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For those that are NOT vaxxed - would you get vaxxed only for travel?

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WoodlandWalks123 · 26/04/2022 06:29

I chose not to get vaccinated (I am in low risk category and already had covid). I don’t want to get into the pros and cons of that choice.

Now, DP booked me and DM on a luxury cruise as a surprise present - which would be so lovely and DM is really looking forward to it - it’s a bit of a once in a lifetime sort of thing to be able to go on this / spend time with her and I’ve got it in my mind that life is short and unsure when we would go again.

When he booked, the rules were that from April all vaccination rules would end. Now they have changed their terms and require double vaxx. They will refund money if we cancel due to this change so there is a get out. My DM is vaxxed but obviously I am not.

I am genuinely nervous about getting vaccinated when it’s just so new (in relative vaccine terms) and we don’t know long term effects, and the mRNA technology is also unknown. I am not a die hard anti-vaxxer or conspiracy theorist.

I feel that I would only be doing it for this cruise - general air travel / country requirements seem to be opening up and not requiring vaccines increasingly so I don’t think I would need it to go abroad in the fullness of time.

If you have chosen not to be vaccinated, would you get vaccinated to go on a once in a lifetime (but only 4 day) cruise? Or would you get a refund? If you would get vaccinated, which of the vaccines do you think is most benign?

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TheAbbotOfUnreason · 26/04/2022 12:51

Beachcomber · 26/04/2022 12:32

No I wouldn't get vaccinated for a cruise / holiday.

I know too many women with serious menstrual issues following covid vaccination.

I've had covid twice now (Delta and Omicron, both times confirmed by a PCR test) so there seems little benefit in me having a vaccine.

All the people I know with covid at the moment are double if not triple vaccinated (some are properly ill, some totally fine).

So when I take all that into account, a holiday is not a good enough reason for me to have these vaccines.

It is odd that the company won't accept you with a negative test. Doesn't make sense (like much around covid vaccination).

I do hope your friends and acquaintances have been in touch with Victoria Male, who is specifically studying this aspect.

www.bmj.com/content/376/bmj.o142

miltonj · 26/04/2022 13:25

People need to stop imagining that people with anti covid vaccination opinions are uneducated morons who get all their info from Facebook.

The majority of people I know who are dubious about the vaccine are highly educated, working in education or theoretical science research labs. Ie. Able to understand how to critical read and analyse information and familiar with the concept of peer review. Although that doesn't mean that your average person isn't capable of doing the research and making their minds up. It's honestly embarrassing and juvenile to believe that those who do not agree with you are feckless idiots or a certain type of person.

thing47 · 26/04/2022 13:25

the mRNA technology is also unknown

This is not true. mRNA technology has been around for decades, scientists have been experimenting with it in a number of different fields – DD2 was specifically looking at mRNA vaccines for use against vector-borne diseases for her Masters last year and indeed the new malaria vaccine RTS,S uses mRNA technology.

Honestly where do people get this rubbish? Do they just make it up?

OP is, of course, entitled to make whatever decision she wants with regard to her own body, but this bit is just not true.

backinthebox · 26/04/2022 13:50

@miltonj “It's honestly embarrassing and juvenile to believe that those who do not agree with you are feckless idiots”

Tbf I’ve only assumed that the OP @WoodlandWalks123 is a feckless idiot because they specifically state that the reason for their stance is that not much is known about the use of mRNA in medicine, and yet despite being shown evidence to the contrary from a wide range of sources is still not sure about the facts. And I’ve assumed @reeeeeeee is a feckless idiot because they actually cited a paper to prove their point which said the exact opposite of what they were hoping to get across.

I’m ok with people not being vaccinated if they don’t want to be. I’m not ok with people choosing not to be vaccinated because they think it’s risky and they want everyone else to take that risk so they can be safe. And by the time we are at ‘I want everyone else to do the thing I think is risky so that I can go on holiday without having to expose myself to the risk’ I am at the point of saying exactly what I think.

I am completely aware that people who might disagree with me are capable of reading research papers and coming to their own conclusions, but on the subjects discussed by the OP of this thread - namely “we don’t know much about mRNA vaccines and their long term side effects” I’m still waiting for someone to post a direct link to an accredited research paper that categorically states “we do not know much about mRNA” and “evidence of side effects that appear more than a couple of months after a vaccine has been given.”

lightand · 26/04/2022 14:02

hepatocyte · 26/04/2022 11:18

A cruise is also one of the types of holidays where vaccination could potentially have a great impact on reducing harm to travellers.

Tend to be taken by older populations, limited medical care on board if someone did get sick, a context in which infectious disease spreads very easily (see all previous norovirus outbreaks on cruises etc). Reducing the liklihood of infection and transmission on board is sensible, and vaccination requirements are probably a big driver in older people choosing to go with certain companies.

I just think if you have a strong opposition to be vaccinated, it wouldn't be hard to find an alternate holiday where this isn't an issue @WoodlandWalks123

Going on a cruise could harm travellers too! Purely by going!

