I think the way it's being presented is possibly the problem.
"Boosters for everyone but in order of risk and need" - would be fine, absolutely right and proper to go in that order.
"Boosters for everyone once immunity has significantly waned (and we are keeping an eye on that)" - also fine, all very sensible.
"Boosters for however many people we have doses for, which may not be everyone, in order of risk and need" - again, as above.
And I hope that is what the grown ups are planning for in the background. As opposed to the nagging sense that it's going to be too burdensome to continue vaccinating everyone and under 50s won't be able to access any vaccination going forward.
The rhetoric is - we are prioritising everyone who needs a booster. Which is not very nuanced. Gets translated as - if you're not on the list, you're not at risk. Stop whining.
I don't think it's fair to rip into people who are simply saying we would like some reassurance that it will be our turn for a booster once all the group 1-9 people have had one, and once 6 months or whatever longer period immunity lasts for has elapsed, whichever is later, and to tell us we're selfish, irrational, whining and hysterical for wanting a booster at all, cos hey, who even bothers with a flu jab under 50.
Yes, we know others are more at risk - we expect and want to wait our turn.
Yes, we know it's unlikely to kill us, even more unlikely if we're not one of those comfortingly expendable people with an "underlying condition" (which is very broad category, Group 6 it ain't).
The CFR for 40-49 is what, 0.25%, 0.4%, something like that? And 0.7%-1%ish for 50-59? Various figures floating about but we're all more way likely to survive than not.
0.25% is still, say, 1 or 2 kids at your school losing a parent or one of the teachers if it ripped through everyone. Maybe that's OK, cos it won't overwhelm the NHS and it's a small percentage. But by that logic, perhaps every one of us who gets their kids vaccinated for measles, or takes them for their MMR booster, is overreacting and shouldn't bother - measles only kills 1 or 2 in a 1000 ie 0.1-0.2%, after all.
I recognise the global social justice arguments that other countries' need is greater. These are structural issues. But I don't see our government doing much about it in case in upsets the voters. Didn't they just cut the aid budget? And those arguments don't stop us taking our kids for their MMR, despite the measles death rates in the developing world...
We aren't saying we expect to be prioritised over those older or more at risk, we aren't saying we expect to have any booster if there isn't enough to go to round and it's being rationed. We are just fed up with simplistic rhetoric that tells people we aren't at risk and don't need to be in the queue at all.