it comes to money. He smokes and likes a bottle of wine, so we agreed to £200 a month. He still can't make it last. I'd love £200 frittering money a month and for some other mug to run the bloody house.

Pointlessfan · 12/02/2015 19:48

Congratulations Blue, lovely news!
I had to spend £6.40 on a taxi home from work as DH needed the car. He has bought cat food and litter and filled the car up with petrol today so I imagine he's spent about £55-60.
We are going to have to buy a load of light bulbs too as so many have gone now we are almost living in the dark! Not good.

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