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Stop going out!

487 replies

CurtainWitcher · 24/04/2020 17:13

Watching today's update and the cars usage graph shows that people are starting to drive for non-essential journeys again.

WHY?

Why can't people just stay at home?! Stop driving around! I see people shopping twice a week or more, regularly. WHY?!

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SpratsOnParade · 26/04/2020 17:23

I don't like doing it

Bullshit you don't. You revel in it. People like you scare me more than any virus. You and your fellow Neo-Stasi members are of the same loathsome ilk as those who in the past all too eagerly denounced their neighbours as witches or communists.

Willow2017 · 26/04/2020 17:24

You are allowed to exercise once a day for an hour and that is it. Older people shouldn't even be outside at all.

SInce when?
What do you class as older?

PinkSparklyPussyCat · 26/04/2020 17:25

You are allowed to exercise once a day for an hour and that is it. Older people shouldn't even be outside at all.

Rubbish, please stop making up your own 'rules'.

Mrhodgeymaheg · 26/04/2020 17:27

When the flight ban is lifted@Kasabian23perhaps you should book a flight to China or North Korea as they sound more your sort of place.

Sorry but I couldn't help but chuckle at this. There is a real lack of trust in people, maybe there is a reason people are like this and they can't help it, but I still think it is utterly wrong to shame people on SM unless they are doing something really stupid, like a man antagonising a group of youths and then them kicking the shit out of him in front of my children. That is a good reason to name and shame someone. Please take note curtain twitchers.

Willow2017 · 26/04/2020 17:29

I get that nobody enjoys being inside all the time but I have to do it so everyone else should too. I will report who ever I have to because this needs to be taken more seriously than it is being.

Well considering you got the 'one hour only' rule wrong how the feck do you know why other people are out?
I know someone who goes out for several peoples shopping and collects their medications but it cant all be done at once due to amounts and distances between shops/pharmcies. I bet you would report her for being out more than once a day!

Mind you r own business unless you are 100% sure any actual (not made up by you) guidelines are being breached.

don't like doing it but I have a Mother with diabetes and heart issues, there is no way I am letting irresponsible scrotes on the street get away with flouting the rules and possibly infecting her.
If your mother is staying indoors how the hell does anyone outside going about their own business possible infect her? You have a very weird take on how the virus works!

justasking111 · 26/04/2020 17:30

Wales unlike England has brought in tougher guidelines, once a day for exercise is what they are saying. Scotland may have different rules again.

hopsalong · 26/04/2020 17:45

Just steered my pushchair in a too narrow stretch of pavement on the outside of a fenced off area down Kensington high street because no one, after waiting, was willing to wait to let me get through. I could have pushed through but then would have been very close to other people.

Surprised. Hadn't been out for a few days other than garden/ postbox. Strong smell of weed part of the way. Holland Park full of people having picnics, and children playing hopscotch on a chalked up board.

Go on a bit further and a man is threatening to punch another man. A group of five teenage girls is wandering along in a posse, two holding hands. Multiple people throat clearing etc right by me. No one trying to keep 2m apart. Then get to M&S where I'd been going to do my food shopping and notice part of the shop is open too. So just think fuck it, hurrah! My son hasn't been able to get his old shoes on for a week (hence pushchair), and the ones I bought online were too narrow. Buy shoes gratefully.

No police in sight other than three cars in a convoy going about 70 mph with sirens on. Outside my local, where tables have been left out, a group of 20 somethings are drinking beer and wine from their own glasses.

I think at this point in central London the lockdown is over, transmission is happening because people are hanging out on the streets (more crowded than before because pubs and shops etc are closed, I suppose), and without harsh policing it's hard to see what to do. The policing was aggressive a few weeks ago. Has there been an executive decision (and by whom?) to ease up?

QuimJongUn · 26/04/2020 17:48

@Kasabian23 you ought to be ashamed of yourself. You have no idea why this man was out three times in one day - he may have needed shopping, to top up his key meter, to help a friend or relative, to buy something from one shop he couldn't get from another, exercise... There are so many reasons.

It's worrying that someone who has appointed themselves Curtain Twitcher In Chief has no understanding of the law, too. There is absolutely NOTHING which says you can only stay out for one hour. In fact if you're in England or Scotland there's nothing in law which limits the number of times a day you can leave your home to exercise. The whole of the UK has no legal limit on shopping trips/leaving your home to care others/medical reasons.

You are very fortunate if you can manage to stay in for days or weeks at a time (if that's what you want to do). Some people need to shop several times a week because we don't have cars/have limited mobility/shop for several households, for example.

Stop shaming people at what's already a pretty horrendous time. And sharing pictures of people on the internet is absolutely despicable.

Unworthie · 26/04/2020 17:50

@Kasabian23

Why can't you just ask? Why can't you open a window and just ask him why he's out 3 times in one day? That's what is so utterly ridiculous about all this reporting, all the balls in the world to make an accusation and take a photo, posting it online to shame someone, not so brave though to ask a fucking question eh?!

Maybe because you couldn't stand it if you were wrong and he was actually leaving his home 3 times a day with 'reasonable excuse'?

I'd be more than happy to explain why I've been out twice today. I went for my regular volunteer slot, then half an hour after I got home got a call that someone local was being discharged from hospital and needed supplies from our group. I am the nearest key holder, so I went and made a box up and someone else delivered it.
Mind suppose this person should have just manned up and learned some resilience and we shouldn't have bothered!

trappedsincesundaymorn · 26/04/2020 17:54

Kasabian23

Well aren't you a joy.

