@ilovesooty
I can't understand someone lying to make life easier. If you feel strongly about refusing a vaccine I don't see you wouldn't own it. I can understand not wanting to discuss it but I simply cannot understand lying.
Easy-peasy.
You can feel strongly about something for yourself, but have absolutely no need to broadcast your views to others who feel just as strongly about the opposing view: as the pro-vaccine folk do.
Or, maybe you don't believe in arguing about something when you know you won't change any minds. Or maybe you don't want to lecture people. Or maybe you don't want to bring conflict into a happy conversation among friends.
In the latter case, for instance, I was having a Skype call with a couple of ladies the other day who were chatting gaily about "when" they were going to get the covid vaccine. They just assumed I agreed with them, so I simply said nothing.
On another Skype call recently, one of those ladies said, "so have you all had your fly vaccine yet?" and all chirped in with "yes" or "next week" etc. Again, I said nothing, as I've never had a flu jab and never will.
It's really quite easy, and a good thing, to avoid conflict if it makes people feel better. If I feel strongly about not having the Covid vaccine for myself there's no reason in the world for my friends and relatives to know that, and I have no need to persuade them otherwise. My arguments would just augment their fear and panic, and I don't want that.
One of my cousins said the other day on FB that she broke out in tears of joy when she got the vaccine, and posted a photo of herself getting it. About 60 of our friends and relatives chimed in with likes and loves and congratulatory comments, and I said nothing. I'm sure she didn't even notice that my "like" or "congratulations!" was missing!
It's really easy to merge with the crowd in an unpopular decision, if that decision really makes no difference other than sow discord.
And before someone says I'm a bad person, a terrible person (as I was told the other day on another thread) for having this OPINION; or because I might give them Covid, let me say this: if I were Covid positive, or had symptoms, of course I would stay at home, until I recovered completely. That's a no-brainer.
Would I even lie about it? I would, if doing so would keep the peace. I was never one to to around broadcasting my opinion.