MissConduct I think you have summed up my hesitancy on this topic with this sentence, which I am very much in agreement with:
"Rare events are just that. The fact that millions of doses of the AZ vaccine were given before the clotting issue came to light is just such a rare event. There's no way to find them without millions of people having the intervention"
This is why I would prefer my children not to be in the first couple of million or the first couple of months.
I'm happy to be called selfish or whatever names under the sun for that, I really am. And I have reasonable confidence that the Pfizer vaccine, after vaccinating millions of kids, will quite probably turn out to have minimal side effects or rare events. But when it comes to your kids, I need more than reasonable confidence. I need the same kind of confidence I have with things like measles mumps rubella meningitis polio etc (which, to be fair, are far more serious so the risk benefit analysis tips heavily in favour for me anyway).
I never thought I'd be someone cautiously holding back on a vaccine for my kids. I just don't regard myself as someone who is vaccine cautious (though obviously to an extent I am). I was signed on to a stage 3 vaccine trial. I have a flu vaccine every year. My kids have had every vaccine offered to them including HPV and flu each year.
But we have never before been in a situation where there's a new novel virus which is not considered to be a big risk to children that has had a potential vaccine candidate come to market in such a short time.
Anyway, it's watchful waiting for now, because it hasn't been approved here, it may be, it may not be, we shall see! And in time, perhaps, they will end up having it because at some point I will get more clarity on the best decision for them and it may well be that they have it.