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Anyone else going crazy waiting to hear when we’re going to be locked down …

386 replies

mowly77 · 18/12/2021 09:47

… there’s a weekend meeting of SAGE & government…Oh the anxiety.

I’m supposed to be flying to see my family for Christmas on Tuesday. I am kicking myself for not booking to go earlier! If they announce lockdown before Christmas we’re all shafted aren’t we …?!

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Fendidntdrake · 18/12/2021 16:19

@mummyh2016 I'm so sorry.Flowers

vickyc90 · 18/12/2021 16:23

@Franca123

I think they'll announce a lockdown prior to Christmas meaning we can't meet other households inside for Christmas Day. They can't wait until the 27th or 28th because of all the travelling, it'll cause chaos plus the damage will have been done. They'll need to tell people before people start travelling for Christmas. I suspect tomorrow. Currently we're playing chicken because of the lack of data. But indications aren't good. If we go ahead with Christmas and Omricon is as bad a feared , the NHS will be buggered and people will die. I'm glad it's not my decision to make.
People will travel anyway, we are meant to be going out for Xmas dinner I've just been and bought a turkey for the freezer, if we get out on Xmas great that Easter sorted if not house party it is.

What will be sensible is if he tells the elderly to stay home this year

Shehasadiamondinthesky · 18/12/2021 16:28

Why is christmas such a bloody drama - flying here, driving there. Ff's we're in the middle of a pandemic, just stay at home.
I'm having christmas on my own at home, I have no intention of inflicting covid on any of my relatives just for the sake of a dinner.

DaisyNGO · 18/12/2021 16:28

Vicky "What will be sensible is if he tells the elderly to stay home this year"

Tells? What counts as elderly?

Jconnais1chansonquivavsenerver · 18/12/2021 16:30

@Shehasadiamondinthesky

Why is christmas such a bloody drama - flying here, driving there. Ff's we're in the middle of a pandemic, just stay at home. I'm having christmas on my own at home, I have no intention of inflicting covid on any of my relatives just for the sake of a dinner.
You and me both.
Svara · 18/12/2021 16:32

@Shehasadiamondinthesky

Why is christmas such a bloody drama - flying here, driving there. Ff's we're in the middle of a pandemic, just stay at home. I'm having christmas on my own at home, I have no intention of inflicting covid on any of my relatives just for the sake of a dinner.
How is driving to a relative's house a drama? Should my elderly grandmother eat Christmas dinner alone for a second year? Should single people struggling with their mental health stay home?
annie55 · 18/12/2021 16:35

Why are you anxious? Is the government going to lock your doors and windows? Surely you're capable of making your own decisions. I will be making mine and not pay any attention to lockdown. Yes, I am SELFISH getting three vaccines and trying to live my life and not hiding forever. I had Covid twice and really don't care anymore what we're told to do by Sage.

Itisasecret · 18/12/2021 16:36

@Shehasadiamondinthesky

Why is christmas such a bloody drama - flying here, driving there. Ff's we're in the middle of a pandemic, just stay at home. I'm having christmas on my own at home, I have no intention of inflicting covid on any of my relatives just for the sake of a dinner.
Good for you. I have every intention of celebrating with my family I didn’t see last year. I’m expected to just expose myself to Covid every day therefore absolutely no one will tell me to stay at home.
BlackCatz · 18/12/2021 16:37

just stay at home

No thanks

oftenbaffled · 18/12/2021 16:37

No

I understand why you're on tenterhooks though

But seeing as though I am spending christmas with my family (small) irrespective of any rules or guidelines, I am not in slightest

Only insofar as the things I have arranged for the children
But even if they were cancelled - I have so much up my sleeve to make it special - it doesn't perturb me too much

annie55 · 18/12/2021 16:38

@Shehasadiamondinthesky

Why is christmas such a bloody drama - flying here, driving there. Ff's we're in the middle of a pandemic, just stay at home. I'm having christmas on my own at home, I have no intention of inflicting covid on any of my relatives just for the sake of a dinner.
We've been in the middle of the pandemic forever. Are people not bored of that statement? Middle of the pandemic! Holiday abroad - middle of the pandemic, spending Christmas with family - middle of pandemic, seeing your relatives abroad - middle of the pandemic.
oftenbaffled · 18/12/2021 16:39

I'm having christmas on my own at home, I have no intention of inflicting covid on any of my relatives just for the sake of a dinner.

On the basis of your post.... I wonder how your relatives will be viewing your absence?

1967buglet · 18/12/2021 16:41

It would have been better at the start if the government woudl have said, pandemics last 2-3 years Be prepared to accept that your plans will be cancelled until 2023. If you don’t have expectations that things “will be back to normal’ before that, you don’t get disappointed.

