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Message from a Paramedic

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Jenasaurus · 26/04/2020 10:43

A message to the public: 20 reasons...from a paramedic.

  1. to everyone slagging off the TikTok videos we do, bollocks. We are human, we have feelings and we get scared and upset too, the silly videos are morale boosting and team building, a crucial aspect when treating your loved ones in their time of need, without a way of letting off steam we would break, then who would care for your nearest and dearest?
  1. We are not immune and are still at risk, yet we risk ourselves coming to treat you, paramedics get sick, paramedics die, and all to treat you, so please, don’t take the piss.
  1. The freebies and incentives we get are ways to make us appreciated, it makes a change from being punched on a job or spat at, so just let us enjoy them.
  1. We are not part of some government conspiracy theory. We are not selecting who gets sick, neither do we want to implant you for control. If we were going to be selective, we certainly wouldn’t be choosing ‘Karen or Susan , who attended the school of life’ and got her medical knowledge from fb. (Sorry Karen/Susan)
  1. If you’ve called because you think you’ve got covid, chances are you probably have, as everyone is suspected now, there is always a transmission path, however; it doesn’t mean your going to die.
  1. Please look after yourself! If you can google an array of other symptoms and watch the death toll avidly on a variety of sources I’m sure you can figure out to take paracetamol for a temperature, drink fluids, take immodium for diarrhoea, and rest. You don’t need us to tell you that.
  1. We don’t do ‘check overs’. That’s what your gp does. We offer life saving treatment in situations beyond your control. Please choose wisely.
  1. We don’t have amazing PPE, we have what the PHE has told us to wear, and be that right or wrong it’s all we’ve got. The same as nurses, gp’s, carers, porters, Dom staff and other key workers. Please don’t think we’re ‘ok’.
  1. We like the clapping. It makes us emotional, even the hard faced staff, makes us feel proud to do our job, and yes, we probably are stood close to each other outside a hospital, but we also are inside when performing cpr and airway resuscitation, remember that when you have a moan that we don’t adhere to social distancing.
  1. We are separated from our families too, just like you are, we miss our mums, dads, our sisters and brothers, our nieces and nephews, even our children, and we HATE it. But we do it to protect them. It’s not about us.

  2. We are bored in lockdown too, on our few days off, we spend so much time seeing Poorly people, coming home to the same 4 walls it is driving us crazy, but we do it, to protect you. Please do the same, otherwise you will be doing it for longer.

  3. We get angry at the news, at politicians, and at social unrest, however we keep our lips sealed, as much as we want to shout like you do, but we don’t, as when we see you, our issue at that moment in time, is reassuring you and helping you.

  4. We are proud of the people who listen to advice, don’t break the rules, we thank you, and every Thursday, we clap for you too.

  5. We don’t test for covid, shit, some of us aren’t even tested! Please stop asking us, that includes asking ‘if we think you’ve got it’ without a swab, we are clueless.

  6. Enjoy the time with your family, we wish we could, everyday we go to work it makes us sad to be away from them, so make the most of it, have fun doing home school, but if you miss a day, who cares?! It’s the memories that count.

  7. Please stop calling us ambulance drivers. It really does make us rage. We actually went to uni, have a degree, and some even more than that. Also, yes, women drive too.

  8. If you think you need to be in hospital but we don’t, we will try to help as much as we can, however don’t be surprised if we don’t take you. Hospitals are a risky place at the minute, and we are trying to help you by not taking you.

  9. Please stop wearing a mask when your in the car on your own. You look a right berk and can’t catch it if no one is there.

  10. To the elderly: you break our hearts at the minute, it’s a scary place right now, and seeing us tower over you in masks, taking you away from what you know upsets us too, we just want to say sorry.

  11. (Most of us) love our job. Please don’t make us hate it, by going against the rules and common sense, we are working to help you. Every patient that is sick, every patient who splatters us in sick,blood and poo, and every patient who puts us at risk, we are still there, if you need us don’t be sorry, medical care is what we do. But please, from all of us, stay indoors, wash your hands, and keep clapping

OP posts:
TheGreatWave · 26/04/2020 12:04

Why not all pile on to the OP like piranhas having a feeding frenzy

Having thought more about what I posted previously, if the OP really did write this then they really do need to read the HCPC standards and the SM guidelines in full. If it wasn't the OP and a paramedic really did, then they too need to read them.

So it may be seen as a feeding frenzy, or it may just be pertinent advice.

Twattersphere · 26/04/2020 12:04
  1. Stop with the tik toks filmed in work time in clinical areas, wearing ppe and using expensive equipment as props. Probably filmed in the same hospital that people are dying from COVID. Nobody believes it is done during a break, as breaks are staggered and not everyone would be off conveniently at the same time the tik toks are being filmed. Don’t give us the bollocks about them being de-stressing as apart from them being pure showboating there are many other ways to de-stress that don’t involve looking unprofessional and disrespectful to covid victims and their families, and posting it all over social media - don’t your trusts have a social media policy? You are losing the support of the public by posting these videos - just have a look on twitter or in comments under newspaper articles.

Sorry to be a party pooper, but your cringeworthy videos are embarrassing to other HCPs.

Alsohuman · 26/04/2020 12:08

Or you could do the silly things without posting the videos. I'm finding all this ticktock bullshit a bit annoying tbh

Or you could just not look at Ticktock. Why choose to look at something that annoys you?

