That paints a pretty rosy picture compared to many other homes, which have very little enrichment activity,
When I visited homes to find one for my late mother, so many were miserable, smelly warehouses
In the end I paid for an upmarket private home, a struggle but at least I had the choice
Even for the good ones, most have had to restrict or ban visitors as a safety measure
If elderly people are used to family visiting, stopping that for months can be devastating,
especially if they are no longer able to understand why, or even if they are
You might think it is a rosy view but it is actually true and we aren't the only home that works like that. I have a relative in a home in a different part of the country, I had a photo this week of her having her hair done in the homes salon, hairdresser not calling but one of the staff doing it. My relative's home is expensive, the home where I help out is mainly council funded so not high fees.
Yes visiting is restricted, it has been for all of us hasn't it. For our residents most are having some visitors, seeing other people on the ipad and to be honest the ones with advanced dementia generally will tell you they haven't had a visitor two minutes after their family leave and don't seem to notice the difference. This seems to be more distressing for families than residents in our homes. Some of them seem much calmer with less coming and going generally, it is lovely having open visiting when you can see a friend or relative whenever you like but the downside of that is people with dementia can get agitated with strange faces and the hussle and bustle. That isn't a reason to stop visitors but I think going forward we will think about ways to reduce that stress for some residents.
I just think the general picture presented of care homes isn't always accurate, care staff have been blamed for not keeping homes safe and covid spreading and then they are criticised for keeping homes safe and restricting visitors.
At my relative's home staff moved in and lived in caravans in the grounds to ensure safety. They had an outbreak from someone being discharged from hospital with covid, the home I help in has had no cases and long may that continue.
The care sector is much maligned and the staff undervalued by much of society.
Sky news are doing an item now about homes closing, an elderly lady crying as she is being moved out of a home that is closing, oh the staff are joining in now, 85 and homeless.