Disclaimer: I believe getting the vaccine is completely worth it and I am not an alarmist scaremonger or hypochondriac. Also, I live abroad in a country that is distributing AZ vaccine to all population groups
My DH and I and nearly all my work colleagues (organisation of 100 people) had the AZ vaccine a couple of weeks ago.
I'd say about 70% of us had side effects of some sort - fever, chills, fatigue and nausea. We were all completely fine after 24 hours though.
My symptoms didn't start until around 12 hours after I got the vaccine (I got it done at 9am) - I was at a vet getting treatment for one of my pets when I suddenly got floored with fatigue, nausea and also chills in my joints. As I was driving home (10 minute drive) I kept feeling more and more fatigued to the point where I felt I was going to fall asleep at the steering wheel! If I knew about the possible side effects being so severe I could have arranged a different appointment.
Many of us genuinely had to take the day off work following the vaccine as we felt so ill - this includes people who never take a day off sick.
I think it is good to inform people that the symptoms extend beyond a mild headache/ a little tiredness/ slightly elevated temperature - this way people can plan in advance (e.g. make sure they don't have side effects on the day of an important meeting/sort out childcare if needed).
I've had other vaccines but never felt any effects from them - so it wasn't a case of expecting symptoms and being hypersensitive to it!
I work in an organisation where we need to be regularly tested for Covid - I know I've not had Covid and neither has my husband. We are both otherwise fit and healthy (27 + 32 years old) with normal BMIs.
I don't think pretending side effects are only very mild or rare is going to help the vaccine rollout - it is better to be honest and accept people's experiences rather than being deceptive and dismissive.
Sorry you've had such a hard time on this thread OP - I know where you're coming from. I've been actually completely quiet about my symptoms to friends and family so I wouldn't put them off!