What is it with this thread. Nearly everyone's posts are in triplicate or more. Or is it just me that it is like that?

WoodlandWalks123 · 26/04/2022 14:29

Thank you to those that have directly answered my original question.
I did say I don’t want to get into the ins and outs of my choice not to have the vaccine and I am really wanting to hear from those who either have chosen not to be vaccinated (or those who did make this choice but subsequently had it for travel).
Some of the posters here have posted highly unpleasant and unnecessary responses and I don’t really want to be called a “feckless idiot” @backinthebox

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backinthebox · 26/04/2022 14:43

@WoodlandWalks123 I didn’t call you anything.@miltonj brought that term up. But I agreed I assumed certain posters were.

Suzi888 · 26/04/2022 14:44

Travel is the only reason I got vaccinated.

maddy68 · 26/04/2022 14:50

I only got vaxxed to travel

Fizzyfish · 26/04/2022 14:52

No chance whatsoever

hepatocyte · 26/04/2022 14:52

miltonj · 26/04/2022 13:25

People need to stop imagining that people with anti covid vaccination opinions are uneducated morons who get all their info from Facebook.

The majority of people I know who are dubious about the vaccine are highly educated, working in education or theoretical science research labs. Ie. Able to understand how to critical read and analyse information and familiar with the concept of peer review. Although that doesn't mean that your average person isn't capable of doing the research and making their minds up. It's honestly embarrassing and juvenile to believe that those who do not agree with you are feckless idiots or a certain type of person.

I'm a research science as is my partner. So our social/work group is predominantly made up of scientists also.

I don't know a single one who holds these kinds of views. Why? Because we have robust, replicated evidence that is is better to be vaccinated than not vaccinated, even if you have previously had COVID.

This doesn't mean I don't respect someone who has decided not to be vaccinated - it's their choice afterall - but this claim that there are all these scientists in agreement is not true.

hepatocyte · 26/04/2022 14:54

@TheAbbotOfUnreason The PP has been linked to Viki Male & her evidence synthesis many times before.

Doesn't make a jot of difference, and they come out with lot of nonsense about vaccination.

lljkk · 26/04/2022 15:19

The main (maybe only true) reason I ever got C19 jab was for travel. I have close family overseas & want to do jollies, too.

miltonj · 26/04/2022 15:23

backinthebox · 26/04/2022 13:50

@miltonj “It's honestly embarrassing and juvenile to believe that those who do not agree with you are feckless idiots”

Tbf I’ve only assumed that the OP @WoodlandWalks123 is a feckless idiot because they specifically state that the reason for their stance is that not much is known about the use of mRNA in medicine, and yet despite being shown evidence to the contrary from a wide range of sources is still not sure about the facts. And I’ve assumed @reeeeeeee is a feckless idiot because they actually cited a paper to prove their point which said the exact opposite of what they were hoping to get across.

I’m ok with people not being vaccinated if they don’t want to be. I’m not ok with people choosing not to be vaccinated because they think it’s risky and they want everyone else to take that risk so they can be safe. And by the time we are at ‘I want everyone else to do the thing I think is risky so that I can go on holiday without having to expose myself to the risk’ I am at the point of saying exactly what I think.

I am completely aware that people who might disagree with me are capable of reading research papers and coming to their own conclusions, but on the subjects discussed by the OP of this thread - namely “we don’t know much about mRNA vaccines and their long term side effects” I’m still waiting for someone to post a direct link to an accredited research paper that categorically states “we do not know much about mRNA” and “evidence of side effects that appear more than a couple of months after a vaccine has been given.”

Wasn't specifically referring to you, just a general attitude.

phizog · 26/04/2022 16:03

I took the booster just to travel and it's the worst decision I ever made. It's left me with a severe auto immune adverse reaction I need daily medication for. I thought I was just unlucky but there's a large group of people globally who all had the same response and it's only now being investigated by Harvard/mass general.

So no I wouldn't get another Covid jab when the validity of mine expires, or at least not an MRNA one. And I think all countries are going to remove the restrictions soon as the adverse effects are being more greatly reported. Even the EU regulator has said a vaccine that needs such frequent boosting is not fit for purpose. It's terrible as my home country requires it to visit but the condition I live with has tanked my immunity to the point I'm more susceptible to Covid anyway and everything else too.

WoodlandWalks123 · 26/04/2022 16:48

@phizog really sorry to hear that, out of interest which brand did you have?

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WoodlandWalks123 · 26/04/2022 16:49

For those that only got vaxxed to travel - which vaccine did you choose?

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liveforsummer · 26/04/2022 16:55

LadyWhistldown · 26/04/2022 07:11

Just get the vaccine. There's literally no excuse for not getting it.

I bet you would be vaccinated if getting Covid meant your face and body came out in boils like Smallpox. No?

But the point is it doesn't, and you still catch covid even after 3/4 vaccines anyway. I've had 2 but not having a booster and dd12 isn't having any. We're just going to choose to travel somewhere that does not require us to have. I'd fry a refund and book somewhere else personally. Maybe wait a few days as lots of countries updating rules at the end of the month and many are predicted to drop the requirement. Maybe your cruise will modify theirs too.

