@softjellycell Thank you. As I said, I wasn't posting for sympathy, none of this is a race to the bottom, It just annoys me that so many on here fail to consider the wider picture then preach to the rest of us what they are doing and why.
You are also correct in what you say about vulnerable children not being required to attend, certainly not at my DS's amazing special school.
His school has been open throughout all of this for those who have needed it but as I am his full time carer, It would have been very wrong of me to send him, thus risking the teachers and TA's who literally make our life bearable. They are angels in disguise and in constant contact by email and phone, but it is in no way comparable to their physical presence.
I know they are desperate to get back to some form of normality and are missing the children as much as we are missing them. You have to be a very special person to do that job. I know I couldn't do it for any money. I do it because I love and adore my DS of course and as his Mum it IS my job, though not quite the job description I remember signing up for!
If it is the case that they cannot re-open until September, so be it, as social distancing is just not possible in that setting.