If the UK numbers are much worse than other countries, are we getting any inkling of why from the data?
No, it is not obvious that the UK numbers are much worse than other countries.
FT has tried to look at excess deaths for countries who report info comparable to the ONS stats:
www.ft.com/coronavirus-latest
So far, numbers of deaths from all causes have gone up by 52% in England & Wales, 56% in Spain, 60% in Belgium, 90% in Italy, 42% in Netherlands, 34% in France, 23% in Sweden, etc.
Of course, some people still compare ONS excess deaths data in the UK with reported hospital deaths in Italy and this is where "we are the worst" sentiment comes from.