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Anyone else loving lockdown life?

225 replies

Purpleorangegerberas · 19/04/2020 14:38

Just that really.
I could happily live like this long term.
I have 2 DC aged 10 and 14 and I love our little cocoon.
Life is so full of hustle and bustle and daily demands and to me this is heaven!
I feel strange for feeling this way, anyone else?

OP posts:
rc22 · 21/04/2020 10:36

I'm not enjoying it as such because I'm worried about elderly relatives and more generally worried about the risk of becoming ill, a downturn in the economy etc but I can't say that I am completely miserable all the time either. I am enjoying the time to do things I don't normally get chance to do.

EngagedAgain · 21/04/2020 13:07

@Eeyoresstickhouse
You have my sympathies. Noisy neighbours is a horrible thing at anytime. What are they like usually? Stay positive, things will get better.

Eeyoresstickhouse · 21/04/2020 13:46

@EngagedAgain they are nightmares and have got worse with lockdown. Normally at least we get a break when we are at work and we are out for most of the weekend. We were due to market the property before lockdown happened and I will be putting it on asap once lockdown ends.

xxyzz · 21/04/2020 15:36

Would be enjoying lockdown were it not for the fact that dh went down with the virus on about day 3 and I've been fighting it off, so that has obviously been stressful.

Attended my first Zoom funeral yesterday. Know of at least one coronavirus death. So that is sad.

But yes, for those of us who are at the more introverted than extroverted end of the spectrum and for those of us fortunate enough to still have jobs and to live with family in a reasonable-sized place with garden, the opportunity to avoid the commute, sit in the garden in nice weather, spend time with family, is appreciated.

I saw a Twitter poll recently suggesting that actually most people were secretly enjoying the lockdown.

Jessuk86 · 21/04/2020 16:07

I think I would if my extension and garden was finished but being caught mid extension with 2 toddlers has been pretty awful at times x

Echo08 · 21/04/2020 16:14

No i'm not at all.Working as a community carer doing my hardest to keep everyone safe .All our team are just going to work and back and that's it .People walking the rural roads i drive in the middle of the road , just please pack it in .My DH is home with our DC's he has stopped working during lock down .I appreciate it is needed to keep and i am happy for it too happen. But please remember OP it isn't a nice time for everyone .It is scary out there .I have worked in care a long time and i love it but at the moment it is scary so you know we can't all be happy in a bubble at home Hmm.

Weetam68 · 21/04/2020 16:18

Wow! .. So many love imprisonment?

Who knew?

It is tragic because the real crisis has not even started yet.

6.5 million predicted unemployed?...Worrying vagueness concerning just when this "lockdown" will end?... A Prime Minister currently AWOL?... Small business utterly destroyed?... 35% drop in national productivity?....

You get the picture I'm sure.

We ain't seen nothing yet

Echo08 · 21/04/2020 16:21

And before anyone says i sound resentful and so on.When i have just watched tv and seen how dire it is in care homes and ppe is getting scarily low .Then i feel this thread is in bad taste , positivity is good but there is a time and a place .

Yesterdayforgotten · 21/04/2020 16:21

Hate it, baby and a 3 year old who doesn't understand why he cant go anywhere. I would possibly like it better childfree or with older dc but it feels alittle cabin feveish as it is.

Yesterdayforgotten · 21/04/2020 16:22

I appreciate i have it so much better than alot of people though.

Yesterdayforgotten · 21/04/2020 16:24

'However, the world outside our 'bubble' is pretty depressing. I am well aware that people are really struggling, full of grief and finding the situation unbearable.
I am also aware that my family or extended family are not immune to this and things could change pretty rapidly for any one of us. At any time.'
This^

CoronaIsComing · 21/04/2020 16:25

I love it for me and my family. we are both WFH and DH’s work is busier than ever. DS (10) is going above and beyond with homeschooling and his school has been fantastic. He’ll head off to his Grammar School in Sept with a flying start so it’s actually the best thing that could happen to him right now as it’d be all SATs at school at the moment. We’re pulling together so we’ll as a family and we have a beautiful garden, perfect weather and beach walks a few minutes walk away. We’ve had loads of BBQs instead of eating out and we’re saving a fortune. The downside is our holiday to Canada was cancelled 😢. Our family are all in good health and obeying social distancing rules.

I’ll be glad when it’s over for those who are suffering though.

