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Message from a Paramedic

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Jenasaurus · 26/04/2020 10:43

A message to the public: 20 reasons...from a paramedic.

  1. to everyone slagging off the TikTok videos we do, bollocks. We are human, we have feelings and we get scared and upset too, the silly videos are morale boosting and team building, a crucial aspect when treating your loved ones in their time of need, without a way of letting off steam we would break, then who would care for your nearest and dearest?
  1. We are not immune and are still at risk, yet we risk ourselves coming to treat you, paramedics get sick, paramedics die, and all to treat you, so please, don’t take the piss.
  1. The freebies and incentives we get are ways to make us appreciated, it makes a change from being punched on a job or spat at, so just let us enjoy them.
  1. We are not part of some government conspiracy theory. We are not selecting who gets sick, neither do we want to implant you for control. If we were going to be selective, we certainly wouldn’t be choosing ‘Karen or Susan , who attended the school of life’ and got her medical knowledge from fb. (Sorry Karen/Susan)
  1. If you’ve called because you think you’ve got covid, chances are you probably have, as everyone is suspected now, there is always a transmission path, however; it doesn’t mean your going to die.
  1. Please look after yourself! If you can google an array of other symptoms and watch the death toll avidly on a variety of sources I’m sure you can figure out to take paracetamol for a temperature, drink fluids, take immodium for diarrhoea, and rest. You don’t need us to tell you that.
  1. We don’t do ‘check overs’. That’s what your gp does. We offer life saving treatment in situations beyond your control. Please choose wisely.
  1. We don’t have amazing PPE, we have what the PHE has told us to wear, and be that right or wrong it’s all we’ve got. The same as nurses, gp’s, carers, porters, Dom staff and other key workers. Please don’t think we’re ‘ok’.
  1. We like the clapping. It makes us emotional, even the hard faced staff, makes us feel proud to do our job, and yes, we probably are stood close to each other outside a hospital, but we also are inside when performing cpr and airway resuscitation, remember that when you have a moan that we don’t adhere to social distancing.
  1. We are separated from our families too, just like you are, we miss our mums, dads, our sisters and brothers, our nieces and nephews, even our children, and we HATE it. But we do it to protect them. It’s not about us.

  2. We are bored in lockdown too, on our few days off, we spend so much time seeing Poorly people, coming home to the same 4 walls it is driving us crazy, but we do it, to protect you. Please do the same, otherwise you will be doing it for longer.

  3. We get angry at the news, at politicians, and at social unrest, however we keep our lips sealed, as much as we want to shout like you do, but we don’t, as when we see you, our issue at that moment in time, is reassuring you and helping you.

  4. We are proud of the people who listen to advice, don’t break the rules, we thank you, and every Thursday, we clap for you too.

  5. We don’t test for covid, shit, some of us aren’t even tested! Please stop asking us, that includes asking ‘if we think you’ve got it’ without a swab, we are clueless.

  6. Enjoy the time with your family, we wish we could, everyday we go to work it makes us sad to be away from them, so make the most of it, have fun doing home school, but if you miss a day, who cares?! It’s the memories that count.

  7. Please stop calling us ambulance drivers. It really does make us rage. We actually went to uni, have a degree, and some even more than that. Also, yes, women drive too.

  8. If you think you need to be in hospital but we don’t, we will try to help as much as we can, however don’t be surprised if we don’t take you. Hospitals are a risky place at the minute, and we are trying to help you by not taking you.

  9. Please stop wearing a mask when your in the car on your own. You look a right berk and can’t catch it if no one is there.

  10. To the elderly: you break our hearts at the minute, it’s a scary place right now, and seeing us tower over you in masks, taking you away from what you know upsets us too, we just want to say sorry.

  11. (Most of us) love our job. Please don’t make us hate it, by going against the rules and common sense, we are working to help you. Every patient that is sick, every patient who splatters us in sick,blood and poo, and every patient who puts us at risk, we are still there, if you need us don’t be sorry, medical care is what we do. But please, from all of us, stay indoors, wash your hands, and keep clapping

OP posts:
YinMnBlue · 26/04/2020 11:22

My SIL who is a paramedic takes Imodium Grin

circusintown · 26/04/2020 11:24

Nice Karen/Susan dig there Hmm

Why would a paramedic want someone to unnecessarily touch their mask by taking it off to drive?

My friend personally hates the clapping and tik tok

circusintown · 26/04/2020 11:25

Not to mention the paramedic friends who definitely aren't staying home on their days off. One was at a house party last night with 2 doctors receptionists, their Tesco worker sister and 2 elderly relatives. Ffs

TheGreatWave · 26/04/2020 11:27

In terms of the videos read the HCPC standards, plus the SM guidelines, if you are happy that you are acting within them, jig away.

CallmeAngelina · 26/04/2020 11:28

FFS, what IS it with you lot?
Are you going to be this unpleasantly picky if you need the OP to pick you up in their ambulance?

