Believe what you like.
Dd came home before I was ill for a socially distanced visit for a specific reason: she wasn't even in the same car as us or sat at the same table.
She came back the weekend after but again, after my symptoms had started plus we know she was negative at that point. She has never tested positive at all before or after.
The meal in a pub was AFTER my symptoms started but before we realised it was Covid. These friends requested to be classed as close contacts to be safe side even though we realised I'd had symptoms before and despite being sat at a distance. They tested negative anyway after.
4 people in total at dh's work have had Covid, out of well over a hundred. None on his floor and no one he had any contact with whatsoever. And the others he knows of who's had Covid were clients who he has no face to face contact with at that point.
Take aways delivered to the door are of very limited risk. As are post and deliveries. Besides which Dh always collects the take seats and seres up so again very limited risk.
The only person I have CLOSE contact - 2m for 15 min plus is Dh. who has never tested positive nor shown any symptoms before, during or since.
One staff member had Covid before me and this was from an outside corset. He is SLT and I have no close or same room contact with him.
Since starting back at school I have been careful to follow as many rules as possible.
As you demonstrate it's easy to find my posts.
The reality is Covid almost certain came from school. The doctors at the hospital, the cardiologist, my rheumatologist and my go all came to the same conclusion
. The fact that parents of the children in the classes I taught tested positive around the same time abd staff from those classes tested positive not long after are good enough indications I would think.
Anyway I've had enough. I'm not prepared to do this.
I have messaged Mums et to close my account and, if possible, remove all indication of my time in Mumsnet at least under this name.
After 17 years of mumsnet I am out.
Thank you to those of you who are continuing to fight for safer schools. I will support you all the way