Instead they overpromised and underdelivered, relied on vaccines to do it all, when other factors are important (masks, social distancing, working from home). And a lot of people died and are chronically ill, and the NHS workers have been through hell and back.

And, Long Covid remains the elephant in the room, and my experience is no one wants to hear about it. It is the new post viral fatigue/ME/chornic fatigue/Potts syndrome, it has a complex set of symptoms, and because it isn’t black and white and takes nuance to understand, a lot of people will deny it exists.. The government won’t have the money to care for these folks long term, and the taxpayer won’t want to pay for it. And, because post-viral disease affects women more than men (as women are more likely to have auto immune diseases and in health care research, are still a lower priority), the sufferers will be told—-oh, all in your head, or are you work shy, or you have to learn to manage your illness via yoga and mindfulness.

Hey, but roll on Christmas, let’s get the infections really going at great guns, and, as usual, put restrictions in, too little too late. And more people will die, more will become chronically ill, the NHS will be overwhelmed and so it goes until the virus will probably burn itself out in 2023.

XenoBitch · 18/12/2021 16:43

@Shehasadiamondinthesky

Why is christmas such a bloody drama - flying here, driving there. Ff's we're in the middle of a pandemic, just stay at home. I'm having christmas on my own at home, I have no intention of inflicting covid on any of my relatives just for the sake of a dinner.
Christmas means a lot for many people, and it is not your place to tell them how they should celebrate it or feel about it.

I live alone, but will be spending it at my parents. It is a few days to get out my own miserable house, eat lots of food, and have company. You do you.

Franca123 · 18/12/2021 16:43

@vickyc90 funnily enough I have reserve bird and pigs in blanket in the deep freezer in case we can't see family as planned. I'll be devastated but devastated with a full stomach.

Gwenhwyfar · 18/12/2021 16:50

@Peakedtoosoon

There wont be what we'd recognise as lockdown from last time. Government know there's be no compliance and they couldn't enforce it.

There might be a return to some of the old restrictions like table service

Not true. They can enforce it pretty easily by arresting a certain proportion of people and making an example of them. Also, if everything is closed not complying is not really an option is it? And the population seems to be in total panic anyway so enforcement wouldn't even be that hard. I've already heard of people wanting to move the socialising to be outdoors.
Florianus · 18/12/2021 16:51

@Peakedtoosoon

There wont be what we'd recognise as lockdown from last time. Government know there's be no compliance and they couldn't enforce it.

There might be a return to some of the old restrictions like table service

Yesterday's infection total, while high, is actually a little lower than that of the previous day. I know one day's figures cannot show a trend, but it should give pause for thought.
Gwenhwyfar · 18/12/2021 16:52

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ivykaty44 · 18/12/2021 16:52

Ive changed my plans for next week and am meeting friends in the park, there is a takeaway cafe and we can get a hot drink and go for a walk and chat instead of staying indoors - ive rearranged two sets of friends to do this. The following week Ive changed both sets of friends Im meeting on Wednesday and Thursday to outside activities and mulled wine in the garden with hot mince pies afterwards

I do have family, just 2 coming Boxing Day and they are working from home and spending xmas day alone.

Im not following government guidelines but its clear that this variant is far more infectious and Im not wanting to catch it - so will avoid doing so

I dont give a flying fig what others do really, strangle all my friends are happy to meet in the park and go for a walk

I shall work tonight and Sunday in hospitality - doubt we will be needing so many staff NYE if he changes the rules but we will have to wait and see....

tbh I was told in July by a prof, you'll be lucky not to get covid this winter and subsequently took that on board and didn't make plans

just getting on with my life

Gwenhwyfar · 18/12/2021 16:52

"old restrictions like table service"

I consider table service a luxury rather than a restriction.
The exception is if they refuse to wait on the tables and expect you to use the app.

Gwenhwyfar · 18/12/2021 16:54

"Ive changed my plans for next week and am meeting friends in the park, there is a takeaway cafe and we can get a hot drink and go for a walk and chat instead of staying indoors"

I'm not spending hundreds on travel and tests to stand outside in December. Some of my friends want to cancel seeing me in the pub now and it makes a mockery of all the arrangements I've made to travel.

CovidCorvid · 18/12/2021 16:56

I just wish they’d make the announcement now. The not knowing isn’t doing my mental health much good, would just rather know. I’m sure I’m not the only one.

DoctorSnortles · 18/12/2021 16:57

'My family, my rules....'

That's not really how the system works if mandatory restrictions are brought in, but thanks for the laugh.

Gwenhwyfar · 18/12/2021 16:58

@CovidCorvid

I just wish they’d make the announcement now. The not knowing isn’t doing my mental health much good, would just rather know. I’m sure I’m not the only one.
Yep, I could make cut my visit short if necessary.
dementedma · 18/12/2021 16:59

Sis due to travel up from London next Thursday. Its not going to happen, is it?

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