@forinborin
So you would like to challenge decisions made by the British government because you can, or because you'd like to see your family?
I just find the logic of "this situation is of your own making, you gave up your rights yourself, so just shut up" quite strange. The right to family life is not some sort of a niche woke middle-class concept, it is well recognised in both international and domestic law - that's why you allow family reunification for refugees, for example, even when the family members are in different countries and there's war in between.
Did I actually say what you quoted at me, re gave up your rights?! No, I didn't. I agree that family life is important but it has to be put into context. I also understand that it's recognised in international and domestic law, but again context is key.
I've already said that my own family, and I admit this was a few years back, could not visit each other for a few years either - technically GF was a refugee too as came from Germany. My GGM had to comfort a close relative whose son (I think it was GGM's nephew) was killed in WW2, driving a tank (he was German) - she could only do it by letter and we saw a copy of the letter recently.
But basically nowadays it seems as if you just complain a bit, because you're not allowed to see anyone etc for 1-2 years etc and then it's justified.
My close friend who's French - she would LOVE to see her DP's and DB, her DF has Alzheimers and is in a care home, but she has realised that for now, she can't do this, and she's making the most of her life in England.
I did feel really sorry for another friend of my DB's, also French - his DF died suddenly in France when there were bans on travel there so he could only return, I think, for the funeral, and naturally he was very upset.