oddly enough, yesterday I finally had an online chat with a retired family friend about this. I really don't want to believe in that stereotype but he summed it up. Faced with facts,he said "oh well, I was just observing as a retired person, I didn't have to leave the house, I didn't know any of the things that are coming out with the MH story, you never said anything before". No, because quite honestly mum and I were so disgusted with his "I'll stay in while others bring my food" attitude, we avoided talking to him.
he votes Labour but on this, what's the difference really.
I agree, OP, it takes some cognitive dissonance to have been a person who quarantined deliveries - and then to ignore these messages.
he berated mum for going for a walk at 11am. He said there were too many people around at that time and the Covid risk was too high. She pointed out that as a lone woman with a walking stick, she might not be happy going at a non busy time. Never occurred to him!