[quote TempsPerdu]@ptumbi Great post, completely agree.
Also this:
I wish people would stop pretending that they care about others, that they are wonderful self-sacrificing individuals who are doing all this to SAVE LIVES. They are doing it for themselves, and their own families, and then berating other people for having different feelings about what they want for their own selves and families.
Throughout the crisis I’ve volunteered for a local food bank, cooked and carried out food drops to the vulnerable, donated a lot of the money I’ve been saving to homeless and children’s charities, done grocery shopping for an elderly neighbour, cooked for another friend who has a critically ill toddler...
And yet on MN I’m ‘selfish’ because I dare to question the utility of rolling lockdowns and raise concerns about some of the groups worst affected (which I’ve seen first hand through my food bank work). Currently I am committing the heinous crime of sending my toddler to nursery, despite only working part-time in a non-key worker role - because she’s an only child and as a former teacher I know that proper socialisation is crucial to her well-being and development.
The constant cries of ‘SELFISH!’ are used on here to shut down any criticism of lockdown, and yet, while the most ardent supporters of continued lockdown paint themselves as doing it out of sheer altruism, it’s generally because they’re worried - either about catching Covid, about someone in their family catching it or about being unable to access other healthcare if they need it. Of course that’s not wrong in itself, but it’s self-preservation, just as it’s self-preservation on my part to send DD to nursery and to call for a timely end to the restrictions.
There are very few people in this crisis whose actions are driven exclusively by altruism, or who are making their sacrifices solely for some vague ‘greater good’. I just wish more people were honest about that.[/quote]
So well said. Anyone who questions lockdown is instantly branded as selfish. Those idiots on their high horse didn’t care prior to covid about people dying of starvation or poverty did they? It’s suddenly only when it’s on THEIR doorstep that now they want to be all “selfless”. That’s the EPITOME of selfish actually!