My dad is in his 80's and goes for his walk everyday, he maintains social distancing and washes his hands, clothes and walking stick when he gets home. He's been called many things over the years, I'll ask if "irresponsible scrote" is one. I shall look forward to his reply. Grin

HeIenaDove · 26/04/2020 18:16

@hopsalong Kensington and Holland Park. The hell you say.

BatsEars · 26/04/2020 18:19

I haven't read through the entire thread but it's ignorance and selfishness that will no doubt cause a second spike in infection as well as a more stricter lockdown.

Some people are as Ignorant as pigs rolling in shit and have such an ' all about me' attitude.

Absolutely are the government correct in not giving any details re easing the lockdown given how these people are behaving as it is; they'd take any information given as a green light that things were back to normality.

Then, if things were to change course or direction at sudden notice due to medical/ scientific facts, there would be an outcry on of government incompetence and irresponsibility.

It's a no win situation.

PinkSparklyPussyCat · 26/04/2020 18:28

This thread has got very little to do with an all about me attitude, it's more about 'the rules' and dreamt up by the OP and a few others. That and photographing people who dare to walk past a house more than once.

RufustheLanglovingreindeer · 26/04/2020 18:34

I tend to ignore brand new names like kasabian

They are obviously on a wind up

Topseyt · 26/04/2020 18:35

Kasabian, you are making your own rules up as you go along, it seems. You even made up the bit about being allowed out for exercise for an hour.

Why don't you ask the guy why he is out if you are that much of a nosey parker? Or are you afraid that he might just pull you up on your ridiculous behaviour?

I had to go and clean an empty flat today because my tenant moved out about ten days ago. DH was with me. We also went to Screwfix for a couple of essential click and collect items we had each ordered. I rather doubt that that fits within your fictitious "roolz", but I don't give a shit to be honest.

AlexisCarringtonColbyDexter · 26/04/2020 18:44

@Kasabian23

Oh its you. You posted about how we should all be in full lockdown until a vaccine is found and until then why didnt we all just "read a book" and listen to TED talks.

LOLOLOL

userxx · 26/04/2020 18:48

Older people shouldn't even be outside at all

Yeah, you tell that to my parents and be prepared to be told to fuck right off 🤣🤣.

PineappleDanish · 26/04/2020 18:48

there is absolutely no reason to be out that many times at all.

You don't know that. You are assuming and projecting.

You are allowed to exercise once a day

No, you're allowed out as often as you like.

for an hour and that is it.

No, there is no time limit on exercise.

Older people shouldn't even be outside at all.

Older people are free to make their own choices about whether they stay at home. Some have no choice but to carry on about their business as usual.

You really have got the basic facts of the matter wrong and have probably made yourself look very foolish on your local facebook group.

I get that nobody enjoys being inside all the time but I have to do it so everyone else should too. I will report who ever I have to because this needs to be taken more seriously than it is being.

BirdieFriendReturns · 26/04/2020 19:01

Kasabian23 - all of your local FB group must be laughing at you.

PinkSparklyPussyCat · 26/04/2020 20:04

Kasabian23 - all of your local FB group must be laughing at you.

At least she's cheering them up, we all need something to laugh about at the moment!

Shitsgettingcrazy · 26/04/2020 20:10

Kasabian will have been a judgmental nosey neighbour before this.

It just gave her the opportunity to pretend what she is doing is morally superior to others

How the hell would you know who has been out and how many times, unless you were camped out watching out your windows.

Even in lockdown, peolle should have more of a life.

celan · 26/04/2020 21:18

I'd be more than happy to explain why I've been out twice today

Same here. The first time, I went to M&S for food. The second time, I went to have a shag with DP, who doesn't live with me, but lives half an hour's walk away (so that was an acceptable amount of exercise for one afternoon).

Put that in your pipe and smoke it, Kasabian.

Legoandloldolls · 26/04/2020 21:32

I dont live within walking distance of a food shop. There are six of us in our household. It's not possible to not shop for food long term like this. I only started going out once a week to shop in the last two weeks for esstentails. I turn my phone off i am so paranoid about being judged. Why must every journey be non essential? I think a good proportion of the UK would happy to hear news about parents starving their kids to death versus going out.

Everyone has started assuming that everyone else is less cognitively able than themselves. It's faceing these kind of attitudes for a possible year or more that makes looking topping yourself seem.the attractive option right now

BuggerOffAndGoodDayToYou · 26/04/2020 21:34

You are allowed to exercise once a day for an hour and that is it. Older people shouldn't even be outside at all.

There is no time limit on exercise! I HAVE to go out, I have to go to work. Not only that but some of my duties mean there is no way I can be two metres away from everyone. I even have to touch them! I do currently have access to gloves but we cannot get anymore once they’ve been used up. Report away when you see my driving away tomorrow morning and then when I come home and remove all my clothes inside the front door and put them in the washing machine before showering and washing my hair whilst I pray that I haven’t brought anything home to my husband and son......

PickAChew · 26/04/2020 21:47

People suggesting we live out of tins (for the forseeable future)

a) haven't even seen the state of the tinned food aisles in a lot of supermarkets - they're still pretty bare in our nearby coop
b) aren't aware that many shops still have a 3 item limit so stocking up on tins to feed a family of 4 for 2 weeks at a time just isn't happening
c) haven't considered that there's more carrots in 400g of fresh carrots than in a 400g tin of carrots. And that the fresh ones are cheaper.
d) probably have pretty crap diets, most of the time.
e) are most likely trying to get a rise out of people.