Echo08 · 21/04/2020 16:27

Weetham yes i think you are pretty spot on sadly .

xxyzz · 21/04/2020 16:59

Lockdown is not fun if:

  • you have the virus
  • you have lost your job and don't have enough money to pay the rent/eat
  • you have sick relatives
  • you work in healthcare or care
  • you live in a tiny flat or bedsit with no outdoor space
  • you are suffering domestic abuse
  • you live on your own with no human contact
  • you or your family have some other illness which is not being treated
  • you have mental health issues exacerbated by lockdown
  • you are a single parent trying to work around young dcs
etc
EngagedAgain · 21/04/2020 17:15

@Eeyoresstickhouse,
Use the thought that you will move keep you going. I endured noise for years, so I know how hellish it can be.

Antibles · 21/04/2020 17:20

Imprisonment? That's the thing though. Some people, by being physically restricted, are being freed from various artificial social and mental strains, restrictions, pressures.

I am hugely enjoying being freed from my childrens' after school commitments. No clock watching, no nagging, no taxiing with hectic traffic conditions stressing me out. The freedom to cook dinner whenever I feel like it rather than squashing it into some tiny stressed window.

The gentle satisfaction of foraging successfully for meal ingredients and having the time and energy to cook a nutritious meal. Normally I see shopping and cooking as a chore not an achievement, when in fact they are crucial activities and deserve their current billing.

Everyone sitting down together and, being a bit conversationally starved and having no other evening commitments , all chatting together for longer than usual. My teenagers relaxed because they are getting up two hours later and getting enough sleep - the tyranny of early mornings is another imprisonment really. I get to bed earlier and wake up before my alarm so I know I'm refreshed.

I've been enjoying gardening and listening to the birdsong. Admittedly the current weather helps. The world is quieter which is a pleasure. The air is cleaner. The freedom from feeling like I 'should' be ploughing through my list of things to do. Less doing, more being. I've read two books! I've written letters to people. This is all whilst working four days a week still. A couple of stressful people-facing aspects of my job have temporarily disappeared which also means I feel calmer.

I am not anti-social but by nature I am an introvert and happy with my own company for good stretches of time. Perhaps the current situation suits those of a more introverted personality.

I am well aware of the misery out there and that I may not end up short of my own. I have taken a big financial hit but am lucky to have been comfortable to start with. All the above is about appreciating current daily silver linings for me.

Ginfordinner · 21/04/2020 17:41

But we don't all have the same life that you did pre lockdown Antibles.
The only difference for our family is that DD is home from university, and studying online, and I am working from home.

The only thing I don't miss is my commute on the M1.

CoughKeepsOnComing · 21/04/2020 17:41

No!! I hate it :)

Iamamoleinahole · 21/04/2020 17:46

Me. I love it. Music. Reading. Traffic free cycling.

The wildlife is everywhere including the roads and on the footpaths.

It is a lot quieter, less pollution, no traffic noise, no planes flying.

InTheShadiws · 21/04/2020 17:47

Sounds like a lot of people were creating unecessary work/pressure for themselves and their children if it's a massive relief to the whole family not to take children to after school activities.

SinisterBumFacedCat · 21/04/2020 18:03

I’m an introvert, I’m built for this. I can quite happily self entertain. I acknowledge absolute I am lucky enough to have a garden. However enough Celebs have been crying on the doorsteps of their mansions and scrambling to get onto tv for attention, to show that home comforts doesn’t necessarily guarantee you can deal with lockdown. It’s not perfect, I’m very worried about my DF in his care home, and I’ve had dental pain on and off which I’m uncertain when I will get to see a dentist. But if staying home is what I need to do then I can do it well, it’s quite nice to be told to be a lazy introverted git, than be pressurised not to be like normal.

hopeishere · 21/04/2020 18:08

I am a working from home so that is stressful and all the social media posts about yoga / baking and quality time are getting on my tits.

However we have got into a routine so it's not too bad.

We are very, very lucky to have no money worries.

GrolliffetheDragon · 21/04/2020 19:14

I am enjoying it mostly, but mainly because I'm making the best of a bad situation, before it gets too bad for us as a family.

We could lose family members if they catch it, both our jobs are at risk, DH is almost certain to lose his. But right now we have food, somewhere to live, reasonable health (though DH is in the vulnerable category), a garden and nice weather, so I see no point in sitting round being depressed before we have to be. There are moments late at night when DS is asleep when I'm not ok, but for the most part I'm managing and even having fun.

I also don't really like being around people so much so I'm not suffering from lack of social interaction. The worst thing is not having enough time on my own as I do need that and now have basically none.

Iamamoleinahole · 21/04/2020 21:08

Our ancestors lived through far worse when life was much shorter and harder.

Don’t come here if you feel happy.

Ginfordinner · 21/04/2020 23:00

Sounds like a lot of people were creating unnecessary work/pressure for themselves and their children if it's a massive relief to the whole family not to take children to after school activities.

I think you are right Iamamoleinahole

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