Thank you Jenasaurus!

gingersausage · 26/04/2020 11:29

@user1497873278 what are you burbling on about? Why the fuck would you feel guilty for not calling an ambulance unless you need one?? A) that’s what all normal people do and B) that’s what ambulances are there for 🤦‍♀️

Hanfulofdust · 26/04/2020 11:31

FFS, what IS it with you lot?
Are you going to be this unpleasantly picky if you need the OP to pick you up in their ambulance?

This.

Ginfordinner · 26/04/2020 11:33

Why not all pile on to the OP like piranhas having a feeding frenzy Hmm

BertiesLanding · 26/04/2020 11:33

One paramedic does not, nor cannot, speak for all of them. I think they are doing an amazing job, and this cut and paste does not predispose me to the writer at all.

AlanBrazil · 26/04/2020 11:34

The OP didn’t write it.

Bounceyflouncey · 26/04/2020 11:37

Message from a member of the public: foxtrot oscar and your colleague should look into another career if they have such distain for people daring to access the service. Oh and for agreeing that tik toks are a good idea.

AlexisCarringtonColbyDexter · 26/04/2020 11:38

I'm sorry but I will be making a complaint about a paramedic this week.
I look after vulnerable people in the community. One has a long standing very serious health condition and has been deteriorating for weeks (nothing to do with covid).
We had to call an ambulance this week because he couldn't breathe and we were scolded and abused by the paramedic- this was BEFORE he had even taken his vitals. After taking them he admitted he needed to be admitted for life saving treatment ASAP.
Please dont tell us we are "wasting your time" when we have serious medical concerns for our vulnerable clients. That paramedic was wrong and did not apologise. He was abusive and rude and a complaint will be made shortly so no, whilst i appreciate the work you do, please dont act like your profession is beyond reproach because it isnt.

WorraLiberty · 26/04/2020 11:39

This particular paramedic sounds like a condescending wanker and a sexist one at that. It's always 'Karen/Susan' and never 'Bill/Dave'.

I've no idea why you'd want to spread this on the internet.

Complexico · 26/04/2020 11:39

18. Please stop wearing a mask when your in the car on your own. You look a right berk and can’t catch it if no one is there

Crap advice, the less masks are taking on and off the more effective they are - wearing them in a car is fine.

If you think you need to be in hospital but we don’t, we will try to help as much as we can, however don’t be surprised if we don’t take you. Hospitals are a risky place at the minute, and we are trying to help you by not taking you.

Tell that to the people who've requested an ambulance, not been taken to hospital and then died.

Fairly fucking insensitive post.

Shortfeet · 26/04/2020 11:40

I don’t think the nasty tone of these things does much good.

YourNameIsSenNow · 26/04/2020 11:41

How does this one person speak for ALL ambulance staff.

Is he part of the xmen? Amazing!

SoupDragon · 26/04/2020 11:42

I have every respect for paramedics - I think they do a really tough job.

That reads like tedious, lecturing drivel though.

"Take Imodium for diarrhoea" is bad advice isn't it? I thought you were meant to let it run its course if it was a bug and take those dioralyte type drinks instead.

Sparklingbrook · 26/04/2020 11:43

Seems like a list of one person's opinions which may or may not be the same as their colleagues. It's like when people say 'Why does MN always think XYZ?' when MN is made up of thousands of users all capable of independent thinking.

I too would love to spend time with my family but that isn't happening any time soon. Sad

Rubyroost · 26/04/2020 11:43

Or you could do the silly things without posting the videos. I'm finding all this ticktock bullshit a bit annoying tbh

AnneOfTeenFables · 26/04/2020 11:44

Why do people think anonymous Facebook posts should be shared on MN? And why do some posters think it doesn't matter where stuff comes from or whether it's true or not?
The mask advice is obviously wrong as a PP pointed out. Anonymous people trying to gain credibility by claiming a professional title is one of my least favourite social media trends.

AlexisCarringtonColbyDexter · 26/04/2020 11:44

"Take Imodium for diarrhoea" is bad advice isn't it

Its terrible advice. It means if you have food poisoning or some other bacteria there you are preventing your own body from getting it out. Which means it is staying in you.
Awful advice

rosiepony · 26/04/2020 11:44

You should not take immodiom for diarrhoea unless you’re in danger of shitting yourself, eg about to get on a plane.

Otherwise, it’s best to shit out whatever’s making you ill and drink lots of fluids.

Laniakea · 26/04/2020 11:44

If you’re wearing a mask you don’t take it off until you can do so safely ie hand washing facilities & ability to safely dispose of the PPE ... most people don’t have that in their car.

ChickenNuggetsChipsAndBeans · 26/04/2020 11:45

My response:

  1. There are 29,000 paramedics in the UK, is the author of this sanctimonious twaddle some sort of spokesperson?
  1. The Tiktok stuff is naff and would be a disciplinary offence in a lot of workplaces. As would the paramedic's SM post.
  1. "Enjoy the time with your family". Show some imagination, this is not a fucking holiday and putting a lot of families into crisis.
  1. I can just about tolerate the lockdown but what makes it in intolerable is being preached to by anonymous healthcare people.
Longtalljosie · 26/04/2020 11:46

Anyone who refers to women as “Karen / Susan” stops me listening straight away. Sexist bullshit.

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