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Support bubble and overnight stays in tier 4

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redribbonbow · 19/12/2020 21:45

Is this allowed still? I am being told it's not allowed but I can't find a source for this. That if you're in a support bubble you can still stay somewhere overnight even if you're in tier 4 sorry if already been asked I'm panicking.

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rachelbloomfan · 19/12/2020 22:43

It’s so poorly worded, it is completely ridiculous for an official communication from Downing Street. I understand how you could read it as redribbonbow above said:

This (the travel ban) includes staying with:
anyone you do not live with or
Are in a support bubble with

But I read it as:
This (the travel ban) includes staying with anyone you do not:
Live with (or are in a support bubble with).
As that makes more logical sense given how support bubbles normally work.

This government have a lot to answer for with this. It’s not fair to put out unclear messaging like this for the very people who are most vulnerable to the stress caused by this sudden change to the rules (which is why they are allowed support bubbles in the first place).

TildaTurnip · 19/12/2020 22:45

@rachelbloomfan

It’s so poorly worded, it is completely ridiculous for an official communication from Downing Street. I understand how you could read it as redribbonbow above said:

This (the travel ban) includes staying with:
anyone you do not live with or
Are in a support bubble with

But I read it as:
This (the travel ban) includes staying with anyone you do not:
Live with (or are in a support bubble with).
As that makes more logical sense given how support bubbles normally work.

This government have a lot to answer for with this. It’s not fair to put out unclear messaging like this for the very people who are most vulnerable to the stress caused by this sudden change to the rules (which is why they are allowed support bubbles in the first place).

I agree, the top interpretation would not make logical sense. I read it as the second interpretation.

Stuff like this should not need interpreting - how did this get out without being checked?!

redribbonbow · 19/12/2020 22:45

@Kazmerelda I'm in that bracket and do not want to break any rules. I think it's so unclear. I'll wait until I see it absolutely clear that it's fine then. I get people saying it means it's ok but I personally think it's not worded in the correct way to accurately reflect that.

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chillychicken · 19/12/2020 22:46

I also think it’s deliberately ambiguous.

rachelbloomfan · 19/12/2020 22:46

It’s just ridiculous that we are all here on mumsnet at nearly 11pm trying to figure out what the government actually means and what the new guidance is, especially after waiting in a state of high anxiety all day for the details at 4pm. It’s bad enough that the website didn’t update with tier 4 rules at 4pm but even now that it has, it’s still clear as mud when it comes to support bubbles etc.

BamboozledandBefuddled · 19/12/2020 22:47

[quote redribbonbow]@BamboozledandBefuddled where is the word 'not' though? In your last line regarding support bubbles[/quote]
...or staying with anyone you do not live with or are in a support bubble with'

It applies to both anyone you live with AND anyone you are in a bubble with. The sentence literally makes no sense otherwise.

RoseGoldEagle · 19/12/2020 22:48

You cannot leave home for holidays or stays overnight away from your main home unless permitted by law. This means that holidays in the UK and abroad are not allowed. This includes staying in a second home or caravan, or staying with anyone you do not live with or are in a support bubble with.

It means staying with anyone you do NOT live with, or are NOT in a support bubble with, is not allowed. Staying with someone you DO live with or ARE in a support bubble with, is allowed. The ‘not’ is used once but is meant to include the ‘live with or are in a support bubble with’. Agree it’s appallingly worded.

rachelbloomfan · 19/12/2020 22:49

I genuinely don’t think they intended to make it ambiguous, I think it’s much more likely that it’s just been rushed out with no thought for the details and nobody readproofing it before publishing it (although in my mind that’s no excuse as the rumours started last night so they had almost 24 hours to get a minion who has good English to write clear guidelines for all and any scenarios under consideration).

redribbonbow · 19/12/2020 22:49

@rachelbloomfan yes agreed. I'm not saying anyone's wrong or right but I cannot read it as ok personally. It's pathetic that it hasn't been appropriately proof read.
Should be crystal clear with no ambiguity even if it means I'm thick or whatever!

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RoseGoldEagle · 19/12/2020 22:50

As to be fair is my post, having read it back Grin

PurpleMustang · 19/12/2020 22:52

It is badly worded. Would a question request to BBC Breakfast or the like the worth a shot, that they may ask a politician

deathbyprocrastination · 19/12/2020 22:55

Relieved I’m not the only one trying to work out if it’s ok for support bubblers fo stay over. Ridiculous wording...

BamboozledandBefuddled · 19/12/2020 22:57

@PurpleMustang

It is badly worded. Would a question request to BBC Breakfast or the like the worth a shot, that they may ask a politician
That, or the BBC News site often asks people to send in questions the day after new rules are announced. Anyone would think the government make a habit of dishing out unintelligible gobbledygook!
RichardMarxisinnocent · 19/12/2020 23:00

@rachelbloomfan

I genuinely don’t think they intended to make it ambiguous, I think it’s much more likely that it’s just been rushed out with no thought for the details and nobody readproofing it before publishing it (although in my mind that’s no excuse as the rumours started last night so they had almost 24 hours to get a minion who has good English to write clear guidelines for all and any scenarios under consideration).
It isn't new wording, it's been there at least since tiers were introduced and overnight stays were banned in some tiers, so it's not rushed and they've had plenty of time to improve it. No idea why they haven't.
QuestionableDanceMoves · 19/12/2020 23:01

The wording re overnight stays has been like that on the gov website since before the November lockdown so there’s been plenty of time for it to have been amended.

Overnight stays for support bubbles have always been allowed as you’re classed as one household regardless of what tier you are in. That hasn’t changed

RichardMarxisinnocent · 19/12/2020 23:02

It might even have been there since support bubbles were introduced in June, as at the time nobody else was allowed to stay overnight anywhere with anyone.

Suzi888 · 19/12/2020 23:02

You are allowed, even in Tier 4.
The wording needs to be changed! I think it’s deliberately ambiguous because BJ would prefer it if you didn’t do it. He advises against it, but it is allowed.

Notyouraverageguy · 19/12/2020 23:06

The way I see it is that according to the original guidance your support bubble counted as your household. Therefore you could stay overnight. The above passage to me reads that you still can as you are part of thst household

Horizons83 · 19/12/2020 23:12

Professional Gov.uk interpreter here (aka a solicitor). 100% yes, if you are in a support bubble you are considered to be living under the same roof, even if you actually live hundreds of miles apart, so you can do anything you would do with people you live with, including moving between your two respective places of residence and staying overnight. The Tier system becomes irrelevant.

Aerial2020 · 19/12/2020 23:14

I'm so confused too.

Does that mean we can see our support bubble (same one all through) overnight at Christmas?

Horizons83 · 19/12/2020 23:29

@Aerial2020 Yes it does. If you have a support bubble in law you are treated as all living together in the same house. The Tier system is absolutely irrelevant for those in support bubbles.

Aerial2020 · 19/12/2020 23:30

Thank you.

ConfusedatChristmasTier4 · 20/12/2020 00:49

Hi OP! See my thread too. Lots of opinions there also.

Waspnest · 20/12/2020 01:05

The way I read it, you can't stay overnight even in your bubble. But who knows, maybe the 'permitted by law' bit allows you to. Confused

frustrationcentral · 20/12/2020 01:06

I think all the gov stuff is dreadfully written tbh.

We had a debate about this recently , DS1 had visited his Dad who, along with siblings was later tested as positive. The government guidelines read...

Separated parents - two separate bubbles, members of both bubbles should SI in the event of a positive test in either bubble.

So is that - any members of both bubbles (DS) should SI? Or ALL members of both bubbles should SI? We felt it could read either way, baffling!

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