Given a choice of job or granny's life I would pick granny every single time.
Given a job of granny's life or feeding my kids I would feed my kids every single time.
Thankfully I am not in the position of having to make such stark choices, but, and I know this comes as a shock to many, some people are.
To sit at home in a house you own or can reliably pay the rent or mortgage on, knowing you have sufficient income to meet your basic needs, and demand that those without the same security go without to protect you may seem entirely reasonable to some. Others will take a different view.
And oh, look, the government has achieved its objective yet again and divided us in order to rule: now instead of looking at the absolute disaster they are enacting we are instead busy arguing over whether people are selfish to demand sufficient financial support when barred from working. Well done, Tories, well done indeed.