Why does so much of MN have to be so relentlessly negative?

MagnoliaJustice · 26/04/2020 12:15

Don't speak for all paramedics.
Don't speak for all HCPs.

I LOATHE the clapping, it's embarrassing and should be for all key workers not just NHS.

I also don't think we should be getting gifts of toiletries and food - we are all working and earning money, and contrary to what some say, no-one is working 24/7. I am perfectly able to go shopping and buy my own stuff. The freebies should go to those without jobs, in financial hardship.

I would also remind any HCP to remember the guidelines on posting stuff like this on any kind of social media.

ApricotCrush · 26/04/2020 12:16

I'm surprised you recommend taking paracetamol for a temperature. I can never understand why it is thought important to 'bring a temperature down'. A fever is the body's natural response to an invasion and the raised temperature will help to kill viral/bacterial attack. Of course paracetamol will make you feel better, but it will also extend the period of the illness because it is preventing your body from fighting it. Disclaimer: This does not apply to small children, as they are at risk of convulsions if a temperature is too high.

Fallsballs · 26/04/2020 12:18

Cringe fest op.
Any valid points are lost in the sea of patronising self grandiosity.
I’m a bit sick of this expectation of fawning and bowing to anyone who professes to be a key worker.
I respect people individually, not as a collective lump.

AllianceOfCorcles · 26/04/2020 12:22

Out of all the various nhs professionals I admire paramedics the most- if it’s still the case they have to self fund for a lot of things inc tests to drive that size vehicle, the pay band they are on is disgraceful imo. They should be on a 7 imo not a 5.

Twattersphere · 26/04/2020 12:22

As an afterthought, are the tik tok posters aware that the app comes from China and is loaded with surveillance and spyware to harvest data?
www.independent.co.uk/life-style/gadgets-and-tech/news/tiktok-china-data-privacy-lawsuit-bytedance-a9230426.html

Lillyloolar · 26/04/2020 12:23

Also the fact he's been to med school and feels he is way above being called an ambulance driver, you would think he can understand that people who haven't been to med school would feel they can ask him advice and opinions when they are bluddy scared!

Alsohuman · 26/04/2020 12:25

Paramedics don’t go to “med school”.

MagnoliaJustice · 26/04/2020 12:27

Please don't advise people to take Imodium for diarrhoea either.

Lillyloolar · 26/04/2020 12:28

Well wherever he got his medical training. Being a big head in one sentence about his title then basically telling frightened people not to ask him what is wrong with them. Just comes across like he's lacking in people skills.

Rhubardandcustard · 26/04/2020 12:28

^
This

Fallsballs · 26/04/2020 12:30

I didn’t think paramedics went to medical school or had doctorates - but op thinks they did...correct me if I’m wrong op.

lightnesspixie · 26/04/2020 12:32

@pocketem why not? I'm a specialist nurse and I recommend it - it's called loperamide! 🙄

Alsohuman · 26/04/2020 12:33

I didn’t think paramedics went to medical school or had doctorates - but op thinks they did...correct me if I’m wrong op

OP says paramedics go to university and get degrees. Factually correct, no?

Sugarpea123 · 26/04/2020 12:34

Oh screw all of you pissing on this post. Thank you if this is you too, thank you to your colleague!

Lillyloolar · 26/04/2020 12:34

I thought they went to uni and did work experience in hospitals and obviously out on the ambulances!

lightnesspixie · 26/04/2020 12:36

And sorry but those imbecilic and highly irritating TikToks in full PPE are mortifying. As a nurse myself I can't think of anything dumber or more insensitive than that. Think about it.

Spiffingly · 26/04/2020 12:38

It's the condescending tone that makes this an awful post, op.
What right does this 'colleague' have to tell people how to conduct themselves!?

And at one point they are talking about facing the deadly risks of the virus like hero's, but then tell us to shut up asking for tests, we probably do have it, probably won't die so stop asking to go to Hospital!

Connie222 · 26/04/2020 12:42

Any paramedic once saved my life so I am eternally greatful but fucking hell, that post made cringe.

If it’s real then that paramedic is a knob.

Hoggleludo · 26/04/2020 12:42

I follow drs on twitter. I even follow my endo and ent dr. All who seem to post hourly on twitter. Which makes me smile

Anyway. It's been massively in the news recently that people are getting help too late. Heart attacks too late. Strokes too late. Infections too late

If you are sick. You feel stupidly sick. But don't have covid. Please at least call a dr

Google heart attack signs. Google stroke signs. Any of those come up. Please please get checked. Although a hospital is not the nicest place to be right now. It's better than you dying!

Connie222 · 26/04/2020 12:43

@lightnesspixie totally agree.

lightnesspixie · 26/04/2020 12:43

@apricotcrush as a medical professional I also recommend this. You will find it is the treatment of choice for pyrexia. Every dr nurse and paramedic would offer that advice. I understand your point though. However paracetamol for a temperature is standard.

pocketem · 26/04/2020 12:50

@lightnesspixie I know what loperamide is. Generally we only prescribe it for chronic diarrhoea associated with GI conditions, cancer treatment or the like. If someone has gastroenteritis or other acute diarrhoeal conditions it's rare that loperamide would be suggested

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