I'm very sorry about your father @Queuing4Fergs
When you talk of collateral damage though. Do you think it's better to have a UK style. A whopping 180,000 people killed by Covid (and counting) collateral damage?
The poor, the disabled, the elderly, and some minority ethnic groups are at higher risk from Covid. Do people on this thread think these groups should all be collateral damage?
It's utterly utterly awful what the pandemic has done. The shame of it is that had everywhere in the world done the same as NZ, there wouldn't have been so many people either unable to visit loved ones and/or losing them prematurely to SARS-COV-2. It would've been over on a few months.
Whether the MIQ could've been managed slightly differently, now that is something perhaps you're right about? I expect it's very very difficult to set-up and maintain particularly in such an extreme emergency situation as a pandemic. Perhaps some tweaking should've happened, if possible. But, certainly the alternative - the UK approach - was horrific.
I really am very sorry for your loss 