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Tier 4 - can I form a support bubble and go stay with my parents?

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yellowtail1 · 19/12/2020 16:49

I live in London with my DH and our 10 week old baby. Can we go and stay with my parents (who live in a tier 2 area) over Christmas by forming a support bubble and if so, how long could we stay with them for? Sorry if this is a stupid question - my head is all over the place and I’m just so confused. Can anyone help?

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Doidontimmm · 19/12/2020 16:50

I believe you should not travel outwith a tier 4 area

Leafyhouse · 19/12/2020 16:51

I'd head out before midnight if I were you, and stay with your parents. London sounds like plague-ville.

rainbowunicorn · 19/12/2020 16:51

No you can't. You have a DH so you do not qualify to form a support bubble as none of you are single adults. Presumably you are not a carer for your parents as if you were you would have already been doing this.

BeneficiaryMadness · 19/12/2020 16:51

No you can’t I’m afraid. Support bubbles are for single parents and you aren’t supposed travel out of tier 4?

HarryLimeFoxtrot · 19/12/2020 16:52

I thought one of the households in a support bubble had to be a single adult household. Which doesn’t seem to apply in your situation.

BeneficiaryMadness · 19/12/2020 16:53

@leafyhouse

For them to carry the plague to a tier 2 area?

yellowtail1 · 19/12/2020 16:53

I read this on the government’s website, which is why I’m confused - surely the last point applies to me?

You can form a support bubble with another household of any size if:

you live by yourself – even if carers visit you to provide support
you are the only adult in your household who does not need continuous care as a result of a disability
your household includes a child who is under the age of one or was under that age on 2 December 2020

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GeorgieTheGorgeousGoat · 19/12/2020 16:53

No otherwise everyone would be doing that surely? Confused

PurpleDaisies · 19/12/2020 16:54

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Floralnomad · 19/12/2020 16:54

There is very clear guidance on what / who qualifies as a support bubble on the govt website , I don’t think you qualify .

yellowtail1 · 19/12/2020 16:54

Full link: www.gov.uk/guidance/making-a-support-bubble-with-another-household#what-a-support-bubble-is

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HK92 · 19/12/2020 16:54

Yes with a child under 1 you can form a support bubble with another household

FPS123 · 19/12/2020 16:55

I thought they’d extended support bubbles to babies recently

PurpleDaisies · 19/12/2020 16:55

@Leafyhouse

I'd head out before midnight if I were you, and stay with your parents. London sounds like plague-ville.
There’s a bit of a logic fail there. People heading out of london are going to spread the new variant more widely and that’s going to screw over more of the country.
Heathcliff27 · 19/12/2020 16:55

I would say with a child under one you can, but I'd head there this evening as well

NewLockdownNewMe · 19/12/2020 16:55

OP absolutely qualifies for a support bubble, but I don’t know how the new tier 4 rule applies to that.

renallychallenged · 19/12/2020 16:55

@Floralnomad

There is very clear guidance on what / who qualifies as a support bubble on the govt website , I don’t think you qualify .
If you actually read the guidance you'll see if they have a baby under 1 on 2hd December then they DO qualify
CoffeeCheeseandCupcakes · 19/12/2020 16:56

@yellowtail1 You can form a support/childcare bubble.

But think because you're in a tier 3 now (4 tomorrow) you can't travel to a lower tier.

PurpleDaisies · 19/12/2020 16:56

Do you actually need support or is this just for a nicer Christmas?

SlippersForFlippers · 19/12/2020 16:56

Doesn't that mean just for childcare as the child isn't old enough for state nursery then.

Floralnomad · 19/12/2020 16:56

I can see your point but why should a 2 parent family with a child under 1 be allowed to form a support bubble whereas a 2 parent family with a 3 yr old cannot , it makes absolutely no sense at all .

LittleRa · 19/12/2020 16:56

Those saying support bubbles are only for single parents, support bubbles changed a little while ago to include parents (including two parent families) of babies under 1. See the third bullet point.
However I don’t know how this translates to the new tier 4 restrictions.

Tier 4 - can I form a support bubble and go stay with my parents?
LittleRa · 19/12/2020 16:57

Cross posted with a few others.

wizzbangfizz · 19/12/2020 16:57

No you are not allowed to travel outside of tier 4.

FuckeryOmbudsman · 19/12/2020 16:58

This is a 'don't be a dick' issue

Did you feel you needed extra support 2 hours ago? If 'yes' would you have chosen someone who cannot actually support you day to day because they are miles away?

Tier 4 people should not be travelling unless essential

Form a support bubble, if you really need support, with someone local.

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