My child is in the asd spectrum, and I know plenty of others too. And guess what, all of the children are capable of managing masks. Who aren't? The parents and 2 adults with autism that from the outset "took the exemption". Coincidence?
Your ASD child can wear the mask and therefore is not exempt. I cannot wear one, I tried and tried, had overload and meltdown after overload and meltdown, therefore I am exempt. My son puts everything in his mouth (except food, god I wish he'd eat even a slightly more varies diet), if he wore a mask it would be sodden within seconds, so guess what? He's exempt.
And how fucking dare you just shrug off the idea that we should be excluded from society as just one of those things. If anyone suggests that that CEV should simply stay at home to protect themselves then they're decried as "ableist", well guess what, what you're saying is exactly the same.
I have as much right as you to choose my own shopping (not once in the last year have I had a complete online order without substitutions), I have a right to go to the library, the zoo etc. I have a right to take my children out and enrich their lives, whether that's a meal out or the cinema.
I wear my lanyard (fecking hate that thing too), I keep my distance, don't like people.getting in my personal.space anyway, would be nice if others didn't get in my space tbh. I test twice a week, I'm double jabbed. What more can I do??