Italian carehome deaths up to the middle of April are included in the statistics and account for 6773 deaths. (I haven't checked if others have yet been added, it was a few days ago I found that information)
Italy absolutely didn't get it right at first. It was a perfect storm:
Everyone thought China was a long way away
Everyone thought Covid would be like bird flu and swine flu and burn itself out quickly
The first two patients in Italy were Chinese tourists, so again, yes, the "othering", won't happen to us, they brought it with them, we cured them mentality.
Patient zero from the second and unrelated, outbreak to the Chinese tourists was German, so early connections regarding the who, how, and where, weren't made until much later
Patient 1 was a young and healthy superspreader.
It was ski season, so the regions where cases were erupting were reluctant to act (Lombardia's governor now says he was begging the govt in Rome to do something for weeks)
But...
My friend visited the south of Italy on the 14th February, leaving on the 18th. Temperature checks by then were commonplace in airports.
When the lockdown came, it was rigid, and has stayed rigid. It's now been relaxed, as of last Monday, and yes, people are being twats, to the point the authorities in some towns are saying they might reinstate restrictions, especially for teenagers who, having been inside for 8 weeks solid, are the main culprits.
Italy triaged who got a ventilator. The UK has triaged who got a place in ICU. A relative of mine has died of Covid and was not given ICU care because of her age.
There is a criminal investigation going on into carehome deaths in Italy. There may well be a public enquiry about the same in the UK.
Whichever side of the political divide you stand, very few countries are going to come out of this looking good.
Italians generally support the EU though there is always the "we pay more into it" trope going round that gets said by all euro sceptics whatever their nationality. They certainly feel that the UK's decision to leave was foolish and will never happen in Italy. Yes, young people are enamoured of UK culture. T'was ever thus. The two things aren't mutually exclusive.
Italians admire British "civility" and organisation, politeness and kindness to strangers. Italians in the UK are definitely treated better than foreigners in Italy are treated. Boris Johnson is a laughing stock, yes. He was a long time before Covid.