As a parent, I am getting so tired of having teachers jump on threads being so defensive, trying to stifle every opinion other than their own, and using every excuse under the sun because parents expect them to do their job
As a teacher, I am getting oh so tired of parents not recognising that we are living in the same world as you are. For example, I am a single parent with 3 children at home, I am classed as 'vulnerable' and have a child who is 'vulnerable' and I have a elderly relative I am also trying very hard to support. Between trying to secure supermarket delivery slots, supervising my children's work (or ignoring them, as is more the case), I am teaching lessons during my lesson times via teams as are all my colleagues. I have no choice but to adapt existing, proven, tried and tested classroom resources to work online. Takes me hours. I am marking bloody everything. I am fielding emails from people like you who have no fucking clue what some of my colleagues are going through. One has just lost her husband (not covid related). One has an elderly parent likely to die of covid at any moment (hanging on in there for quite some time now, surprising everyone). One is also a single parent but of 2 toddlers and trying to work online is very, very difficult for her. The father is absent. Life is going on around us - we are doing the best we can. We cannnot all deliver the same service we could in school because, you know, life. Some of us wouldn't even be in school at the moment because, you know, life. There are discrepancies in the quality of work being set and how it is being marked - you are not wrong to pick up on that. But you know fuck all about what is going on in the background and you have no right to know that. By all means, report poor service to the Head and if it is justified, it will be dealt with. But for fucks sake, just think a little bit, will you and recognise that we are dealing with the same shit as everyone else.