Fingers crossed MissA. Hope it goes well.
Italian fingers crossed also for your friends baby, they are having a really tough time, you are a lovely friend.
badvoc - November will be tight for us too. Sounds like we save loads at £750 per month, but it's to cover some big expenses coming up, which we HAVE to pay for, so we can be counting the pennies together. 
Well, won't need any veggies or fruit for two weeks I reckon, judging by how much stuff was delivered by the local market today. Meal planning needs to begin as I hate waste. DS is currently making a pear crumble, with some home grown raspberries thrown in.
sing I find that ordering on line and having a delivery does save money, even if you have a delivery charge. I am usually brilliant at staying away from the shops mid week, but these last two weeks I have been popping in to various stores, and the few quid here and there really add up.
FWIW I pay everything I can D'Debit, then budget for other stuff right at the start of the month, which can be as diverse as hair cuts to dog food to things for the pony to a Christmas fund, MOT's etc. I also find dividing our remaining disposable income into a weekly amount helps, as it stops me getting carried away early on.