Crap news spotty. We are the same, pretty rural, with crime usually being similar or garage break ins etc. Still crap though.
adora. Yep, hear you
. The Magnum is the holiday daily treat following the two hour dog walk and not normally part of our daily diet. Agree totally re crisps. I cooked tea, he does the rest. Trouble is balancing the fact he's a teenage boy with giving him a good diet. He's a good lad, and not at all 'teenagerish' in the main. He also eats a good diet with a wide variety of fresh food and lots of veg/fruit. However, if I said 'darling, would you please swap your bowl of cereal for a lovely bowl of full fat yoghurt with grated apple and sliced pear?', he would look at me like I had two heads

Not that I don't agree entirely (I personally would chose the yoghurt), but he's a teenage boy, teenage boys have a very particular relationship with cereal!!
He's good with spicy food and beans etc, which we use regularly too. There's a recipe in the Mumsnet cookbook for a tomato sauce which is fab and uses pulses and all sorts of veg.
Holiday spending today has been £5 on said Magnum's after a very long walk in the mountains with the dogs. Home made Mexican meal tonight (nacho's, spicy chicken, salsa, rice, salad etc). DH has spent £15 on a fishing ticket as he's been out for the day on a private loch. I'll include his spending as we have one pot of money.
Tomorrow will cheese me off as I am spending £40 for DD to ride for 2 hours. It's holiday, I did promise. This will piss me off as we have our own pony at home, who we can obviously ride whenever (not that she doesn't cost us enough!), but it feels frivolous somehow. Plus, dpony is wandering round the field pining for DD, going up to the girls who are looking after her and whinnying, which is making me feel bad 
spotty Even if you pay your Dad back, it will be cheaper and less pressure if he would pay the bill.