D0lphine · 26/04/2022 16:57

I don't want my child to grow up in a world where the government can dictate what goes into her body. So I won't contribute to that.

@reeeeeeee

They don't though. The jab is optional, has never been and never will be compulsory. So what's your issue?

phizog · 26/04/2022 17:11

phizog · 26/04/2022 16:03

I took the booster just to travel and it's the worst decision I ever made. It's left me with a severe auto immune adverse reaction I need daily medication for. I thought I was just unlucky but there's a large group of people globally who all had the same response and it's only now being investigated by Harvard/mass general.

So no I wouldn't get another Covid jab when the validity of mine expires, or at least not an MRNA one. And I think all countries are going to remove the restrictions soon as the adverse effects are being more greatly reported. Even the EU regulator has said a vaccine that needs such frequent boosting is not fit for purpose. It's terrible as my home country requires it to visit but the condition I live with has tanked my immunity to the point I'm more susceptible to Covid anyway and everything else too.

Moderna for all 3

Ironically thought I was being clever to get moderna as it has the highest level of antibodies/protection.

Turns out you can have too many antibodies. So getting a jab when you already have antibodies from Covid or a previous jab or natural immunity can elevate levels to the point the body attacks it as an invader. Like you have a permanent anti histamine in your body. That's the hypotheses being studied by Harvard and mass general. The hope is once the vaccine efficacy reduces so will the condition. But no one knows for sure and only steroids are taming it. For some even that doesn't work. I've had it for 5 months now.

www.cureus.com/articles/69363-chronic-spontaneous-urticaria-after-covid-19-vaccine

They were aware of it in September last year but needed more cases to actually research it further. They have that now so it will probably be end of the year that they publish a report on it. It's mostly immunologists and allergists who are looking into it as they are getting the referrals now from GPs. It takes 6 weeks of the condition to be considered for a referral then months to actually get the appointment- hence why it isn't being flagged yet.

Dreamingof3 · 26/04/2022 19:18

I've been vaccinated through choice.

If I'd decided, for whatever reason, that I didn't want to have them, then no, I wouldn't change that for a holiday. Personally I feel it would kind of invalidate the reasons stated for not wanting it in the first place (or I'm stubborn 😉)

MargosKaftan · 26/04/2022 19:42

I have basically done this in the past with a different vaccine (not covid), about 15 years ago I wanted to go on holiday / to attend a wedding of a friend (their home country) and I had to have a particular vaccine for my visa. It wasn't a disease I was really at risk of catching - but was something I needed in order to travel to that country.

That was rather different as it was unlikely the rules would change in a year or so, but its a common thing, to have a vaccine as a requirement for holiday travel. Normally you have to pay for them- at least if you have thr covid vaccine for travel it's free.

If you don't have the vaccine, some things aren't an option for you, there are very few limits placed on you by not having the vaccine so you can work round it. Get a refund and book a different holiday.

baffledcoconut · 26/04/2022 20:03

I wouldn’t. I don’t like the blackmailing aspect of the jabs. On a personal level I’ve had covid twice and it was no worse than a cold. I see little point in having it now. Guess it depends how strongly you feel about it. I’m all for the vulnerable getting it, but seems pointless for every man and his dog.

reeeeeeee · 26/04/2022 20:35

backinthebox · 26/04/2022 11:25

@reeeeeeee HERE’s a link to the U.K. Health Protection Agency’s own research on Pandemrix and other medications used during the H1N1 pandemic. Could you point out to me where exactly it says that 1 in 55000 vaccinated children got narcolepsy please? I’ve read the entire paper, and it says on page 22 that “After review of all of the available information, the case remains that a link between Pandemrix vaccine and narcolepsy has not been confirmed.” I’ve also read the SOMNIA paper by the US Centre for Disease Control, and they couldn’t find any link either. There’s a good laypersons’ article HERE suggesting why more cases of narcolepsy were uncovered during a short period of time. However the link you provided was not to a research paper, it was to the page of a charity offering help to people who wanted to pursue a legal case against Glaxo. However, all of the above ignores the fact that the reported cases of narcolepsy (of which there were fewer than you think) and indeed any of the other far scarier looking real side effects were all declared in the immediate period after the vaccine was administered. Which is what I was saying all along - there are no proven cases where long term side effects from a vaccine have been discovered years later.

So anyway, can you point me in the direction of a recognised piece of work that sets out the details of these side effects that were suffered years after a vaccine was given, and if you could point out which ones are specifically for mRNA vaccines that would be super. Thanks.

Firstly, If there's no confirmed link as you say, on what basis was the compensation paid

Secondly, I never shared a paper. It was a website that mentioned the narcolepsy caused by Pandemrix. You don't know the difference between a website and a research paper.

The link is well known and it's not the only link. I first heard about it when I worked at a children's hospital.

There have been further issues with rushed vaccines and if you truly wanted to know instead of wanting a gotcha, you would simply look, if you had an analytical bone in your body.

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