Good for you OP. Is that what you wanted to hear?
I, like many others will make our own decisions based on our own personal circumstances
In my case having to care full time with a severely disabled 15 yr old DS who also has severe learning difficulties, doubly incontinent and is partially sighted.
He has no comprehension of why he cannot go to school every day and I am totally exhausted with no outside help whatsoever.
I finally managed to get him off to sleep at 4am.
DH is great and does more than his fair share when home, but is a key worker and despite having asthma has never stopped working long shifts throughout all of this.
Not sure how much more of this I can take, I am NOT complaining, just explaining, why posts such as yours are totally pointless.