Astonishing! Don't people realise that if schools have to socially distance, they can't accept all the children? It's hardly rocket science to see that is it and it's hardly as if it hasn't been plastered across every type of media for weeks!
They asked what you wanted to do. They didn't need to say to you 'and please realise that when you answer, we will take that as your answer' - that's usually how Qs and As work isn't it! So if you say 'no' and later change your mind, not surprisingly, you won't be top of the list. Along with everyone else you had a choice to answer the Q and accept a place.
They cannot just magic up provision. That should be obvious too. There are X amount of rooms and X amount if adults. So when people change their mind a few days before it all starts, extra provision isn't possible. Lots of year groups aren't being offered any returns because there isn't space to do it in a socially distanced way. Schools will contingents provide for them remotely....and for your child too.
Honestly, blaming school communication, declaring they are failing to meet their obligations and that you are entitled to a place.....what a load of rubbish. You need to appreciate 2 things here - there simply isn't space for everyone and it's not possible to change that, plus you actually did have a chance and turned it down.
I think you're actually cross with yourself....because unlike lots of year groups, your child did have a place offered, and you yourself said 'no' to it. And now you realise you've missed the boat, but rather than just accept you probably made a misjudgement, you want someone to blame.
Well no-ones a winner really during this Covid phase and all children are losing out. That's not anyone's fault. There have been small elements of choice for some parents and you were one of those and exercised your choice, so now you have to live with it. How on earth could a system with limited places work if everyone was asked for their choice but could change their mind right up until the event itself? Clearly that was never goi g to be workable, but if you couldn't see that and want to blame the school and tell your children it's the schools fault, I expect you'd do that regardless of circumstances anyway.